Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2006

I am 22 now. I am seniour at my university in Japan. and In Japan, university semester end on March. so I will graduate on March, 2007. I have an American BF. He is living in US. I met him 2 years ago, when I studying English in California. He is 10 years older than me. He will go to another countries for work from this month to next March.
I will graduate next March, and he will come back to US next March. I am thinking I wanna get marry. because I love him. and I cant take long-distance love situation.
I dont know what should I do. should I ask him about marry? But people say a man feel heavy when a girlfriend ask about marry. I am doing job hunting now in Japan, but I am thinking of marry with him so i cant concentrate that. maybe you think stupid. because if i will get work in Japan, long-distance love again or our relationship will have to over....
the best way to solve my question is to ask my bf, but I feel scary, so I use this. please help me...

2006-09-08 02:55:34 · 23 answers · asked by superchick 1

To be fair, I have to ask the same thing to wives. I would start by saying this...

Husbands :) once in a while you should remember all those romantic things you used to do before marrying your wife.

Ladies, share your comments please :)

2006-09-08 02:53:21 · 23 answers · asked by powerdiva411 1

She said she has no feelings for me after 26 years marriage and 4 children , after making love in the last three months she said she no longers feel conected to me , I found that she has been chating with a guy for the last year or more and found some pics that she tryed to send him on her cell , I found his no# on the cell and called him , he said he was only a freind and he told her that also but I know that she had a crush on him , he said he would cut all ties , we will see . I love my wife very much , she has had a couple afferes over the last 15 years she has told me about, but we have worked threw that bump in our life , I'm afread that its starting over again shes 45 im 48 , she said she would go to councleing with me , I need all the help I can get !

2006-09-08 02:49:35 · 12 answers · asked by joel s 3

Yes, most men will say good sex, aside from that please :)

2006-09-08 02:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by powerdiva411 1

of social obligation or due to mutual love or for there children only?

2006-09-08 02:35:31 · 25 answers · asked by avinash c 2

i gave her my e-mail address once to get some info about my son and now she regularly sends me things she finds funny but i dont

2006-09-08 02:33:53 · 49 answers · asked by lambtonliner 3

she is with me from 5 years, i fell she used me to reach where is she now, problam is that she is holding all my important things, i am really not in position to do any thing to her, where she work she is doing the same to them

2006-09-08 02:31:26 · 10 answers · asked by khanr4u 1

What is the first step? Serious answers please!

2006-09-08 02:30:46 · 44 answers · asked by Spicey 1

2006-09-08 02:27:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 02:20:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have tried talking to the father but nothing changes.

2006-09-08 02:13:23 · 7 answers · asked by Sheels 2

Let's say that you are having sex with a man that is married, whether you know he is or not. Somehow the wife finds out about the affair and she finds your phone number. When she calls and asks you if you are having sex with her husband, do you tell the truth or lie? Why? Also, does it make a difference if you didn't know he was married? I don't understand why you would lie about it, the wife doesn't know you.

2006-09-08 02:12:25 · 20 answers · asked by jacemo 6

I asked earlier if I should stay with my depressed husband who wants to quit his job every 4-6 months. Most of you said I should work it out with him, and seek a therapist. To update you, he has been to a therapist with another apointment in a week. He didn't quit, and is calling what happend "a bad day". We are going to continue therapy. Now my question is this. We were planning to renew our vows in November on our tenth wedding anniversary, with the wedding we never had. I have deposits down, and a dress bought. I have everything planned, just have to buy the stuff. He wants to have the wedding, but I believe the stress of it all was partialy to blame. Should I proceed with the plans?

2006-09-08 02:05:54 · 12 answers · asked by cyunos 2

2006-09-08 02:03:58 · 19 answers · asked by mihirdsoni 1

2006-09-08 02:00:20 · 8 answers · asked by paco 1

2006-09-08 01:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

You know to check our spouses e-mail, cell phone, pockets. Even if they have NEVER given you a reason to doubt them. Is it just human nature, or is it like the snake in the Garden of Eden.......
Some insight would be nice because my husband says he does it because it reassures him. I have never done it......

2006-09-08 01:50:35 · 33 answers · asked by Dre 3

Compared to the way there in their 20's.

Honestly guys, do you? Or women, did you notice your man change on his thirties?

2006-09-08 01:45:45 · 47 answers · asked by powerdiva411 1

My husband and I only have sex when we go to bed at night. What happened to that spontaneous sex that we used to have? On the couch, the kitchen counter, outside?? Now it's become a routine it seems. and kinda boring what can I do to change this?

2006-09-08 01:45:25 · 41 answers · asked by faith 5

I found a letter she wrote to me 6 years ago explaining what we should work on in our relationship, I just did not get it, now I do. Listen to the one you love out of trust, and believe in them or they may not be there tomorrow. What do i do to get her back from her boyfriend of two hidden years. We had been married 24 years and have 6 children. She drinks and is not logical after 7pm. And in the day time she seems sweet and nice. Does she love him or the drink? How do i reach her? She does not live with us she lives with Him for 3 months, her drinking co-worker. Why would a person leave every thing behind?

2006-09-08 01:41:02 · 15 answers · asked by james.ampmerch 1

is it wrong for me to be happy that he's miserable with his current baby's mother. i know im over him but part of me gets happy when i found out things are'nt going so well for the"HAPPY COUPLE"

2006-09-08 01:31:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 01:29:59 · 20 answers · asked by hemant u 1

2006-09-08 01:27:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

She gets mad because I take my laptop in the
bathroom with me while I'm pooping, I poop
about 3 times a day. Why does she get so mad?

2006-09-08 01:23:41 · 16 answers · asked by msboobhead 1

We have been married for 6 years, I am a stay at home
dad, well the baby hasn't been born yet, it is a
rewarding job. She wants me to get a job outside the home.
Should I stay with her, I love her. I am begining to wonder
if she still loves me. Her ranting is starting to annoy me.
the baby is due in 2 months, IT'S A BOY!

2006-09-08 01:20:23 · 48 answers · asked by msboobhead 1

2006-09-08 01:08:36 · 19 answers · asked by V 2

i was married for 14 years. now ever girl i date has this hangup....with wanting a relationship.....wanting marriage,
i am up front from the word go about it. i go as far to say....hell no....not on your life.......not in a million years.......etc.
all i get back is.....I want....I want......
what about what i want?
am i missing something here?

2006-09-08 01:05:15 · 28 answers · asked by rock 4

I'd really want to discuss this with women who are in a similar situation.

2006-09-08 01:00:56 · 20 answers · asked by sonia 1

She was obviously attracted to him for the way he looked and she must have been impressed with his personality and lifestyle, so???

2006-09-08 00:53:55 · 32 answers · asked by V 2

when we first got together she said that we would have a kid together after my step daughter turned 5 she turned five and she still didint want to have a kid with me a few years have passed i stopped asking and was ok with not having any biological children of my own then we stopped using birth control and she got pregnant when i asked her why did she wanted to get pregnant form me she said that she felt obligated to have a kid with me because we have been together for so long (8 yrs)she has two daughters from two other men. she was with her ex-bf for a month maybe when she got pregnant and when he found out she was pregnant he split that day and have never returned the other father was when she was 15 yrs old and only with him once. i dont know what to do or think this has hurt me alot i put in alot of time and effort to be the best dad i can be to her daughters and love them very much

2006-09-08 00:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by herbsn900 1