what is goin on in the world today???? ohhhh i got another question, my boyfriends going into the army and he wants me to marry him . i dont know but there is a lot of money in it. should i marry for money? or marry just because...
2006-08-28 03:52:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
hey i'm in the army and went through the same situation. Eventhough the money is great we decided not to rush into it. Marry him because you want to be with him forever not because you could use the cash. One of the guys on my team did that and he has problemms with his wife. The first year of marriage is important because that is when you two will learn the most about each other. So it is a whole lot easier to be there for it. But no matter what follow your heart.
2006-08-28 04:01:05 · answer #1 · answered by alex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Money in the Army!?!?!?! That is not true. They don't make a lot of money and the life is very hard on everyone. You are alone for months or years at a time. You should marry him because you love him. The money might not last long.
2006-08-28 11:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think marrying someone in the army will provide lots of money then you really have low ambitions.People usually don't go to the army for money unless there is no other options.most of the people i know including myself went for a sense of duty and possibly get a grant for ed. after the army.it's the ed. that helps you get money, the army is just a great first step.
2006-08-28 11:11:30 · answer #3 · answered by desayunogratis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry for the money or just because if you choose to but there are some things that money can't buy like peace of mind, love, honor, trust, etc. If those things are not a priority for you then boogie on down the aisle.
2006-08-28 15:15:21 · answer #4 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 2 kids in the military, there is not alot of money in it, just a stable paycheck, housing, no doctor bills, benifits are good. But you still have to do the work(Marriage), seeing you are primarily interested in the money aspect of it and that is why you are considering marriage, I'd say you aren't mature enough to get married right now...sorry!
2006-08-28 11:14:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? You mean you could be rich on an Army brat???? Or is it you could spend all his money whilst he is fighting for our 'freedom'. They had a case like that on People's Court.
HA, if you are shallow enough to marry for money, I would suggest looking for a Doctor.
2006-08-28 11:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by patweb01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
marry for love.
with love, you'll be the richest person in the world *WOOHOO* and my dads in the army, we live a pretty decent life - ive never went hungry - ive gotten everything i wanted (except that car for my 16th, but i did get a vehicle to drive) marry for love, youll be happy and you can always get rich later in life.
2006-08-28 11:00:30 · answer #7 · answered by Xavier's Mommy ツ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont play with feelings girl.its dangerous.someone will surely get hurt.make up ur mind.if u want to marry him give it ur best shot by being a good wife.love is precious dont cheapen it.
2006-08-28 11:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by archie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry only if you love him n are sure of wanting to spend the rest of your life with him!!
2006-08-28 10:56:21 · answer #9 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only reason anyone should marry someone is because they love them and can't imange living thier life without them. plus they only desire to be with that person and that person only
2006-08-28 11:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋