Marriage & Divorce - 28 August 2006

In a more extreme form of joint custody called Bird Nesting, instead of the parents having Joint Custody, the child has it of the parents. Ted Nugent did this with his children. The children remain in one home, while each parent lives there for 2-4 weeks, than they switch. They rent a room, live with parents, or make other arrangements for the down time. In many of the cases I've seen the parents rent a two-bedroom apartment, with each having their own locked room.

The parents are restricted from having any more children, until the first are grown, having a live-in or overnight guest with whom they are sexually involved. They split all the costs of the children's home with some variances based on utility usage.

This does mean the parents have to be very cooperative, but it means they are equally inconvenienced. The children don't get moved around. They keep their own rooms, friends, school, etc. I've seen maybe 100 such cases, with only one not working.

2006-08-28 21:06:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Oh, and for the prudes who like to report me, go ahead, it takes me about 7 seconds to make a new Yahoo ID. Cheers!!

2006-08-28 21:05:20 · 19 answers · asked by Lothario 1

Im engaged on 9th may,2006.Ihave a good relations with my fiance,he is very nice,caring and loving but now his family making such type of demands that we can't fulfill them.Now, my parents didn;t like the behaviour of my fiance's parents and they are saying to break the engagement.I want to ask what shall I do?i love my fiance alot. but on the other hand my parents r aslo right..we can't afford their demands and i don't want to be a burden on my parents.Please guide me

2006-08-28 21:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by mahek 1

How can you tell if you love is happy or just settling,cause he/she stays at a distance emotionally.

2006-08-28 20:51:27 · 15 answers · asked by nighneev 2

Left me after 21 years, kids grown, I seem to be of no use anymore. What happend next, she does it and comes home or is this it till I die of old age waiting for her

2006-08-28 20:43:45 · 20 answers · asked by Christopher b 1

since the spring of 2002 i have had deep feelings and a lot of emotional moments with a very "happily married man" 4 years later i see him focasing on another.to let you know in the past 4 years my husband sensed but could not nail me with evidence.he divorced me in june 2004. now i still work with this happily married man yes i am jealous he luvs another but if i reveal my affair with him i and him could lose alot of senority/the only reason i know he is close to another is everthing i did with him she is doing now i can see it in his eyes and hers. the only difference is she is 25 years old with 3 children under 7 years old and married with a husband and they are deeply religious.another thing i have noticed is that this man has included his "crush" into his family life (so inocent wife included)her husband is as wise as can be and shows up when expected to make sure things dont go on. i know his plays and can catch them .if i do catch them should i finally spill my guts?

2006-08-28 20:10:39 · 10 answers · asked by stacey c 2

I've been married for 14 years. We are happy but lately we have too busy for each other, she works days and I work nights. She has erotic books and I have the internet from time to time. I don't drink or smoke and have never touched drugs. Sometimes I just need an outlet besides magazines and movies.Something interactive. Am I wrong to feel guilty?

2006-08-28 20:05:15 · 17 answers · asked by fuyutora 1

2006-08-28 20:01:22 · 4 answers · asked by theresa s 1

Me and my hubby have been Happily Married for the past 12 years and once a week we go on date night and alternate who plans it. Money's never an issue cuz some of our best dates where when we were broke and did alot of things that didnt cost anything.

2006-08-28 20:00:32 · 20 answers · asked by ♥Shortie♥ 5

What is the best thing to do if I am married but alot of woman at work try to pick up on me and they know im married...
What is it with woman and married man???

2006-08-28 19:58:29 · 15 answers · asked by RICK D'S 1

Sorry ladies but we get bored with your pu$$y after years of marriage so we like to LOOK at something new. And we like JERKING off.

So quit with your goddamn bullshit whining questions about your man looking at porn or your man jerking off.

Boo-******-hoo!!!

2006-08-28 19:57:29 · 11 answers · asked by Lothario 1

The divorce rates would be much lower. Oh wait I forgot, it's the great American Women's movement. "I am woman, hear me roar" AHAHAHAAH!!!

Give me a ****** break.

2006-08-28 19:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by Lothario 1

2006-08-28 19:28:24 · 13 answers · asked by Alex Da 1

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2006-08-28 19:23:32 · 8 answers · asked by trillionaire 2

i caught my husband doing it while watching porno. but he didn't know it. i believe we are having a happy marriage. and i always thought we have an excellent sexual relationship until i found this out. what should i do?

2006-08-28 19:21:53 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-28 19:11:17 · 17 answers · asked by toryali jan k 1

Does this sound right?

2006-08-28 19:09:21 · 9 answers · asked by Lothario 1

How. do you feel you have to be one way in certain situations, and different in others? Do you admit this regularly or struggle with it? this is open to anything you have to say.

2006-08-28 19:05:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I cant go on like this. I married my husband a year ago... and I had four children from a previous marriage. He has a daughter. Together we have a baby girl now... and another baby girl on the way... by TOTAL freak accident. HE tells me to leave every other day... when he is pissed... but he says it so much, I am wondering If I should. He suppossedly got hurt at work, he hurt his rotor cuff in his arm, but yet he can still do everything he used to do... so now we are suffering financially. Everytime I turn around he is telling me to get my *** out and get a job and to collect more money from my ex-husband to aid in the kids, etc... and blames all our financial fall outs on this boys father, saying things like, " Call your dad and get the money!" My children dont even have properly what they need. He takes the child support and we use it on bills. Our church pays our food and other bills. He provides 2000 dollars a month total. The last comment he made was....

2006-08-28 19:05:32 · 27 answers · asked by Anna Q 1

We had up's & down's now we are best friends- I don't want to get re-married(I like my free life now to much) she has a boyfriend now- the guy she left me for- and I am affraid our daughter may get hurt if things go sour.To many feelings (old & new)are clouding my thinking....What should I do???

2006-08-28 19:03:37 · 10 answers · asked by budlowsbro420 4

19 years after the divorce, I ask myself what the hell was i thinking?
How could I have ever loved him? i was young, and he was 18 years older than myself. What was wrong with me?

2006-08-28 18:52:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-28 18:50:32 · 16 answers · asked by AHMED E 1

Two years ago, my ex-wife left me for another man while I was in Iraq. She had a kid with the idiot but has never remarried. She still calls every now and then and I just want to know why?

She insists that she regrets what happened but that she has to make do with what she has. She still makes comments on how she misses "this and that" about me. Yet, when i try to tell her that I still love her, she gets cold on me and then she doesn't call for a long time.

I don't want to hurt anymore so I am just trying to be cordial and I don't want to get personal. Guess I am just trying to be distant so she doesn't hurt me anymore. The truth is that I still love her with all my heart and I can't just NOT talk to her. My heart races when she calls and I hear her voice. But I just don't want her to hurt me again.

I just can't... and won't cut her loose.

Do I continue to keep the lines of communication open, or what?

2006-08-28 18:47:11 · 16 answers · asked by RangerBob 2

2006-08-28 18:42:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Did you live together/have sex before marriage? Has it lasted?Why or why not?

2006-08-28 18:41:27 · 16 answers · asked by BJ 1

2006-08-28 18:35:11 · 15 answers · asked by eviproto 1

how much extra should you budget for people that don't respond but show up at the wedding?

2006-08-28 18:22:42 · 4 answers · asked by skurj 1

My wife and I are/were alcoholics, she had been abusive and cheated on me{I LET HER BACK 3YRS AGO}...she & I had a fight and I left had a few beers and parked down the road from the house.I got a dwi..was forthright with my job and they took my $2 million sales territory like I was meat for the hungry wolf pack.My went off the deep end stopped taking her meds flipped out started punching and kicking me, I backup blocking but getting kicked in the groin into the kitchen and she came at me with a 12'' knife,she was so out of control and fearing some-one would get hurt I was cornered,I TRAPPED THE ARM and she wouldn't drop the weapon so I poped her in the face,it all happened so fast,and she was so violent I just reacted. I held her down and then let her up,She just kept coming at me IHELD HER DOWN telling my daughter to call 911,mommy was drunk and out of control.She didn't press charges but the P.D. did.My daughter tried to tell them Daddy was defending himself but NOWAY.Any suggestions

2006-08-28 18:19:30 · 16 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2

2006-08-28 18:13:42 · 10 answers · asked by nicky j 1

Because of not being able to afford the electric that a roommate was supposed to pay.

2006-08-28 18:09:53 · 9 answers · asked by Mairead H 1