since the spring of 2002 i have had deep feelings and a lot of emotional moments with a very "happily married man" 4 years later i see him focasing on another.to let you know in the past 4 years my husband sensed but could not nail me with evidence.he divorced me in june 2004. now i still work with this happily married man yes i am jealous he luvs another but if i reveal my affair with him i and him could lose alot of senority/the only reason i know he is close to another is everthing i did with him she is doing now i can see it in his eyes and hers. the only difference is she is 25 years old with 3 children under 7 years old and married with a husband and they are deeply religious.another thing i have noticed is that this man has included his "crush" into his family life (so inocent wife included)her husband is as wise as can be and shows up when expected to make sure things dont go on. i know his plays and can catch them .if i do catch them should i finally spill my guts?
2006-08-28 20:10:39 · 10 answers · asked by stacey c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Im really confused about this whole story, but i can tell that what you're doing is wrong. you'll end up getting hurt. So start to lead a new clean simple life, and try and take pleasure with the simple things ibn life.
good luck
2006-08-28 20:13:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two wrong does not make a right. You are hurt and have paid the price with a divorce. The best thing you should do is to leave the company - to start a new working and living life.
I am sure the other woman is suffering the same guilt as any woman having an affair will. The real culprit is the man...In this case, the truth will always catch up with them - in its own natural ways.
Get over this and move on.
2006-08-28 20:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by EagleDotCom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If can let another person catch him with this new girl do it and let it be a big seen so that way you are out of it and you revenge your self and he will get all he deserves.
2006-08-28 20:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange...pray for him to realise that even if he divorced you in front of GOD he is your husband until death...you say they are "deeply religious" is is so she cannot accept your husband!
Pray, my dear and try to think at somebody who suffered a lot for us, He hgave HIS LIFE for us and we forget when everything it's ok in our lives but whena problem occurs...we remember HIM!
Pray every morning, every minute : Dear Lord Jesus Christ, have mercy of my husband !
He needs your prayers to come back!
May God give you the LOVE you need!
2006-08-28 20:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by liveasahb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH THE DRAMA. you ruined your marriage and stand to ruin another. why not buy a farm in Kentucky and raise chickens and pigs instead of ruining peoples lives. plus, he is into this new married woman and is done with you.
2006-08-28 20:14:27 · answer #5 · answered by JJohn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to a married man who cheats,YOU ARE NOTHING BUT A TOY.Stop crying and obsessing.Get a real life,not someone else's.Did your man leave because you've been caught before?
With other married men?
2006-08-28 20:22:37 · answer #6 · answered by L.T. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that washing mashine clean, dont take any actions just pass
2006-08-28 20:59:44 · answer #7 · answered by leed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your story is a long winded one but to answer your main question, your feelings will last for as long as you let it.
2006-08-28 20:18:04 · answer #8 · answered by ladyluck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHY NOW?I MEAN WHY DIDN'T YOU DO IT WHEN YOU WHERE SEEING HIM THIS SOUNDS LIKE A SELFISH ACT FROM YOUR PART GO ABOUT YOUR BUSINESS AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR ISSUES BEFORE YOU GET INVOLVED IN OTHERS BUSINESS.
2006-08-28 21:00:07 · answer #9 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 WRONGS DONT MAKE A RIGHT LEAVE HIM ALONG U CAN FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL LOVE U
2006-09-01 17:51:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋