My husband and i been married for one year. It seem like are love life is going down. he dont kiss me are hug me but about once out of a week . I know he is not cheating but what is it?
2006-09-24 14:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
d i c k heads
2006-09-24 14:40:46 · answer #1 · answered by dreamy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's like the Superbowl, they work hard until they get the "ring".
just kidding. It isn't uncommon for this sort of thing to happen but you are lucky that the issue is coming up now and not 10 years from now when they have established a bad routine. Talk to him and tell him truthfully how it makes you feel and ask him if that is his intention? Men can be Neanderthals when it comes to the emotions. Tell him what you like and what you want. Don't be accusatory or he will go on the defensive. Give him an out by allowing him to pretend (if that's the case) that he wasn't aware of it and let him correct the behavior. Also, nothing prevents you from initiating sex or approaching him with affection. Don't always wait on him. Sometimes all it takes is a little encouragement. He may have gotten the wrong impression and thinks that you don't want him to touch you etc...
Don't give up. Try talking and initiating first.
2006-09-24 15:54:40 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chase is over, he already has you. men don't always have to be the romantic ones. sweep him off of his feet, do something wild and crazy. this can give your relationship the spark it needs. then talk to him about romance, with men you cant enforce it, then he feels like he's just doing it because you told him, which is true. However, most are good at returning the favor if you romance him every now and then.
2006-09-24 15:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think all men do this. my husband didn't. maybe the spontaneous flowers don't happen that much, but for kissing and hugging and other things we are pretty much the same as ever, after 8 years!
2006-09-24 14:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by advicemom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should spent time and how much you perish him and love him too,
like bring him some food at work or called him how much you love him and care for him.
2006-09-24 14:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by jwtaz1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly i guess they get tired of the same girl and p ussy'' the more sexy you get and hot they arent into it like before!!
2006-09-24 14:41:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋