2006-08-28 03:35:37 · 22 answers · asked by RoseAngel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ALWAYS HAVE AN EVEN NUMBER OF KIDS.
i have 2 bros and it sucks. i mean, its sometimes nice, but most things can only be done by either 4 people or an even number. And also, in an argument, it cant be 2:2, always one is alone.
So if u wanna have another kid, it matters on how old the others are (if theyre fairly old, it wud be ok to have an uneven number - the siblings wud be more like parents in a way when they grow up to the youngest) but if theyre still kids then i wud either get 2 or none. and do u have the money? the time? the nerves? and its really hard to get twins. i mean, theres no theory to get twins, unlike in sims 2 (you eat spaghetti and voila u get twins (if ur pregnant). and it wud be so much work to raise twins. And if u wanna get em seperatly its tough. anyways its a complicated matter. i dont know if anything i just said make any sense.
and its ur decision. none of us can tell u a right or wrong answer, its just... we dont know u, we ARENT YOU. we dont know anything bout u, etc.
GOOD LUCK!
2006-08-28 03:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having more children is for you and your husband to decide. Just because he wants more children does not mean you have to. You have to want them two. Easy for a man to want them when most of the work is women's.
You need to be both on the same page as this. If you don't want more share the reasons why with your husband.
2006-08-28 03:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by Mit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are confused about it then don't have any more children. Be sure before you have any more children. If your husband can support you and more children then have more, stay home and take care of your children.
2006-08-28 04:14:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you are positive that having another child is what you want. Kids are a huge responsibility, as you know!! Weigh the pros and cons of adding another child to your family. Maybe that will help you to decide what is right. Good luck!
2006-08-28 03:38:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For you and your husband to produce two children on this already crowded planet is enough. If you want more, adopt the kids who are already here, and have no home.....
2006-08-28 03:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are your children girls or boys or girl and boy If you have girls then he wants a boy, If you have boys then he wants a girl, But if you have a boy and a girl then I don't know what he wants. First if you don't want another one don't have one. Just keep stalling you need more time Maybe he'll say you really don't want another do you.
2006-08-28 04:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by robert d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how u feel abt it. can u afford more kids. can u give them what they want emotionally and physically. ru read to have another kid, will he help u if u did? u have to ask all the questions this is a life time desicion u cant back away from it once u r pregnant.
2006-08-28 03:41:22 · answer #7 · answered by in ur face 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you really afford more and to stay home to do all the laundry and shopping etc? If so think about a third one. If youre dead set against it then hes out of luck.
2006-08-28 03:38:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a mutual decision. Couples should always compromise. If you are financially stable then why not. If you arent then I encourage you not to have another child. Good luck and best wishes!
2006-08-28 03:40:23 · answer #9 · answered by ME 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both need to be in agreement on this decision,if you stay at home and take care of them then you need to be sure you can handle more kids,if your not ready right now its best to wait since you will be going through all the work
2006-08-28 03:41:24 · answer #10 · answered by san_ann68 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋