We have lived together for four years, at first the sex and the passion was great but now it's been 10 months since the last time we made love. There are no childern and he is 53 and i'm 51.
2006-09-08 11:03:55 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sorry to tell you this but he's probably cheating in you.
From personal experience if a guy stops sleeping with you it's because he found someone else.
unless....
He's having problems getting it up.
2006-09-08 11:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be depressed and/or have a physical problem he's embarrassed about. There is no reason you shouldn't have a healthy relationship. Try get him to go see a dr. and maybe a urologist - try get him to talk with you about what the reason really is. There is a chance he doesn't even know why. But testosterone levels go down, etc. Don't blame yourself for this, but the two of you should be able to work it out together. Good luck!
2006-09-09 01:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's at the age where he's trading up to a newer model. He's tired of driving an older used car, and it's time for a trade-in. Sorry, but sometimes the truth hurts. Trust me I was at that age a few years ago and so were most of my friends. Men are dogs (pigs) if you want. No appologies just the way IT IS.
2006-09-08 11:12:36 · answer #3 · answered by Brite Tiger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think most couples go through "dry patches", especially after a couple of years. Definitely talk to your partner about it. Sex is an important part of a healthy relationship and who knows he may be having the same concerns.If after that still no resolution, remember you don't have to be married to get marriage counseling.
2006-09-08 11:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your gut something is wrong for sure maybe he is depressed but at worst its possible he's cheating...when the physical relp breaks down this is a bad sign and usually reflects a break in the emotional connect....talk with him about what could be going on and see if you can work through it together...
2006-09-08 15:36:08 · answer #5 · answered by Ellie-Hay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 53 alot of guys start slowing down. I knew this one guy in his sixties who remarked to me that he prefered to have a good bm, rather thn sex. He might be cheating, or he might have problems gettig it up or he might just be old. I would suggest you try, seducing him sometime, just walk up to him naked bend over and tell him to do you right then and there if that don't work sit dwn with him ask him if he cheating or if he has erectile dificultes, if its ed, then get viagara, if not, say gbye to him.
2006-09-08 11:13:17 · answer #6 · answered by Cactus Dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is on medication, it could be a side effect. Check that out. Shave the beav, put a body stocking on, lots of lube and a vibrator. Ask him if he wants to come over and play.
2006-09-08 11:08:35 · answer #7 · answered by dirkdiggler9999 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to get that man and go somewhere that it only you and him and a bed.Then get you some nice steaks or whatever he like to eat then eat all type of them that you know that use to turn him on and put that bedroom to work with whatever it take to make him say ooh!
2006-09-08 11:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At such age it could be a physical or a psychological affliction. Try talking him into seeing a doctor to prescribe the suitable remedy for his low libido.
2006-09-08 11:07:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He either cant get it up, he may not be into you anymore, or he is cheating. Sorry.Just ask him what the heck is going on that's the only way you are going to find out. Good luck.
2006-09-08 11:11:01 · answer #10 · answered by Love Child 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋