we dont get along that good any more, we have a 1 1/2 girl and i ask him to live home and make his life somewhere alse but he ask me for a chance a give him the chance but i don't see any chanches what sure i do wait and see if he chanche or what? he is just not helping me with the house many and he has bacame lazy.
2006-09-08 13:08:19 · 27 answers · asked by brenda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that is not mental abuse
2006-09-08 13:09:53 · answer #1 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm from reading this post, I would say that it's not mental abuse. You are just mental. Take a chanche and learn to use that thing in the corner called "Spellcheck". Makes the readers life a little bit easier.
2006-09-08 20:11:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop stop stop. Why do you let this happen to you i mean you already answerd your one question already. He sounds like an *** and he doesent help you what else do you need? dont wait untill things get worse fix the problem now while it still warm becaause once it gets hot well someone will get burnd. right. Stop playing games. and ima tell you somting im a guy and i know how guys are thay wont change shurr you get that oen guy who does but the mujority of the wont and are just affraid that your all thay acan get so that stick around. 95% guys are *** holes and you need to get up and find that guy in the 5% area and move on. You have to remember your baby is at risk everyday . she will only learn frome what she sees and learns. Remember you already gave him a chance he f***** up. move on. life is better where its not.
2006-09-08 20:17:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not mental abuse . Giving him too many chances is only making it worse for you and better for him . he stays and does nothing to help. but still has a place to live. I cant tell you what to do you need to decide your self exactly who you can turn to that will help you get him out and not return or bother you or the child. he is allowed visitation with his daughter .Divorce him is the only thing I can think of that will be legal and he cant do anything about it ...
2006-09-08 20:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if he is mentally abusing you but it sounds like he is just plain lazy and you both need to discuss how yall feel about each other and figure out what to do.
2006-09-08 20:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by yarboroughk1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I haven't seen such poor spelling from an adult in a long time. I wish for you to take time to work with a tutor to improve your spelling - for your child's sake.
Your story gives zero indication of mental abuse. Try to work it out with your husband and seek a counselor. I recommend a pastor.
2006-09-08 20:13:57 · answer #6 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he does not help around the house is not mental abuse. Mental abuse would be if he was calling you names, or talking bad to you and that sort of things. But if you are not happy with him, then file for divorce and move out, it will not be good for your daughter if you don't get along with him...
2006-09-08 20:13:56 · answer #7 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him to leave if your that set on it,if he doesnt leave then can you go somewhere?i feel bad for your baby cause it sucks for them,but if you cant get along and he isnt treating you right then just end it now before something bad happens or you waste anymore time,the last option you can give him is marriage councling.hope the best for you and your baby.
2006-09-08 20:14:47 · answer #8 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, with a child, you have alot more leverage than you think you do. Get some free advise. Many lawyers offer it. See how lazy he is when he has to pay support!
2006-09-08 20:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by TCBgirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
laziness does not constitute as mental abuse look it up and you will see there is a huge difference between the two....
2006-09-08 21:27:05 · answer #10 · answered by MidnightSkies 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure i need more info but it is never good to abandon a marriage trust in God
2006-09-08 20:13:47 · answer #11 · answered by big okie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋