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Controlling behavior- decides where you will go, who you
are "allowed" to see, is bossy. gives orders and expects them to be
followed, makes all the decisions in the relationship, does not
respect your opinions, wants and needs, tells you how to dress,
accuses you of things you didn't do, everything has to be his/her
way.
if this is you or someone you know please know there is help

2006-09-08 10:44:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

8 answers

Choice number 1, live with it, because it will never change.

Choice number 2, speak up tell them you don't like it, video a day in the life for evidence, then live with it because it will never change.

Choice number 3, tell them about how you feel, pack your bags and move on.

Choice 4, wait till they leave for work, pack your stuff leave them a note, and move one.

Choice 5........ end their life

Choice 6 ..... end your life.

My personal fav is to tell them how you feel the pack and go.........

2006-09-08 10:49:55 · answer #1 · answered by Chief 3 · 0 0

People are not robots and cannot be programmed to respond to anothers demands. This is what you here. And if this is exactly what the other person wants, I understand Radio Shack has a real good selection of robots. In a relationship, partners should treat each other as an equal with respect and love. Some to walk side by side with thru life, but never ever treat the other like a dog on a leash. On the other hand, no one should ever put up with this kind of treatment, its downgrading the person youre supposed to love,honor, and cherish. There is no reason, not even a bad one to stay with someone who treats you like this. If relationships are supposed to be an area in which to share and learn, then sue this person for divorce and for everything you are legally entitled to and let this person learn a valuable lesson to share with oneself for eternity

2006-09-08 18:15:15 · answer #2 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0 0

My husband knows better than to ever try and control me. Our marriage is equal and no one controls anyone period!

2006-09-08 18:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0 0

that's a good way to help those who need it

2006-09-08 17:50:26 · answer #4 · answered by missmadhatter 3 · 0 0

Yes, speak out and tell him you will divorce him if he doesn't change .

2006-09-09 12:37:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

talk him what going on with him

2006-09-08 17:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

No thanks, I wouldn't allow a man to treat me this way

2006-09-08 17:48:28 · answer #7 · answered by mightymight 5 · 0 0

Hey thanks for the help. I want to show this to my boss..lol

2006-09-08 17:47:01 · answer #8 · answered by meow 2 · 1 0

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