2006-09-08 01:53:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if your not hsppy with your msrried life then why should you choose to stay with it? go on and move on with another life that can give you happiness who ever she is..
2006-09-08 02:02:04 · answer #1 · answered by honeyko_japan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who?... that makes no since. However, you married and vowed to love your wife until death do you part........ in sickness and in health, for better or for worse. Did those VOWS mean anything to you? Or did you just need a reminder? Life is not cut and dry.... it is learning, experiencing, and growing......... and when you marry, you marry the one that you are going to go through ALL that with. How could you look or allow yourself to feel anything for another woman, when the woman you took as your bride is there and loving you still? Let this other girl, or break your wifes heart and distroy her dream of her life with you and divorce her, go for the other woman and let her make you feel stupid for giving up what you had and the love that was REAL in your life when your wife was the only one. HOW COULD YOU? So disappointing in the men and women that do this........... marriage is sacrad and somehow people have managed to distroy and take away the meaning and love of two people coming togeather in matramony and turned it into a nightmare for those of us scared to death that to marry and take a chance on our loyalty. Blessed be.
2006-09-08 02:08:41 · answer #2 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best solution of ur problem is to tell ur wife that u don't love her ,if she understand then she can give u divorce and then u can marry the girl whom u like.u have to be really true while answering to ur wife.then she will help u.
2006-09-08 02:00:12 · answer #3 · answered by Vk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
suppose your wife starts loving another man, what will be your position?so the so called love with another girl is nothing but physical attraction.try not to spoil your happy married life because of this other girl.love your wife more than the other girl and see the difference.
2006-09-08 08:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by toliagoldstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't love this girl. You lust for her but love I doubt it. You probably don't love your wife either, AND you have lost your lust for her after 4 years. I bet the other girl is looking really good right now.
With love there is RESPECT. How can you respect a girl you hardly know? How can you respect your wife while you're lusting after another girl?
You don't know what love is. Spare these women grief. Be single until you learn to respect.
2006-09-08 02:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are solutions to all problems, however either choice you make may be painful. You have to weight the odds and see what brings you the most joy.
2006-09-08 01:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by Laughing Libra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn dude!! you got the best of both worlds going on here!! you got one to cook and clean, do the laundry and then a little love toy on the side. just act like you got an evening part-time job at night and take off to the 'toy store' for a couple hours.
2006-09-08 02:18:44 · answer #7 · answered by sling_blade1974 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are happier with the guy than be with the guy, if you are happier with the girl, than be with the girl. If you all can work it out to be with each other and ok with it, than everybody can be happy. Regardless, happieness is very important in life. But, to be honest with you, I'm sure what you are asking so........
2006-09-08 01:56:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you realy love this other girl? or are you just a little bored of your wife (and your life)? I'm guessing that you're just bored and want a change. If that's the case, then STOP IT.
2006-09-08 01:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that's right forget the other girl, you would always have people come along your way who you would like but you married, well just realize that you commited to it and stop looking around like you have a choice.
2006-09-08 02:10:15 · answer #10 · answered by happydial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are u sure u r inlove with this other girl? It could be infatuation. Forget abt this girl and concentrate on working on ur marriage... remember u said vows........Till death u do part.
Give the other woman her free ticket.
2006-09-08 02:01:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋