It sounded like he was making out with another women. Some of it I could understand clearly and some of it I couldnt. Is there anyway I can have this message slowed down so that I can maybe figure out what might be going on. I really need to know if he is cheating on me. Because if he is, I will be filing for a divorce.
2006-09-24 15:47:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
EEK i would be freaking out about now...Call the phone company and ask, heck i cant my messages on my cellphone and the box is full....
2006-09-24 16:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just ask him about the call. Then start to open your eyes and look at his pattern of behavior. How often is he away from you? Is there sufficient time for him to be involved with another person? Does he work many over-time hours? Have you ever caught him in a lie? Sometimes the proof is obvious. Unless someone is a a good liar, it is difficult to have an affair. My wife did it and I was unaware because I wasn't looking for it. But I did research on the net and the pattern was very clear and when I started to question her, she couldn't keep up with her lies - she was tripping over her own tracks. It was actually comical at that point. Needless to say I am divorced now and even though I don't recommend that for anyone, I would rather be alone than to live with a woman who lacked integrity.
2006-09-24 16:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, if this call was made accidently and you heard another women's voice, save yourself the trouble of a private investigator and call him on it. Ask him what the hell was going on and who was the other person he was with. You know your huband better than any of us. If he doesn't have a good explanation that you can verify, he's lying and probably cheating too. You can take pain staking task of following him and doing what all women in your shoes do, or you can trust your intuition, that has been raising these questions all along and just end it. Nobody wants to be with someone they can't trust. It leads nowhere and you'll just end up unhappy.
2006-09-24 16:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-09-25 03:10:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hire someone that's super exciting or take a day off work and follow him yourself then you don't have to pay someone and you know how to catch him totally off guard , if hes doing something but maybe you should just ask him and trust him. You guys are married and to marry someone there needs to be a trust...so unless your marriage has been on the rocks I would just trust him.
2006-09-24 15:53:54 · answer #5 · answered by chemicalbrothers13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is no way to find out what was really going on, just keep your eyes open. Don't let your heart overrule your mind. If he is indeed cheating on you, believe me you will soon find out. Just be aware of what is going on around you. If he is away with unexplained missing time? If he is becoming distant? If you are not making love as you once did? Just keep your eyes open. Good luck!
2006-09-24 15:58:16 · answer #6 · answered by TNW22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People do accidentally make cellphone calls. My mom does it all the time & I listen to her singing along with the radio in her car.
If he was "busy" he probably didn't notice he had called you.
Where was he suppose to be at the time of the call? Find out where he was suppose to be & then see if you can find out if he was really there.
2006-09-24 15:55:46 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you would even think about divorcing him over something so small and silly when you dont know what the story is is ludicrous. Ask him, not us...and then trust until you get burnt unless you know things are real bad then this is just an excuse for finality.
2006-09-24 17:16:53 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've read a lot of others answers... but there are glitches to many of them in real-life settings. I say trust your instincts - use your intuition. What does your gut tell you? I asked my husband straight out about his lady (my instincts were screaming, by the way) and he told me I was crazy. Convinced me of it. Several months, many business trips later, I called his hotel room and she answered the phone. I hope this is NOT the case for you -- but if your instincts are telling you one thing - sort out the fear, and listen to what's left...
2006-09-24 16:43:22 · answer #9 · answered by Juzt_b_238 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to put yourself on his situation then analyze what will happen..well, you have to learn to accept every li'l thing that passes through on your relationship. There are somethings that you have to sacrifice on dealing with it.What I'm trying to say is , if you really want to be with this person forever then you should'nt give yourself any questions that can put negative thoughts in you coz it might end up terribly on how you interact with your daily routines and of course with him. Prayers is the only weapon that can easily put away all thenegative vibes that will come your way...God bless!!!!
2006-09-24 16:13:35 · answer #10 · answered by DIMPLES 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋