my boyfriend cheated on me and i found out when i was 3 months pregant and the othergril was 4 months pregant now my baby is 6 weeks and i get mad when the other baby come around sometimes i'm cool with it should i be mad should i leave him it just hurt so bad i need help!!!!1
2006-09-24 15:42:52 · 15 answers · asked by charod06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
dump him
2006-09-24 15:45:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy Cow Honey, I'm sorry but you was crazy to stay with after you found all that out. EVEN if you was pregnant. What a jerk!! I'd let him go, I'd take my baby, find a job, and take care of it myself and show the piece of ..... that you don't need him. And theres no way, shape or form should YOU have to be cool with it.. YOU SHOULD BE LIVID, is that a better word than MAD.. YOu should be outraged. oh gosh, I'm mad for you! I'm using caps! Honey, don't think you need him, and have to stay for that baby. You can do it on your own! Just get outta that relationship before its too late. Because its not gonna get better.
2006-09-24 23:35:53 · answer #2 · answered by AngWings 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the other baby's fault so don't take it out on him. You should make a life of your own for you and your child. Usually one of the things that a cheating mate would need to do is to cut off all contact with the person he/she cheated with. In your case though that will be impossible for the next 18+ years. Either learn to deal with it or just start over.
2006-09-24 22:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl once mistrust comes in love goes out!!!!! Your relationship is damaged thats the worst he could of did to you. I do commend you for being a strong women and trying to stick by your man but how much can a ***** take!!!! We as women sometimes let our heart be a mans piñata!!! Every time you see his other child it is going to hurt you and believe if he cheated once he will do it again. That is the worse possible thing he could of did you are way better than that girl!!! Cry a river build a bridge and get over it.
2006-09-28 17:21:40 · answer #4 · answered by MizModelMaterial 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer to this one, hun. Anyone can make a mistake, true. But not only did he cheat on you, he didn't use protection. How do you know he hasn't done it before or won't do it again? He could've caught something.
Do you need that in your life? Especially now that you have a kid, do you want the baby exposed to all the drama?
Please think about that one. Best, G.
2006-09-24 22:51:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im really sorry about your situation. thats why sex is better only in marriage. That way you have probably known the person better, and there is a greater level of commitment. If you just give it up without holding him accountable, what motivation does he have to stay true to you and stick by you? Learn a valuable lesson from this one. If you arent willing and able to raise a child with the person, you shouldnt be sleeping with them.
2006-09-24 22:47:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people make mistakes. do not blame your childs sibling for your boyfriends err. It probably does hurt terribly but work through your anger and let him know how much he hurt you. give him another chance...just don't let your guard down again. also don't forget that right now you are probably a little more emotional than normal. wait a few months for your hormones to balance out before making any rash decisions.
2006-09-24 22:56:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start a better life for you and your child and leave him
Sometimes you have to do the hard thing in order to heal yourself.
This isn't the other baby's fault or it's mother's fault....the person who broke his commitment to you is your boyfriend.
2006-09-24 22:55:05 · answer #8 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That samething happened to me and i stayed and we got married and have been together for 8 yrs and i still think about it. It well never leave your mind.
2006-09-24 23:16:25 · answer #9 · answered by love_sucks_21_2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature and irresponsible. I know it's hard but take him to court for child support. You're better than that.
2006-09-24 22:46:35 · answer #10 · answered by triciasdish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you musn't get mad because it could affect your baby and you just have to accept what happened. it's to late to go back anymore. you should leave him cause he's a playboy and he is irresponsible
2006-09-24 22:48:40 · answer #11 · answered by yesha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋