Marriage & Divorce - 8 September 2006

2006-09-08 18:25:12 · 8 answers · asked by R I Y A 1

Well, I got tired of my husband's verbal and emotional abusive ways I told him either he's going to try or it's over. Our house is almost in foreclosure and we have 2 small children. He says that he wants to sell the house then he's gone. He doesn't even seem to care like he has no heart at all. My problem is why do I wish he would come to me and apologize and say he wants to change and he loves me etc.? I am accustomed to making nice with him and trying to fight for our marriage. I can't do this anymore when he is so horrible! I know i need to leave but I'm just waiting around until we sell the house and not going to my mom's (where we're welcomed). I'm going to miss everything that's familiar. He's already looking for someone on yahoo personals and says that any woman is better than me. my kid's will miss our house and their schools and "security". I will too. I know it sounds stupid but I find it hard to let go even though I know it has to end. What's wrong with me?!!!

2006-09-08 18:24:19 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

What more can I say. I don't know how to meet other people, and he can be an *** - so I don't have single friends to do anything with. I know waa waa waa. I am so frustrated

2006-09-08 18:22:02 · 16 answers · asked by dharma 1

2006-09-08 18:19:17 · 13 answers · asked by R I Y A 1

i m in love with a boy since 3 yrs.just 2 mont6hs ago i joint a new job.the prob.is io m attracted 2 my boss aand he too.we twice went on date and just smooched each other,i thick this is wrong.he is a nice guy he never had a girlfriend b4 and io know that i recive all his calls ,h is married since 6yrs

2006-09-08 18:19:04 · 8 answers · asked by cherry cola 2

My husband had on ongoing affair and several one night stands. I want to hate him but I love him to much to just give up on the 12 years we have been together. There are kids to think about also. It has been a month since I found out we have been to counseling. I feel like he can't move on that he can't let go of his guilt. I mean how can I forgive him if he can't forgive himself. He is here in the house with me we sleep in the same bed but he seems so far away it is like there is an invisible wall between us. I want this to work but I don't know what to do. If anyone has been in this situation your advise would be appreciated.

2006-09-08 18:12:07 · 36 answers · asked by confused 2

My husband and I have been married for 6 years... He loves to have sex everyday .....However I do not only want it like once a month... he gets really upset about this and I dont want to hurt his feelings but I just dont like to have sex... Hes 56 and I'm 25 How can I please him and myself at the same time

2006-09-08 18:11:29 · 30 answers · asked by Tee 3

her uncle who is a cop wants 2 marry her urgently. to avoid this i have to marry her b4 that. but her age is the only problem what can i do?

2006-09-08 18:11:18 · 13 answers · asked by bharath 1

Well, recently my ex-boyfriend and I had broke up like 2 days ago, and we brke up for the dumbest reason ever. I don't know why, call me selfish, but whenever he is having such a fun time with his friends I get really pist because he starts acting different. And I hate that crap. So one night when I called him he didn't pick up, and i called hsi friends and they ddint pick up either, and i called his house and his grandpa said he's not home, which was fu*ken BULLSH*T! So I went over there that ight to get my puppy's bed and stuff, and i knocked on his window to call him, and what a surprise, I see him and his friends, and I got mad, and i knocked on the window again, but this time the window BROKE in many pieces. And I was so frustrated because it was an accident. And he ran out yelling and talk sh*t, and I was made but I didnt apologize really, all I did was yell back! I feel so bad, and his amily hates me now. and its hard to move on. he had abused me in the past many times. 1 1/2 yr

2006-09-08 18:10:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 18:08:38 · 11 answers · asked by sarah 2

2006-09-08 18:08:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-09-08 17:33:50 · 31 answers · asked by Jeanne G 2

Im a step mother.. and i am wondering if anyone else out there, has a husband with an X wife from hell.. and if so how bad is it for u.. I try very hard to get along with my x husbands wife , but she's just one of those people that no matter how hard u try she's just never happy and back stabbing u in the back.. i watch the kids for her any time she needs someone to, matter of fact she just got back from a week in VA and i watched the kids for her..the kids go to school in our district.. so they easily just ride the bus to and from school to our house on those days .. and today i opened my daughters Homework book .. ( a parent has to sign every day to show that they know their child did their homework if u dont the child gets in trouble at school ie no recess) So i signed her homework papers so she wouldnt get in trouble.. So the x wife comes back.. and writes in the book to the teacher that THE STEP MOTHER HAS NO LEGAL RIGHT TO SIGN ANY PAPERS and scratches out my name..what a wacko

2006-09-08 17:31:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I recently Moved to WA. State and been here for about 6 months.. about a month after we got here my wife left me and abandoned me here alone.. I have since found the most amazing woman.. no.. amazing PERSON I think I have ever known.. she really helped pull me out of the gutters.. anyway I need to get the ball rolling on the divorce.. she said she was going to do it but have heard nothing at all.. shes been gone nearly 4 months.. I am not waiting anymore.. I am done.. I need to know how to go about filing for a divorce in the state of Washington WITHOUT getting an attorney.. she will not contest it and she left me flat broke.. I have a decent job and am able to survive but any xtra $$ is not in it.I need some real help here and some real answers.. please if anyone knows how to go about this in WA let me know.. I want this over so I can move on and be TRULY happy.. which I am sure I will be.

2006-09-08 17:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by althor989 1

He tells me he is happy to be married, that he is happy I like sex. Unfortunately, I observed an email left opened that claimed the opposite. He said he was no longer the man he used to be. He also claimed I was a financial drain, eventhough he is the one who shops all the time and buys me things I absolutely don't ask for. In fact he does all the shopping! He also spends a lot of time chatting online, has inappropriate sexual conversations with other women at work, spends work time watching sexual content television and surfing the web. This I know because he tells me.... I'm concerned because I really did believe he was happy being married. Should I be concerned or is he living in a fantasy world thinking he can have any woman in the world; because if he did have the best woman in the world, he wouldn't even know it!

2006-09-08 17:19:44 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am having some problems with my mind right now about my marriage and then i go to the singles page and ask questions on there about guys liking me. jonathan doesn't like it that i do this but i can't help it. please help me i think i am loosing it here lol.

2006-09-08 17:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by waverunner 500 1

OK, I am trying to find a certain person. I was also wondering if there was a way to look up people driver's lisence picture??? Any good sites to find people??

2006-09-08 17:14:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex picks up our kids every other Saturday at noon and drops them off at 7pm on Sunday. Legally, he should have them for two overnights (6pm Fri-6pm Sun). Some Saturdays it's like pulling teeth to get him there on time, or he has to work, or some other excuse. I have often not been able to drop the kids with him until 7pm on Saturday. I hate to complain but I can't make plans for my weekend because of his inconsistency. I'm gearing myself for a fight in court, any suggestions. He also only pays $450 a month for three kids...

2006-09-08 17:10:13 · 7 answers · asked by pixie 2

my husband has done it again turned his phone off. he has a friend over (guy) and is not paying attention to me.. give me some advice on how to show him how i feel.

2006-09-08 17:06:23 · 16 answers · asked by waverunner 500 1

2006-09-08 16:45:10 · 23 answers · asked by happy1here♥ 5

with a bunch of his buddies on a dunken golf trip?

2006-09-08 16:40:25 · 11 answers · asked by jjoct18 2

My hubby always tells people(usually his family)that I said they told me things they didn't.He does it at family gatherings,his family probably thinks I'm a liar.We'll argue in front of them about whether I said it or not until someone changes the subject....leaving me feeling akward and like the "odd one out" which I already do 'cause I'm the only black person there.Later on,he'll admit That his memory's bad or that he was confused and I didn't say it .This happens so often,I'm beginning to speculate whether or not this behavior is purposeful.....Why would he want to make me look like a liar in front of my in laws??

2006-09-08 16:39:40 · 15 answers · asked by Direktor 5

I've been married Ten years, with him 13. We've had a bumpy but faithful and loving marraige. W ehave 2 great kids. But he says he feels that I think he's a loser and that i settled for him. I never give that indication. I don't know what to say anymore. I can give advice to anyone but myself.

2006-09-08 16:38:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

as he used to be.

The other night I thought he had fallen asleep while I was giving him a b/j. I became upset and didn't finish, which made him angry.

But that wasn't the first time he didn't touch me or show any reaction.
We're to young for this to be happening.. Can you all help ?

*A lifetime of Performance* ;))

2006-09-08 16:35:21 · 15 answers · asked by crystallamp 3

The question is did you ask your wife to marry you or did you just finnally say yes after so much arm twisting

2006-09-08 16:24:21 · 11 answers · asked by Ibredd 7

Do any other people have this problem? You share everything with your spouse for years and years, things that interest you. Then you realize you are talking to a wall, and you dont really know anything that he is interested in because he doesnt seem to have any interests. Yet he says he loves you, of course he does, he conveniently knows everything about you. How can a woman actually love a man who doesnt have any interests or share anything with her?

2006-09-08 16:22:34 · 7 answers · asked by *zz 2

I long for alittle romance like candlelight dinner or a night getaway, you see we have 3 kids and it seems like we never have just one night for our seleves and when we do it seems like my husband doesnt have a clue when it comes to romance

2006-09-08 16:19:44 · 18 answers · asked by scorpioredk 1

2006-09-08 16:18:18 · 34 answers · asked by droop-e 2

I'll be divorced in about four months and I'm getting out of the military in about 14 months. My wife and I are from the same hometown in GA . I thought about moving back there when I get discharged. Not to my hometown. I was thinking of Atlanta. But I know that I'll be about six hours away from my son. My wife has no intention of ever moving back. Her family has moved to NC for job reasons and her best friend spilled the beans about her affair which took place in our hometown while I was away at some training. I got some job offers with some businesses in the Atlanta area, but at the same time I would like to live closer to my son. I grew up in a single parent family and I know what it's like to not have my father around. But at the same time I feel like I need to get away from her in order to start over. I know I have a while to think about this. Any divorced parents out there who live far away from their kid(s)? If so, what's it like? I just wanted some opinions?

2006-09-08 16:13:41 · 7 answers · asked by Thomas K 3

If a child's mother goes to court to stop her child's father from having to pay child support on HER OWN intiative.... Am I the only one who would see the benefit of father giving the child's mother a money order (for records sake) rather than cash that could be seen as the courts eye's as a gift every two weeks?

2006-09-08 16:01:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous