Just give 100% all the time and try to make him happy.
(same is required of him also)
2006-09-08 02:54:17
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answered by BORED AT WORK 5
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Despite all the love songs and romance novels that say otherwise, nobody can do anything to make anyone else happy.
But there are plenty of things that people can do to maintain a good relationship with their spouse, which contributes to happiness.
-- Respect him.
-- You don't have to agree with him all the time, but you should start off with the assumption that he has good intentions. (Of course, his actions may prove otherwise, but until then, give him the benefit of the doubt.)
-- Pay attention to the little things. Notice what he likes and doesn't like. For example, you shouldn't have to ask him if he prefers ketchup or mayonnaise on his hamburger.
-- Try to make him feel loved. It's important to tell him every day, but you also need to show it in your actions.
-- Come up with little ways to show him that you've been thinking about him. Don't just save cards and presents for birthdays and holidays.
-- When you argue with him, be fair. Stick to the subject at hand. Never use the words "never" or "always," as in, "You always do this" or "You never do what I want."
-- Let him know your love is unconditional, that just because you may disagree very strongly on something you don't love him less. (Well, almost unconditioinal. If he beats you, or cheats on you, or abuses the kids, that's a real problem for the relationship.)
These are a few things you can do.
And, by the way, HE should be doing these kinds of things for YOU, too.
2006-09-08 03:51:26
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answered by johntadams3 5
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Give him a bl0wjob every morning.
I'm not kidding either.
And don't expect anything back except the satisfaction of knowing that you pleased someone you love.
Also, listen to him when he comes work from home. In general, just take CARE of him. Think of him as a grown up child king.
It's a lot simpler than most women make it out to be.
2006-09-08 02:54:07
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answered by BlueChimera 3
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1) Husbands feel tired after work, and so wifes, don't complain too much during that times. Bring out problems to talk during off days like weekends.
2) When you get fired up with anyone or anything, don't talk to your husband. Cool down before starting any conversation with him. (This includes others too) It is to prevent unneccessary arguements or conflicts.
3)When both of you quarrel, calm yourself down and think whether you yourself are in the wrong before blaming him for all.
4)Talk about expectations needed from each other and be frank to each other that are you able to accomplish the expectations or not.
5)Do what a wife should do. Communicate, understand, thrust, care and love. Do not pester, call, disturb him when he is busy or trying to relax, unless emergency. Everyone needs to release stress(the right way).
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2006-09-08 04:08:25
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answered by yelin 1
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If you want to make your husband happy, then never take for granted what you have. Remind yourself everyday how great it is to have him in your life, and tell him so! Don't spend your time together arguing over stupid things, when it could be spent making new memories together, new memories to cherish. If I could take back my mistakes in the past, I would have spent more time loving him and less time assuming that he knew I did...
2006-09-08 02:47:34
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answered by OnE GiRL 3
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respect him, be loyal to him. kepp Ur self looking good for him, cook for him, keep the house clean for him, be his helper, don't try to be the head of the house hold. Tell him that U love him.... and for the husbands that reads this U can help with the house work to, be the man that wife fell in love with keep urself fit......
2006-09-08 02:48:59
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answered by ? 3
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Be a good companion. Listen with your heart, be compassionate and treat him like you would want to be treated. Cook and clean and he will in turn make you happy as well!
2006-09-08 04:01:26
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answered by Anonymous
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When he speaks listen and understand him when he forgets something u needed...forgive him.
Always keep a smile on ur lips so he knows he has done his job but if he ask you do something then u have to do it and finish what ur started with then do what he has asked for.
But remember you come frist ...
if he forgets ur birthday, forgive him...
if he forgets ur anniversary, forgive him
If u asked for smothing and wanted it so bad..don't pressure him, when he remembers he remembers.
Same goes to you...be mercyful.
if u want him to care for u and love you and understand u and talk to u when ever stressed out...You have to do it first so he knows how 2 care for u also.
2006-09-08 03:10:34
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answered by *~`h!8@Q 3
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To trust and believe him, To do smile, To applogize when you do bad, to good communication by sex.
I never married. but I wanna get marry with my bf.
To talk everything makes them good relationship. and it makes him happy.
2006-09-08 02:47:10
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answered by superchick 1
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listen to him and quit talking for a bit
let him relax
2006-09-08 02:46:12
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answered by Anonymous
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