My best friend's husband just left her a couple of weeks ago. She wants me to move in with her. Now she recently got back together with her first husband and he is moving in with her. She still wants me to come and live with her. She has a little boy that is six and I have 2 sons one is 3 and one is 8. I really wanted to stay with her because my marriage is ending because I found out that my husband has been trying to get with other girls. Should I stay with my husband and hope he quits trying to get with other girls or should I move in with my best friend?
2006-09-08 08:33:34 · 13 answers · asked by Medical and Business Information 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The answer to this question is neither...You deserve a husband who loves and respects you and wants to be with you and only you. I also don't think the situation with your best friend is a good one since she seems to have a lot of relationship stuff going on. You don't want to put your boys in an unstable living situation. You would be better off finding a new place of your own that will last for awhile so you and the boys have a constant in your lives.
2006-09-08 08:37:45 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Neither options are great. I agree with the first answer. Move out on your own (or with your kids). Your best friend may be going through a hard time but it looks like she's got someone to comfort her already. Plus, you can always be a phone call, or email away from her if she needs you.
2006-09-08 15:37:39 · answer #2 · answered by sirius_the_grim 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope your able to move into your own apartment because moving in with your friend sounds like TOOO much and why stay with a husband you dont trust so I hope you can get your own place.
2006-09-08 15:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH MY!
I don't know how, any one can answer that one. Simply because it can go so many different ways, for so many reasons and most of them are bad!
You stand a major chance of losing your best friend, again for a lot of reasons!
There are so many ways that it could turn sour on you, I would have to say, DON'T DO IT!
2006-09-08 15:44:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ofcourse not
i no it doeznt feel gud wen ur husbands gettin onwith other girls but if u leeve him whose gonna teech him da lesson of being a fraud
n secondly wen ur frend has just started a new life with a guy i dont think u shud interfere
the rest iz up to u
2006-09-08 15:40:55 · answer #5 · answered by neha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could end up not being friends two family's cannot live together try working it out with your husband for the children's sake
2006-09-08 15:38:23 · answer #6 · answered by fancey 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I would say NO WAY to both options. Move out on your own and become the independent woman you are.
2006-09-08 15:35:30 · answer #7 · answered by LPRDPRNCS22 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go to couples counseling with your husband. If he won't go, YOU should go to counseling yourself. Nothing will be achieved by moving in with your friend.
2006-09-08 15:37:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No to both choices. Move out on your own.
2006-09-08 15:37:23 · answer #9 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let ur husband know wat u have in mind...but if he does not realises his mistakes..its no use hoping he wud be normal...u have 2 move on if things cant work with him...u dont want ur kids 2 see da mess their dad is in...
n y do u wanna depend on ur friend ?
live ur life on ur own terms...
2006-09-08 15:40:13 · answer #10 · answered by moooooooovin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋