My girlfriend broke up with me and I feel like I can't take the emotional pain.
2006-09-08 08:45:54 · 12 answers · asked by james l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I went through a divorce once and it hurt for a long time. I feel things deeply, sometimes too deeply. Try to find something else to occupy your time. Friends can be especially helpful, they were for me.
2006-09-08 08:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy!! Do you have friends or family? By all means, reach out for their support, they will not turn you away. Avoid being alone for a while, force yourself to do things you normally do. Sticking to your regular routines seems to help. Find a new hobby, go out more, join a gym, run a mile a day, read an interesting book. It might help to start a journal, it helps me immensly to vent my feelings in a journal and get through the hard times. Keep yourself together, it will take a huge effort, but you can't allow yourself to fall apart. Just remember: the dark days will be over, and there will come the time when you're happy again.
2006-09-08 08:52:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is she flat out ignoring you after the breakup, she was probably mad at you for something in the relationship. Were you clamming up recently, not sharing feelings with her and such? Women think this is a sign that the man hates them, or the man is having an affair. Then women bail out of the relationship before further pain is inflicted upon them. I suggest you read "Men are from mars women are from Venus" book. I didn't read it until years later after I made the same decision your girl made. If you love her, tell her, be persistant, take her to dinner ask her to marry you. If she doesn't respond to your endless commitment, then she has moved on for different reasons. Communication is vital in your situation.
She may be just as depressed as you are. Talk to her.
2006-09-08 16:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by *zz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are experiencing something that almost everyone out here has experienced at one time or another. Lots of people are going through that right now as a matter of fact. Dealing with a heartbreak is such an awful feeling. Just know that eventually you'll feel better. Try to just keep putting one foot in front of the other. Go to school or go to work. Just go through the motions of your life even if you're dragging yourself around. In time, the pain will lessen and you'll start to feel better. Lots of us out here know exactly how you feel. We've been there.
2006-09-08 08:53:10 · answer #4 · answered by cynthiajean222 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my sister just broke up with this guys that she'd been with for 4 years. Its was really hard for her and he'd call crying every day and they'd fight on the phone for hours. He finally realized that she wasnt going to be with him, and they both had to get over it. Now she is dating the guy that she is going to marry and is pregnant. She is having the best time of her life and he treats her like gold. So this just goes to show, that some times bad things that happen are only for the good.
2006-09-08 08:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by TayNuz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I which i could tell you how to but do that, but there's not a real solution for it,no matter what you do you gone go through it,but as the days go by you gone be better.My ex Left me when our child was only 4 weeks old at the time i thought my life was over but eventually things got better and now yrs later i think him for leaving us cause my life would never be that good if was a part of it.you probably in lot of pains right now but obviously she wasn't the one.and when he time his right you found the right girl,and maybe one day you'll think your ex for making that decision .it would been worst if you guys we're married and kids was involved.good luck to you and take care of yourself
2006-09-08 09:38:08 · answer #6 · answered by jolie minouche 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i evaluate the above respond. great element is to chat approximately your thoughts with anybody you have faith, chum, father or mom, sibling or maybe pass and see a counselor. you're actually no longer by making use of myself! all human beings have emotional soreness. this is a skill we study what we adore and don't and how others desire to be dealt with. in case you had a broken leg you could pass to a Dr. and get a sturdy, maximum suitable? sturdy, our psychological wellness demands understanding too. some undertaking you do please do no longer turn to medicines. like alcohol this is a depressant and might make you assume worse in the tip.
2016-10-14 11:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. You have to separate your feelings for the girl from the girl. Let it be all about your feelings, which you have for lots of other girls. When you break it down that way, you'll be happy that you can feel that strongly and know that it will happen again. Good luck.
2006-09-08 09:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, that pain has got to be one of the most horrible pains in the world - but you gotta get thru it like so many people before you have - allow yourself time to grieve, but then you gotta move on. lean on your family and friends as much as you can for support - try to find the things in your life that are good and focus on them - remember this too shall pass.
2006-09-08 08:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just broke up with my boyfriend and i have never felt so heartbroken. Ive left other relationships and have never felt this bad. it really sucks and all you can seem to think about is that person in every situation your in and your always reminded of them. good luck with everything
2006-09-08 09:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by lyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋