I would like to meet another person and have a relationship but it seems like all the men want is a friend with benefits and I would like a relationship but when I finally do find one they end up taking a job somewhere else or being sent to Iraq and all I get is an apology.
2006-09-08 08:00:16 · 14 answers · asked by bottomlessboat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It takes time to heal emotionally. Don't push yourself. Find something to occupy your time. I tried tutoring and it helped a little bit.
2006-09-08 08:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to relax and not rush into another relationship because right now obviously you still care about yr ex if you still crying which if OK just because you're not together you can stop the way you feel,time heals every day is a little better and before you now it you will stop crying,and when you stop looking and stop worried about finding one the right one will come along.
2006-09-08 08:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not giving yourself enough time to have fun just by being with yourself. Go out with a group of your friends and start having fun. You are focusing to much on finding another man. It is ok to be by yourself for awhile do not rush in finding someone else or otherwise it will end as well.
2006-09-08 08:15:17 · answer #3 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every relationship is different, every level of affection is different. There really is no telling when the right time is, the best advise I can give you is to look into yourself and love yourself first.
Love will find you again...like they always say...it's when you least expect it.
Don't worry, there's no such thing as that ONE and only...it's a matter of finding the closest one compatible with you and making the best of it.
2006-09-08 08:18:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In every relationship that breaks up, one person is hurt. That is the way it is. Don't feel sorry for yourself, think positive, don't try so hard to meet someone so soon for a meaningful relationship. When it happens again and you meet someone, it happens. Benn there, experienced that.
2006-09-08 08:07:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn to be happy with yourself and who you are. Quit putting so much into what some other person can do for you. No one can ever MAKE you happy. You must find that within yourself.
2006-09-08 08:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Cat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you stop crying. that is when it ends LOL.
you sound to desperate. Just focus on yourself and loving yourself and the need to have someone else willl lessen and life will be more sunnier than it sounds now for you.
2006-09-08 08:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by beachgirl90 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it make take a little bit longer than what you thought. take this time to focus on you and what you need to do for you trust me it will take some time but it will get better one day at a time
2006-09-08 08:06:17 · answer #8 · answered by waynekirsten 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time to get to know yourself again and greive this loss.Jumping right into something else right away will only cause you trouble.It does get better...............
2006-09-08 09:54:21 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TAKE CARE OF YOUR NEEDS AND YOURSELF FIRST AND FOREMOST. HAVING A MATE IS NOT A REQUIREMENT TO BE HAPPY. YOU HAVE TO BE HAPPY WITH YOURSELF FIRST.
2006-09-08 08:28:24 · answer #10 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋