Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2006

Ok..I am getting married in September of 07' and my dad and I are butting heads on the dinner situation...my fiancee and I want to feed everyone who comes to the reception but my dad is opting for an immediate family dinner at a restaurant prior to the reception...if he is willing to foot the bill is it ok for us to tell him that we have decided to stay with our idea? HELP!

2006-09-08 13:10:51 · 10 answers · asked by Mrs.Allen 1

We have been dating for four years and we have talked about marriage. We are in love and know we want to be with each other but he wants to do the whole live with each other before we get married and im ok with that but i really would like a ring on my finger so my mother doesnt flip out and i can have something to show off. I really love this guy and dont know what to do.

2006-09-08 13:08:46 · 25 answers · asked by yarboroughk1 1

we dont get along that good any more, we have a 1 1/2 girl and i ask him to live home and make his life somewhere alse but he ask me for a chance a give him the chance but i don't see any chanches what sure i do wait and see if he chanche or what? he is just not helping me with the house many and he has bacame lazy.

2006-09-08 13:08:19 · 27 answers · asked by brenda 2

Sounds like a wierd question but, if its been used and left out for about a month would it rot in that time or go a funny colour?

2006-09-08 13:02:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 12:44:42 · 12 answers · asked by MissChatea 4

I was married for 21 years. Married when I was pregnant and very young. We had 3 children together. He was abusive to me and our children. I was able to get away with my kids and we are now safe. He's out of our lives because he is in jail. He's due to get released in the next 2 years. I still live in fear of him emotionally and when he's released it will be physically. I have had a couple other relationships since my divorce (good guys) but, I always have a problem with trusting and letting down my guard to my heart. My children are now grown and are doing good but, I can't seem to get over the abuse. I've been in therapy for a long time and nothing seems to work. I've come a long way but, I'm still afraid of getting hurt again. What can I do to eventually get over my past. I want a happy relationship too like so many married couples that I see. I'm a good person and I think I have so much to offer. Help! Thanks!

2006-09-08 12:42:30 · 5 answers · asked by cee cee 3

2006-09-08 12:40:47 · 26 answers · asked by MissChatea 4

a person who over talks you when your trying to explain something .

2006-09-08 12:37:21 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

Man!

That is the greatest excuse any guy EVER came up with for not wanting to get hitched!!!

I'm gonna start using it as soon as I move out of the basement and get a girlfriend!!!!

Your thoughs on Mr. Pitt's heroic protest???

2006-09-08 12:25:20 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

therapist. WE work 50 mi. from home. He knew I do not drive in snow and on ice & convinced me to take the job and promised to drive at those times- about10-15 days in winter. After snow, it stays icy for several days. He was offered a less stressful job somewhere else/ Morale is low where we work. I am an excellent teacher, but jobs in this area are scarce-have been trying consistently for 3 yrs. He is afraid to leave me in our place of work where the morale is low- and the long commute esp. because he promised when i took job that he;d drive in bad weather. i just can't take off all those days- noone from work lives near us- no public transport either. We split driving otherwise.
. I feel guilty- honestly, I am afraid of driving
in bad weather. Would I be awful to just express my thanks and tell
I for appreciate him staying? We love each other very much, but I feel guilty.

2006-09-08 12:25:04 · 8 answers · asked by mollie 2

My hubby is well unaffectionate person to me. In another words it, he doesn't show it unless I complain about it. We are in our early 20 and our relationship inamate peak is well once a week. He always playing video games, on the omputer and watching tv. He makes plans with his family and friends. Nothing romantic with me. I've tried telling him and he gives this thing that he doesn't know what to do to fix it, he tried everything. Well feb of 2006 he cheated somewhat on me, I caught him before it went further. He tried to hook up with this girl. The affection in his writing, is what I have been trying to get out of him. I distance my self from him and he thinks we are fine. I hurt , I'm lonely , sad . At night I cannot wonder if what he is doing. I try hard to stop thinking what if he is doing this or that. We even have a child together. Great dad, but sucky hubby. How can I fix it if I can ? what to do? Please.......

2006-09-08 12:21:46 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been together for 20 years, but it hasn't been a plesant 20 years. I stayed because we have 3 kids together, the kids are now grown and I think it might be impossible to stay together. He drinks heavily on weekends and I resent him for that, because he usually gets mean, but he won' t get help. I guess I am tired of being alone. I know I should leave but I don't know the first thing to do.,

2006-09-08 12:12:48 · 34 answers · asked by sharon s 1

Sorry on the last question I was not really specific. ok I can't go through legal aide because the case is in another state and the other states leagal aide won't help because i don't pay their state taxes. I have went through custody in 2004 and i lost because I was married and living with someone else, I went back to court and proved my husband was unfit so the courts gave my mother in law temporaly custody till november. I have a small child that I have already had with another man and the judge says thats why I can't have my daughter. Her father is a felon and I have no record and mother and law is on medication for nerves. Currently his mother is letting her stay with him so my daughter says and she has her a lawyers that the judge ordered.I want to know what I can do and what to expect on the next court date. Am I a bad mom? My daughter cries wanting me to take her away, she says her na na is mean and her daddy is hitting her she has been programed on what to say to me and lawye

2006-09-08 12:04:34 · 5 answers · asked by Sidney C 2

2006-09-08 11:57:12 · 41 answers · asked by Swan Tralala 1

I was just wondering if you think getting married at 19 is too young and if so why? Is there anyone that got married really young and it actually worked out? Please give me some words of wisdom?

2006-09-08 11:55:14 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ Arvizu16 3

We went to the beach on labor day weekend I was in the water with our son my wife tanning in her 2 piece thong bathing suit when we happen to return where she was tanning. There was this man in his 50s could not keep his eyes off her while she was oilng her body.

2006-09-08 11:55:05 · 14 answers · asked by robdogg 1

My fiance called me in tears, saying his son's mom is moving. Now, his son died at three months old and to my knowledge him and her have not been involved in a long while. Jaden (his son) died Sept 05. He told me he made a promise to his son (in a dream) that he would always watch over his mom (ex), and now he feels he is breaking a promise to his dead son, because he can't watch over her. Pls tell me what you think.

2006-09-08 11:48:30 · 10 answers · asked by vernise2679 4

2006-09-08 11:30:13 · 5 answers · asked by lan 1

My husbands mother has my 4 year old daughter and we are in seperate states so they won't give her to me, I can't afford a lawyer and my daughter is screaming because she wants to live with me. How would I handle this situation?

2006-09-08 11:28:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sidney C 2

Pretty self explanitory... This is what I "want" in life. Was wondering how difficult it was going to be. All anyone ever seems to do anymore is have sex, for Christ sake.

2006-09-08 11:25:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

i feel sad coz i look like sexy woman i can find a friend but i did not get married iam worried

2006-09-08 11:19:02 · 3 answers · asked by moona s 1

My husband and I have both got back problems...we need better sleep, what are some excellent mattresses. I posted this question where i thought it would get educated responses....if we don't get a new mattress we might get a divorce!!! Ha Ha Ha!!

2006-09-08 11:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by someone 5

2006-09-08 11:07:52 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 11:07:43 · 15 answers · asked by kla 2

my hubby wants a child but i want to complete my studies first and then go for a child.its only a year v got married.and am only 22 and he is 28 so i find no problm conceiving later on after a gap of a year or two.he was kind of supportive b4 but now he argues with me to have a child.i make him understand thats its not gonna be possible for me to study once i give birth to a child coz its gonna be quiet difficult and i have to forget about atudying for 2-3years till my (to be born) kid will be left with the baby sitters.but thers always a conflict between us over this matter.he gets dissapointed too when i talk all this to him.i guess this is coz v both are stuborn.but i really wonder howz things in life gonna work out for me.i am not able to decide should i for my kid forst and do the studying part later on or shuld i study first and give birth later on?

2006-09-08 11:05:24 · 6 answers · asked by nazy 2

We have lived together for four years, at first the sex and the passion was great but now it's been 10 months since the last time we made love. There are no childern and he is 53 and i'm 51.

2006-09-08 11:03:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am a woman aged 32. My husband doesnt want to use condom during oral sex. I want him to as he is HIV positive whereas i am not.

2006-09-08 10:57:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Seeings as he couldnt have kids with Nicole Kidman is it a child from alien intervention?

2006-09-08 10:45:37 · 46 answers · asked by dave c 1

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/here4you

Controlling behavior- decides where you will go, who you
are "allowed" to see, is bossy. gives orders and expects them to be
followed, makes all the decisions in the relationship, does not
respect your opinions, wants and needs, tells you how to dress,
accuses you of things you didn't do, everything has to be his/her
way.
if this is you or someone you know please know there is help

2006-09-08 10:44:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Does anyone else play "World of Warcraft" with their spouse? My fiancé and I love it. We're up to almost level 60.

2006-09-08 10:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous