Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2006

2006-09-08 08:47:35 · 48 answers · asked by 2strongfor2long 3

Hi,
I am currious...is anyone you know happily married who was initially back and forth when it came to marriage? My fiance comes from a broken home and she goes through phazes of total commitment and seeming like she really can't wait to marry me and then doubt and worry. She begged me to propose for a long time and then when I did, she started acting weird and stand offish. Then she admitted that she was very affraid because even people that seem to be "perfect" together for a long time can have horrible things happen later on that end in divorce. Recently, her brother's seemingly happy marriage ended when his wife said she had been cheating for a while. She completely changed into a monster that was never even thought imaginable. I understand my fiance's worry, considering her family situation, but can someone overcome this in any way? Does anyone have a simmilar story? Thanks.

2006-09-08 08:46:19 · 6 answers · asked by John W 1

My girlfriend broke up with me and I feel like I can't take the emotional pain.

2006-09-08 08:45:54 · 12 answers · asked by james l 1

I live with my boyfriend, but I want to leave him, as there's nothing there anymore. I have two daughters that are not close to him, but he has a son and doughter who are close to me. How can i leave without making it so hard?

2006-09-08 08:44:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

We dated for 10 years and have been married for almost 5. I don't love him anymore but I don't hate him either. I am so unhappy and I am afraid to tell him I want out. I told him this in February, he begged for me to give him another chance which I did but it's no use. I want out. I am so chicken to tell him.

2006-09-08 08:44:15 · 13 answers · asked by anonymous 1

I think I drive her crazy because I want to have sex with her CONSTANTLY. Hey, don't get me wrong here, we do it all the time but I want her more because she is so HOT!!! I would also like to add that I am head over heels in love with her and I just can't get enough of her. What should I do? I am using my wife profile for this question

2006-09-08 08:42:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 08:36:35 · 55 answers · asked by Anonymous

My best friend's husband just left her a couple of weeks ago. She wants me to move in with her. Now she recently got back together with her first husband and he is moving in with her. She still wants me to come and live with her. She has a little boy that is six and I have 2 sons one is 3 and one is 8. I really wanted to stay with her because my marriage is ending because I found out that my husband has been trying to get with other girls. Should I stay with my husband and hope he quits trying to get with other girls or should I move in with my best friend?

2006-09-08 08:33:34 · 13 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5

2006-09-08 08:32:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 08:31:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 08:28:47 · 47 answers · asked by Philippus ogborielemoso 1

i am a man that needs personal time to just think at times afther spending sum time with my wife we have a great time but aftherwards i just need time to myself she thinks its cuz i dont love her but i just need to think at times think about life where life is going and other stressful things is this wrong in my onpnion i think its respectful to give each other space i think there needs to be a balance she takes it as i dont want to be married and desire to be single serious answers only ty

2006-09-08 08:27:45 · 22 answers · asked by OFFICER CAMPBELL 2

get final paperwork that day. I want to remarry but I don't know how long to wait. I don't want all bullshit answers I have been seperated a long time and I love my fiance and I don't want to be 30 when I have kids he loves me and wants to be married before we start trying... So how long before I can get married again???

Thank You

2006-09-08 08:26:26 · 19 answers · asked by Raineybaby 4

I am 25 years old, I have been working in a law firm of one of my dad's friends for about 6 monthes. I am married, and I have a 3 month old little girl. I am the only woman who works at the firm as an attorney and the youngest there, most of the guys are 30+. During my six monthes there, there have been several parties and social functions connected to the firm. During the last monthes, the wives of the other members have become very mean to me. Most of them are housewives who have never worked a day in thier lives. They totally exclude me, one called me a "bad mother" even though my husband is a stay at home dad and an ausome father! They always knitpick at me, saying nasty remarks about my clothing, look etc. There was a party that one of them held for all of the wives of the firm, and I wasn't even invited, they completely exluded me. I don't get what is going on?? I am always very nice and get a long with all of the guys that I work with very well. Why are these women so mean?

2006-09-08 08:14:25 · 24 answers · asked by Rose 4

He is the love of my life. It has been the best of times and the worst of times. We almost divorced 5 months ago. He spent 5 years trying to give me a child I always wanted even though he did not want kids. He was diagnosed with early onset Parkinson's Disease at age 38, two months before our daughter was born via a surrogate mother. He is financially successful and it is very difficult to to buy him gifts because he doesn't really need much and he always prefers that I don't spend a lot of money. I don't know how to let him know how much I appreciate and adore him. He is going through a difficult time in his life from every angle

2006-09-08 08:13:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm feeling sad today. Yesterday, me and my Husband had a big argument. Too make things short, a lot of words were exchanged some of which left me broken-hearted and analyzing what went wrong. My question to you married people is, it considered normal for some couples to cuz and name call when you argue. I guess I ask this because my Husband called me a bit@h, said F-You, told me to pack my $hit up and get the Fu@k out of here if you don't like it, and gave me the middle finger. My husband tends to say these things when we argue and no matter how much I talk with him nothing seems to change. I love him very much and overall he's a good person but I feel he has an anger management problem. What do you think? Is this common in Marriage? Does he have anger issues? Or does he not love me anymore? We made up now and he says he loves me and that he's sorry but I'm so heart-broken this time. Thanks, any help or advice would be apreciated.

2006-09-08 08:13:35 · 40 answers · asked by Yahoo Anwers 5

bf calls me up to vent about his job.

he doesn't even work full time lately and his is complaining about working bc he wants to go home even though he needs the money

I say lets switch places, he can come and work all day and I can complain about the few hours that I work.

needless to say he got angry and he will be a real ray of sunshine to come home too.

should I have let him vent??? or was I right to let him know his lazy a needs to be working like everyone else

2006-09-08 08:07:24 · 11 answers · asked by Crazy dog lady 3

2006-09-08 08:05:30 · 14 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-09-08 08:04:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I would like to meet another person and have a relationship but it seems like all the men want is a friend with benefits and I would like a relationship but when I finally do find one they end up taking a job somewhere else or being sent to Iraq and all I get is an apology.

2006-09-08 08:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by bottomlessboat 1

i'm head over heels in love. but he is an entertainer and he is very goodlooking. women, beautiful women, are constantly flirting with him. he tells me he loves me, that i'm the most beautiful and sweetest girl he has ever met. but i'm so scared, i never thought of myself as a great beauty. these women that flirt, they are so sexy and perfect looking. everytime i see one approach him my heart sinks. but i know he loves me, i just wish i could stop being so jealous and quit feeling so inadequate. he has to travel to do shows, its not that i'm afraid of him cheating. i'm afraid one of these days he is going to relize he can do better than me.
please someone help me.

2006-09-08 07:59:10 · 29 answers · asked by srsgrl 2

My boyfriend is an american citizen and I am canadian. If I move to be with him, will I be covered under his medical plan after we are married? I need to know because I have MS and I need to be able to get my medication.

2006-09-08 07:58:48 · 9 answers · asked by Cheryl K 4

she is now on her way to her mothers with our child,she admited hooking up with a marine,then she trys to say it meant nothing(just like me then),i feel gutted so i dont know what else to say.

2006-09-08 07:58:45 · 8 answers · asked by ♥Scottish♥Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ♥Fairy♥ 7

They have that "I am woman, hear me roar" mentality and think thier lace is in the work force and not in the kitchen? I don't like to hit but sometime she likes to back talk.

It's bullshit if you ask me.

2006-09-08 07:57:58 · 17 answers · asked by Lothario 1

I am in to all kind of different stuff... Toys, threesomes, porn, bondage, body painting and so on... But my husband dose the same thing every night... It's good don't get me wrong but it's getting old! I had one of those in home sex toy parties and he said it was immoral that women shouldn't talk about that stuff and toys and masterbation are just wrong... How do I get him to try this stuff?? Or what else should I try?

2006-09-08 07:57:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

...he takes all the attention away from talking about us and starts commenting on people around constantly, the worst thing is he only sees the negative: points out how fat the waitress is or tells me to look at that table and those people.

How can I make him understand that he needs to focus his energies on talking about us when we go out ...instead of looking at other people and judging them?

He doesn't understand that I don't want to waste my time talking and listening to negative stuff he sees around, he can be using this time we are together to talk about "pretty things" sweet things and say nice things about me instead.

2006-09-08 07:52:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I are planning to have our first baby. It was a decision we made TOGETHER.

The women at my work were talking. This one lady said she got pregnant on purpose behind her husband's back.

They got married and the husband wanted to wait, and the wife felt she was getting too old (33) and decide to have one anyways.

She said she told him she was on birth control and planned it so she conceived using an ovulation kit.

She said she was pregnant after being married for 3 months and said, "Oh well, he got over it!"

What is wrong with women like this??!!!

Just because you are married doesn't mean you can plan a pregnancy without talking to your husband first!

Yeah your husband will love your child, but don't you think he will love the child more if he helped planned the baby?

Thank God I have a honest wife!

What do you think about women like this?

2006-09-08 07:47:08 · 25 answers · asked by HappyHippo 1

I am getting married and don't like my future husband's exwife or her girlfriend. She has asked that they be invited to the wedding and I don't really want her there. She would just cause a seen with her girlfriend like she does at every event that we are both at. They have 2 small children together and both kids will be in the wedding along with my children. My ex is not coming out of respect for the future husband. The future and I can not seem to agree weither to invite her or not. Any advice?

2006-09-08 07:41:53 · 21 answers · asked by peachesgirl1212 2

previously i had a question up for married for 14 years and he met someone on the internet and decided to be with her and I appreciate all advise thank you but what if he still lives here because he cant move , due to financially, do i have the right to ask him to pay half the rent and bills ??

2006-09-08 07:35:44 · 27 answers · asked by VETTEY 2

In my previous question, I asked the same question asked by a man. He was told to tell his wife NO. I was told by most that I am a bad mother. Great sociological study.

2006-09-08 07:34:34 · 27 answers · asked by jenna b 1