I don't know what to do I have no car no job and no money can you give me some advise?
2006-09-24 11:22:08 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, You obviosly have a computer still, may wanna quit asking peoples advice and check out some shelters or something?
2006-09-24 11:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by conniechung 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What do u mean he just kicked u out. I cant believe in this day and age someone could be that passive. First,the very first thing is speak to a lawyer,if u cant afford it and u say u cant (their r community agencies that could give u advice and give u legal help. ( In Canada) anyway. Apply for intermin custody of ur son before he does. This is done in Canada through the family court system. Good luck Curious 2006
2006-09-24 18:34:08 · answer #2 · answered by Curious 2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can not just kick you out. That is your home as well as his. You and he are MARRIED and you have a child and you are pregnant. If you wanted to go back, you have every right to. Legally, he has no right to say you can not live in that house unless you two divorced and the judge ordered you out. Try to find some relatives or friends to stay with. If that is not an option, there are plenty of shelters that would take you in especially since you have a child and another one on the way. Meanwhile, threaten to take him to court. You have no job, no car and no money--which tells me he was taking care of you. You are his wife. Since you were married to him and he was taking care of you and right now you have no way to take care of yourself, you can get spousal support from him for sure; and because he was your husband at the time you got pregnant, you can get child support from him until your baby is born and a paternity test is done (if he may be claiming it is not his). You should be on your computer trying to find out every thing you can about your legal rights and I would visit my local district attorney's office to find out more about my options as far as spousal and child support. Any money, cars, property that he has, you are also entitled to. I would go take everything I need--some cash, a car if he has two, some furniture maybe, pawn some jewelry. He can call the police but since what is his is also yours, they can't do much--it is up to the courts and not them to solve and distribute everything. He is lucky to have done that to a woman like you who is probably calm, rational and not insane, because he would be messed up trying to kick me out with my child and my unborn child because I would have lost it, He would have had to physically lift me up and throw me out and then I would have called the police and told them to advise him to keep his hands off me before they take his a** to jail.
2006-09-24 18:48:26 · answer #3 · answered by Christa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly if you have no car, no job and no money... something is wrong here. If you have family or friends you might think about staying with them. As far as your son goes, you need to work to support him, right??? As soon as you get somewhere to stay, you need to work on getting a job. Being dependent on someone SUCKS... most of the time for both people involved.
2006-09-24 18:30:33 · answer #4 · answered by ~Crystal~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of good answers given so far. To give you specific help, perhaps you can tell us where you're located? This board has people from many different countries as well as states and cities so it's hard to give you exact information that can perhaps help you right now without knowing where you are.
2006-09-24 19:11:21 · answer #5 · answered by tonyend2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your local women help groups or your church for immediate emergency help. This is an emergency and take whatever help you can get for now.Remember its only temporary. Then sue him for divorce and everything your entitled to. You should be granted custody of the children with support, and the house and possible spousalsupport, unless youve been charged with child or drug/mental abuse. Contact your states legal aid assoc for help with the divorce and legal advice. Good luck
2006-09-24 18:41:34 · answer #6 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have relatives you could stay with? Do you both own the house? Then he cant kick you out, you need to find an lawyer
2006-09-24 18:26:36 · answer #7 · answered by Spread Peace and Love 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out the reason why he kicked you out, contact relatives to help you, and also let him know you are pregnant and make him happy to look after you and kid
2006-09-24 18:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your pregnant - work while you can or get some assistance, and try to set your self up the best way you can if he is not gonna help. If he won't help get child support going.
2006-09-24 18:27:10 · answer #9 · answered by questionable 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CONNIECHU..... have you see her profile???? she would have went to Libary to ask for help!.... she just new that her first question she answered.
Ok, I think that you need to contact yoru family memeber to help you. that is the first thing you need to do. If you need more help or what ever it is and I need to know where you are which state and more information. My is greenbaypackers1971@hotmail.com. I do my best to help you more.
2006-09-24 18:33:27 · answer #10 · answered by greenbaypackers1920 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋