Curious to see how many people here saved sex for marriage.
How do you think it affected your relationship?
Do you regret it, or are you glad?
Are you still together? How long?
How long were you together before you got married?
My husband and I didnt make it to marriage, but he is the only man i have ever been with, and I have no regrets. I totally respect people who wait til marriage, and am curious to hear your experiences
2006-09-24 15:02:45 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
lol, to the first answerer. yes, orgasms are abundant. in fact, we climaxed silmultaneously the very first time we slept together. booyah, my man has skills.
2006-09-24 15:06:25 · update #1
blah blah blah...good for you. I hope you've experienced good orgasms though.
2006-09-24 15:04:49 · answer #1 · answered by JabbaTheButt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nope didn't save myself nor did my wife. And it didn't affect our relationship. Neither one of us have any regrets about that aspect of our lives We have been together for 24 years. We were together for 8 years before getting married. And if I had to do it all over I would have more partners and I would encourage my wife to do the same. I believe that you must know what you are giving up in order to appreciate what you are getting.
Besides there are a lot more things involved with marriage than just sex...
2006-09-24 16:24:13 · answer #2 · answered by Wes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't save myself until marriage. I sorta regret it. I didn't marry until I was 28 and my husband was 35. First marriage for both. He has never asked how many or who I've been with and I haven't asked him. ( we can't change it so why ask. It would just start something) We dated almost a year before we married. It took him 2 months to ever kiss me but after that he seemed to get over his shyness real quick!! We have been married for 6 yrs and people tell me all the time what beautiful children we have.
2006-09-24 15:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by ArkyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I didn't save myself for marriage. But if I could go back and do it again, I would have. My husband is the only partner that was worth while. It didn't affect my relationship with him one way or another. Yes we are still together. We will be celebrating our ten year anniversary in January. We were together for almost three years before we got married.
2006-09-24 15:44:58 · answer #4 · answered by ~SSIRREN~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I didn't wait. My ex and I dated for 3 years before marrying. We were together for 20 long, miserable years (he was very abusive, a liar and cheater, etc). I am now with someone that is totally different than him, and no I didn't wait until marriage for 'sex.' I want to know ahead of time if I am sexually compatible with him or not. If not, then I don't see it working at all. I love sex too much to be with someone that it won't work out well in that department with. I am NOT saying that sex is the most important aspect of a realtionship, because it ISN'T. I am saying that it is a good sized part of the relationship and that if you aren't compatible in 'that department' then it can cause problems later. At least that's my opinion.
2006-09-24 15:09:07 · answer #5 · answered by honey 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-18 00:17:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had sex with one woman. We didn't go all the way until we were married. Yes I'm still glad that I waited. We have been married 43 years. I think we went together for about 8 months before we got married. I was 26 and she was 22. Yes we were virgin's until we got married
2006-09-24 15:20:46 · answer #7 · answered by Alien 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have no regrets. When I was 16, I was seduced by a 23 year old woman. I enjoyed it at the time. And, I still have fond memories of that experience. I thought I had become a man and was ready to take care of all the women. No one forgets their first sex experience.
2006-09-26 11:24:03 · answer #8 · answered by Dwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i did...my husband and i dated for about a year before we got married. I am glad that i waited and have no regrets. We have been together almost 18 years now!
2006-09-24 15:16:52 · answer #9 · answered by katydid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did wait. I think it's great that I did. I don't reget it, I am glad. We are still together. We've been married for 2 years next February. We were together 2 years before we got married.
2006-09-24 15:05:26 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Lady Beth*~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! Anyway, I ended up married to my high school sweetheart anyway. It didn't work out, but that had nothing to do with sex. I've been with several men, each an experience in their own right. I have no regrets. I married the right one in the end. We've been together for 10 years, and happy in the bedroom together.
I don't believe in saving yourself for marriage. I will be teaching my children to save themselves for someone who they will be willing to share their vulnerable and intimate moments with, but not for marriage necessarily. People get too hung up on what their virginity means to them. It overshadows their overall sexuality, and prevents exploring their options.
Don't get me wrong. I do understand that for some people, saving themselves for marriage is what makes them feel fulfilled. Everyone has to live by their own values. I can respect anyone who lives by their values, even if those values are different from my own.
2006-09-24 16:01:15 · answer #11 · answered by burpolicious 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋