My wife and I are/were alcoholics, she had been abusive and cheated on me{I LET HER BACK 3YRS AGO}...she & I had a fight and I left had a few beers and parked down the road from the house.I got a dwi..was forthright with my job and they took my $2 million sales territory like I was meat for the hungry wolf pack.My went off the deep end stopped taking her meds flipped out started punching and kicking me, I backup blocking but getting kicked in the groin into the kitchen and she came at me with a 12'' knife,she was so out of control and fearing some-one would get hurt I was cornered,I TRAPPED THE ARM and she wouldn't drop the weapon so I poped her in the face,it all happened so fast,and she was so violent I just reacted. I held her down and then let her up,She just kept coming at me IHELD HER DOWN telling my daughter to call 911,mommy was drunk and out of control.She didn't press charges but the P.D. did.My daughter tried to tell them Daddy was defending himself but NOWAY.Any suggestions
2006-08-28 18:19:30 · 16 answers · asked by Smith & Jones 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pray, I really think only God's love can help you and this woman. I hope your daughter isn't living with this dangerous woman. Alcohol really affects her. Don't drink, get AA help, help your daughter and leave.
2006-08-28 18:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually if you are driving without a license you sign a promise to appear, get a ticket, and either someone else does the driving or you walk home. If they put him in jail and are holding him until arraignment, there is more to this story. And if bail is $125, that would be $1,250. Go to court tomorrow at 1:30 and listen to the charges and what is said.
2016-03-17 04:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) stop drinking
2) get a lawyer a good lawyer should try to get your daughter to testify this may or may not work.
3) the DUI and your job well... that's a little harder. Depending on the how the court case turns out. If all goes well and you are telling the truth here then you should just have to re-earn the trust the company gave you. It'll take a lot of work but if you show that you are making progress (sobering up etc) then you should be able to find a job in no time.
2006-08-28 18:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by morman620570 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you really screwed up, but it's not the end of the world. You are going to need OJ's lawyer on this one, but it could work. You could plea it out or have some of the charges dropped.
If that happens, get another job, some serious help regarding your personal life and get your daughter into some counseling. She's going to need it with you two for parents.
And then...next time you want to do something stupid, think first!
2006-08-28 18:32:20 · answer #4 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really believe what you are saying is the truth, get a good lawyer to defend you. AND STOP DRINKING!
2006-08-28 18:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry you are sh!t out of luck but, look up KBR on the net and that should give you that 80+k job back...... but, and there is always a but it is oversea, and the good thing about that is that were you well be there welll be no alcohol
2006-08-28 18:32:01 · answer #6 · answered by Dark Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tough one u got here. but one thing i know can save you. DONT save that marriage no more. Remember the saying, for every successful man, there is a woman behind them? Well, we all have to admit that for every man going downhill, there is also a woman behind them.
save the house, save the kid, save ur job, save everything, get a good wife.
2006-08-28 18:28:47 · answer #7 · answered by The Punisher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You r 2 demanding. ask Alfred Hitchcock for the answers. My mind is not working.
2006-08-28 18:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by Rajesh G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a good lawyer.
2006-08-28 18:23:18 · answer #9 · answered by Teacher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, stay away from alcohol, leave the *itch and start a new life. your chips are already down.
Rebuild awaaaaaaaaaaaay from her if you can.
2006-08-28 18:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by COOL G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋