co-worker (he's 21) and oh what a muscular bod he has, has been showing interest in me. He bumps into me in the hallway, picks up things I drop, even has gone as far as asking me to lunch. It has been a little rough at home lately. What do I do?
2006-09-24 12:06:24 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to tell you all he wants is sex. Would it not be better someone wanting you for yourself and not kind of skinny clothing you wear to show yourself?
2006-09-24 12:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Krinta 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do what you would want your husband to do if the tables were turned. Regardless of how attractive you are you should dress professionally at work. Which does not include short skirts and high heels. You are sending out signals that you want to be noticed by showing skin and acting like an innocent, "coy" girl who is naive enough to think men don't react to the smell of meat. Do what you would want your husband to do if a young attractive woman was acting like you . By the way ....any horney 21 year old, or any man for that matter can smell C-N - and can read the signals that any attractive, or not, married, or not... woman sends when she wears short skirts & high heels to work advertizing that if he makes the right pass he could have a free taste from the ho . "They" will talk after you cross the line...they will talk about that married hussy who cheated on her husband and was just another piece of meat to the 21 year old that she couldn't keep her hands off of...and he will refer to you as the old lady.....he screwed at work. If you think it could have a happy ending you are living in LA-LA LAND!
2006-09-24 15:22:22 · answer #2 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone your own age, for starters, short skirts don't mean you actually have the body of a 20 year old woman. And you know he doesn't have the mind of a 42 year old man. As they say, sooner or later you have to talk.
If its rough at home, work it out or end it. But don't think junior there is going to be the answer. Never mess around where you work, unless you want everyone knowing your business.
2006-09-24 12:14:34 · answer #3 · answered by justa 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Seems to be a pretty popular area of conduct. even middle school teachers are finding the young ones attractive... lots of things to consider here... If you dally, there is always the possibility that it will eventually be discovered.. What would the income of a 21 year old do for your style of living? Have to also remember, a 21 year old is looking for a fling, not responsibility.
2006-09-24 12:11:19 · answer #4 · answered by mrcricket1932 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your husband is already aware that you may cheat, based on what you wear to work. you already express low self-respect for yourself and your marriage, and this 21 year old is giving the attention you asked for. Once you let him get ya, he'll be done with you. Marriage is rough and it will still be rough when your through playing whore. Sorry to be so rough-reality bites.
2006-09-24 12:29:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 42 and asking a question like this? Come on lady you know damned well what the guy wants and what you're gonna do to your marrage. Do you really want to blow you marrage over a young horney punk. If you did marry the guy when you're 80 he is going to be 60 who do you think you gonna get to have sex with him because you sure as hell will not be able to.
2006-09-24 12:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by roy40372 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would fix home first. If it is unfixable then close out that relationship. Lying & cheating will not make it better. And please remember that this is a 21 year old boy that might be in it for a piece of *ss. Either way you go, be careful and good luck!
2006-09-24 12:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh if I were you I would start wearing longer skirts pump shoes maybe big sweaters and walk with a bit of a limp.
Act your age and give me a call! LOL
2006-09-24 12:12:19 · answer #8 · answered by r g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bang the boy one of the finest women i remember is when i was just out of jump school an older women named Cathy took an int rest we had a lot of fun i still think of her from tI'me to time time and im 39 GO FOR IT DESPERATE HOUSE WIVES AND ALL
2006-09-24 12:16:11 · answer #9 · answered by soldierof the 82ndAirborne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have some doubts, is because you want to give him an opportunity.
but you are supposed to be honest in your marriage.
and at last, he just like to play with you, and then give you a kick.
(bye the way, how old are you? 15, 16, 17? Your question is one of a teen)
2006-09-24 12:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a married woman - until you're not a married woman, you do NOTHING - you're not helping things by wearing revealing clothing but I can't fault you for trying to look good - you are not a single 21 year old, be true to your vows and your husband and do nothing - do not put yourself in the situation where you'll be tempted
2006-09-24 12:09:09 · answer #11 · answered by Big Buddy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋