Compared to the way there in their 20's.
Honestly guys, do you? Or women, did you notice your man change on his thirties?
2006-09-08 01:45:45 · 47 answers · asked by powerdiva411 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
On the contrary... men over 30 are getting more accustomed to sustaining longer and "holding off" before climaxing.
2006-09-08 02:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men lose their drive at all. They do tend to develop certain issues, some good some bad.
Men in their 30's and 40's aren't necessarily looking to get it on with just anyone, they look for a more mature, long lasting relationship.
Men in their 30's and 40's also have stress that they didn't have in their 20's which makes them lose their erection... but it's just stress and the inability to keep an erection causes more stress, which makes the whole thing worse... they don't want to talk about it either... so this may be percieved as a low sex drive, but in reality, they are hiding thier problem, which could be easily solved. (wwe all know men never grow up anyway)
Physically, men in their 30's & 40's could have a tear in one of their "veins" which makes it so they can't get an erection. (I can't remember the exact word and I'm not going to look it up while I'm at work) This can be solved with medication, but he needs to talk to his doctor, again the whole inability to talk about this gets in the way...
So, keep the lines of communication open...
2006-09-08 03:48:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think that a man does change and they do it more then once. My husband has changed three times. When we first met and started it was a lot. Then it went to next to nothing. Then it picked up a little and now it is like it was. Neither of us can get enough. He is 45. I have been with him for 11 years. Stress can also play apart in the sex drive.
2006-09-08 02:04:52 · answer #3 · answered by sscott12414 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! I am 40 and my sex drive did not decrease it just changed. I was not satisfied with simple sex or visual stimulation any more. I need conversation and doing things together. Even cleaning the house together leads to fun encounters. I try and spice it up like having sex where we might get caught, like on a remote hiking trail on a big rock. People change and you have to recognize when this happens and make it work. Your interest shows you care and that is a start.
2006-09-08 01:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by lvtaride 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 56 and have as much or more drive then when I was 30. There may be snow on the roof but there's fire in the furnace! My girlfriend, lover, partner, on the other hand is 34 and she seems to have slowed down quite a bit.
2006-09-08 01:50:24 · answer #5 · answered by WiBiDoh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-01-05 05:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I are both in our thirties now and we're like two horny teenagers. He can't go as many times as he used to but he still has great stamina and the passion he had at 25. We've been sleeping together for almost nine years and we're still as hot for each other now as we were when we first met. We always joke about it and we ask each other "aren't you tired of me yet?". The answer is always no. It's great.
2006-09-08 01:50:51 · answer #7 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 34 yrs old and my drive still there. I am dating someone that is 26 yrs. and she is kept well satisfied. In some cases, what gets affected with age is the speed, but at a slow speed is good too...
2006-09-08 02:34:31 · answer #8 · answered by SemperLeader 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I started "slowing down" at about 38. Im still a horndog but I dont have a constant h@rd0n like before I was 38.
2006-09-08 01:51:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not any that I've known LMAO!
Actually men out of their 20's tend to be more confident & better lovers than men in their 20's!
2006-09-08 01:57:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋