Marriage & Divorce - 28 August 2006

what is goin on in the world today???? ohhhh i got another question, my boyfriends going into the army and he wants me to marry him . i dont know but there is a lot of money in it. should i marry for money? or marry just because...

2006-08-28 03:52:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been a good dad to our two kids,i could of done better but work 12 hrs a day,i usually do most the tidying in the house,ive done what i can for my wife,we just argue alot due to her not doin enough around the house etc

2006-08-28 03:50:03 · 13 answers · asked by GEOFF R 1

2006-08-28 03:49:33 · 18 answers · asked by trina 2

2006-08-28 03:45:58 · 29 answers · asked by trap_or_die23 1

My husband is a very good person. He has a good job, he helps with the kids, he fixes car, homes. He is very prudent with money. He is always home on time. He would eat whatever is there without demanding. He helps with chores...He does everything except ...sex.

We come from a family tradition where sex is something that should be kept under wrap. I don't have anyone to talk to and I know I will not have support about the problem. Counseling is out of the question.

We have been married for over 20 years. The kids had left for college. What should I do? Should I leave too?

2006-08-28 03:41:23 · 26 answers · asked by chanella90012 1

My husband went behind my back and sold his chain. When I confronted him about selling it, he denied it twice to my face. When I caught him in a lie he siad it's because he knew that it was going to start an argument so he lied. Now how can I make him realize that what he did (lying) was wrong? Should I go behind his back and lie to him just to prove a point? help!

2006-08-28 03:36:18 · 26 answers · asked by lifeislove 3

2006-08-28 03:35:37 · 22 answers · asked by RoseAngel 2

2006-08-28 03:30:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm trying to help a friend get info that can help her deal with this abusive marriage that she wants to get out of. Any hints will be welcome. I'm zzzyzzx and you can email me there on yahoo......thanks

2006-08-28 03:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by ZeeZyx 2

My husband lied to me about who he really was. I mean huge lies. He told me that he was injured in Iraq (he was in the navy) but he's never been to Iraq. I think that I want to give him another chanve because we have a son together. My friends and family are telling me to cut all ties. What should I do?

2006-08-28 03:22:21 · 25 answers · asked by angelfsh9 1

For years I've heard of couples having a legal seperation and I wondered why. Can anyone hel;p?

2006-08-28 03:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by Travelin' Preacher 2

My husband and I have been in a rocky relationship for approximatley 7 years, it is mentally and physically draining. My child has witnessed it, and I believe that it does effect my child. I want my child to have a good example so that he can have a postivie and nurturing relationship when he becomes an adult. Our relationship is not a good example for him. I really want out, for him as well as my self, how do I break the news to him, or do I wait until things are just about over (the divorce)

2006-08-28 03:07:27 · 23 answers · asked by Happy1 3

2006-08-28 03:06:43 · 27 answers · asked by Timothy C 3

2006-08-28 03:04:05 · 11 answers · asked by ldw745 2

2006-08-28 03:03:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to try and avoid this, esp because there is our 3 1/2 yr old son. This was an ex from over 20 yrs ago. I have done some snooping when I got suspecious and have confirmed my results. She will try to get toegether on his next "free" weekend. I deeply love my wife. Nothing but chatting has gone on so far. Obviously I would like nothting to happen. She does not know that I know, should I confront her of my suspecisions??? If so how do I go about it???

2006-08-28 03:03:07 · 13 answers · asked by g m 2

2006-08-28 02:58:03 · 7 answers · asked by winky 1

2006-08-28 02:57:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Yesterday I came back from a weekend spent with my boyfriend. We spent a nice weekend but today we argued a little. I started to cry and he got really upset with me and told me that these kind of situations makes him hesitate to be sure about us. He told me that he thinks we need time apart. He reassured me he is not breaking up with me but he needs time to think about us, his life, his career plans. What do you think I should do? I wanted to find out from him today if he sees me in his future and he said that he feels like I am always pressuring to talk to me about us and he says our fights and my cries do not make him feel too convinced about us. When I was leaving today, he kissed me and said to me " see you ok?". He said he does not want anybody else, he just wants time on his own as he feels exhausted with everything.
I sent him a message today to thank him for the weekend and to wish him good luck with job applications he has been stressed about bur no reply from him

2006-08-28 02:56:40 · 21 answers · asked by violet b 1

i've been through so much with my husband in the short time we've been married (almost 2 years). my friends remember when I was so happy and bubbly and highly goal oriented. since I've been married I've endured so much heartache. my mother says she's never heard me cry so much but she never tells me to leave, she's a prayer warrior and tries to get me to stick it out until I know I'm ready to leave for sure. my friends of course see otherwise they want to pack me up with every weekend that rolls by. I usually leave an uncomfortable relationship but it's different for me now that I am married. Though he claims he wants to he never leaves either for some reason. I want to leave sometimes (i never tell him this) but I don't want to regret it. why do you think my threshold for tolerance is higher?

2006-08-28 02:51:38 · 19 answers · asked by Skypride 2

I feel like this is ruining our marriage. All the decisions are by him and I have no say in what goes on with money,bils, etc. I have tried talking to him but nothing changes. I really love him and want to work things out. Any good advice out there? Thanks!

2006-08-28 02:51:20 · 8 answers · asked by lifeislove 3

I live in Illinois.

2006-08-28 02:51:03 · 5 answers · asked by fairygodmother 3

My 14th wedding anniversary is tomorrow. We've been separated since May but still get along fairly well. (Mainly for the twelve-year-olds sake). How do I acknowledge this "special" day? or should I ignore it?

2006-08-28 02:46:50 · 14 answers · asked by Jet 6

use it to connect with old friends and current friends.i have pictures of my wife and kids on it as well. i told my wife i had set it up and she was surprised and said "Are you trying to pick up chicks?"
to someone not acquainted with myspace i guess there is a perception that it is about dating.

2006-08-28 02:45:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-28 02:43:44 · 34 answers · asked by fungirl 3

I believe God can turn anything around. I've tried praying being nice and just being a good wife to my husband but I feel and know in many cases when he has been lying to me about even small things. as a christian I am battling with sticking it out for the long haul and hoping for a change. his family life was/is of one without true commitment , divorce is prominent as is having children out of wedlock. my family dynamics are the total opposite. will my willingness to show true commitment and forgiveness pay off or is it still a dead situation like a generational curse?

2006-08-28 02:43:41 · 16 answers · asked by Skypride 2

My hubby was emotioanlly abusive to me for almost 3 years, and it just got worse. He shut me out of our marriage and acted like I had no right ot ask anything about finances, grocery shop alone, etc. I ended up talking to another man, and while most could say it was an amotional affair, I shared no feelings with him but, someone to talk to, no physical stuff was involved. Now my hubby has kicked me and our kids out. He sees that he did nothing at all wrong in the way he treated me for 3 years. That hurt me to no end. What should I do? I apologized on hands and knees and he just yelled at me. Any suggestions?

2006-08-28 02:42:30 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1

2006-08-28 02:40:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-28 02:39:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do I get my husband to understand that I need him home even if he's just sleeping? He works 12 hour shifts and then does things with his friends after work for a fe whours instead of coming home. I never get any time to myself becuase I am always tkaing care of our son and even when we get a babysitter I am always too busy just catching up on things that need to be done to sit down and relax. I know that I seem a little desperate but I am. We argue about this and I just want it resovled. He makes me feel bad because I know that he has friends from work who he sees everytime he is at work and he feels like he never gets to go out with them but I need him too. He says that we spend more time together than any other married couple he knows (they all are either divorced or do not have any kids and are free to do whatever). I just want him to understand... am I being unrealistic?

2006-08-28 02:34:02 · 12 answers · asked by mommy_2_little_man 2