even with his friends.and when i ask him to cut it out.he apologizes and say he trust me but dont trust them.he says he sees them in action all the time and cant trust them around me.his friends think im an anti social because i dont talk to them when they come to the house.but i am just trying to keep the peace.what is that all about?
2006-09-24 15:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well consider that these are his friends and he probably knows how they are around women so he's just trying to protect u from them because he's a bit insecure and doesn't want to lose u.
2006-09-24 15:20:28 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure. Just smile and tell him you care for him, now about the way you don't talk to his friends because he doesn't like it-don't do that. This only gives him control over you, and you aren't doing anything wrong. This will only get worse if you cave into it, it is his insecurity it is not yours. Make him deal with it by talking to everyone and being friendly, at the same time letting him know that you care for only him. He needs to get a grip on it now and you don't want to be controlled like this.
2006-09-24 22:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by trainer53 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is insecure and afraid of losing you. Also, he does know his buddies real well and how they work. Maybe his last girlfriend ran off with someone else and he is scared that you will do the same. If it gets to be uncomfortable for you, or if he gets violent in any way, go get counseling....him too.
2006-09-24 22:18:37 · answer #3 · answered by greeneyes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be that he is very insecure with himself or he loves you so much that he's afraid of having to share you with other men and i don't mean sexually.maybe your overly friendly and giving other men the wrong idea.i went out with someone like that before and it used to bother me a lot when we were out and about and there were other men around.i confronted her about it but she said it was just her nature and i didn't believe it.5 years later i broke up with her and she asked why.there is nothing wrong with being nice but it can be taken too far.why are you out talking with other guys anyway,maybe because you like the attention.you have a boyfriend that cares a lot about you so have more respect towards his feelings.appreciate him more.he is human to and he has needs like attention and he needs to be reasured once in awhile that you care about him.don't go out of your way to get attention,your boyfriend is there to give you all you need and then some. good luck pete
2006-09-24 22:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by THE SHADOW 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if his friends are like man hoes or something,then he's just trying to protect your guys' relationship, however you shouldn't be completely restricted from talking to other guys....he's not in control of you..don't give him that power,just tell him that you know when to draw a line and you know that if one of the guys does you know to walk awawy from the situation..
there's a reason you're with him and not his friends
2006-09-24 22:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by ArmyGirlfriend 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his insecurities..... it'll never change i left mine after almost a year after all that....
2006-09-24 22:14:16 · answer #6 · answered by Will 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because all men think about is sex
2006-09-24 22:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
INSECURE
2006-09-24 22:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by Han Solo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋