this girl makes him her world she puts him before everything even school and work sometimes. She's doesn't become a full time student or look for a part- time job because she claims it will be less time that she would be able to spend with her boyfriend. she neglects going out with her friends becuse she rather stay at home by the phone waiting for him to call. her bofriend even tells her that she needs to get out more and be more social. she and her boyfrind are only 20 yrs old but when she was 17 she lost another boyfriend that she had and she lost all her friends and it took her at least a year to regain the broken friendships what can i do to make her realize that she doens't need to make him her world especially when there are no planes on getting married. how can i make her realize that she needs to get her own life aside from him. ( i think this is so sad )
2006-09-24 04:11:25 · 8 answers · asked by alizenena 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Usually when you are in love that person does get the attention. Just remind her that you are there for her and that you miss her and would like to hang out sometime. It wouldn't hurt to remind her of what happened last time and that she should becareful this time as well. ~Good Luck~
2006-09-26 14:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you need to realize that your friend is falling in love and it is natural that she put this person in priority. It sounds to me as if you are jealous of your friend's new boyfriend. Give your friend a break. School can always be picked back up at a later date and true friends will stick by her. If she lost friends over a boyfriend then were they ever really her friends?
2006-09-24 04:27:43 · answer #2 · answered by Ethan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is sad too, she is wasting her life even if they had plans to marry, she still needs a life. Maybe try to explain to her that if she got interested in herself, friends and her own life she would not be boring to him and he want drop her. A guy or a girl does not need a clinging vine nor do they want one..If she got busy with other things, that would even give them more to share. I;m sure if she stays this way, he will be bored to death with her and begone. Maybe if you explain that a guy likes a girl who is interesting she will snap out of it.
2006-09-24 04:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad, but as her friend all you can do is be supportive of her decisions or lose her. She is still young enough to learn that even making him her top priority...she can still get hurt.
We learn and grow and that is what life is about, learning from our mistakes. Sooner or later she'll wisen up to the fact that men are not everything.
2006-09-24 04:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by rdhedhottie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is none of your business and it you continue you will lost a friend just be there when it is over and NEVER tell her you should have listen. You job is to listen not to give unasked advice.
2006-09-24 04:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by Errolyn27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she is a leech and cannot fend for herself. She needs someone to latch onto all the time. She really needs to work on her self-confidence and build herself up to rely on herself.
2006-09-24 04:16:27 · answer #6 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Really not your call. Just be there for her when he dumps her.
2006-09-24 04:16:21 · answer #7 · answered by jassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she can figure that out on her own....it's called "live and learn"
2006-09-24 05:02:52 · answer #8 · answered by raffi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋