I heard that my brother's wife is going to leave him. How do I tell him??

Answer 1

Tell him straight up. That is your brother and he deserves to know so he can prepare himself. Just like you would want to know if your man was leaving you/ Good luck =)

Answer 2

Don't! Could just be a rumor, or even a heat of the moment statement during a spat. Let them live there lives. If she does leave, then be there to support him, but until that does happen, keep what you heard to yourself

Answer 3

Best bet is to let the two of them handle it. If you do end up telling him, he could do one of two things: 1. Not believe you, and become very angry towards you or 2. Believe you and become very angry towards his wife which in return she will come after you. So, you should probably let it happen, because ya never know...something may change, and she may decide to stay with him. People are fickle-minded enough that it may happen.

Answer 4

I would'nt tell him. Sometimes trying to be helpfull in that aspect can backfire on you.. If she's going to leave him and she's not going to be Women enough to tell him, then that tells me about her character. Seems to me your brother would be better off without her. It's hard giving a good answer especially when none of Us live in that household.

Answer 5

u heard it from whom? unless she told u herself, which i doubt, u cant be 100% sure. even if she is leaving him, i think its better he finds out on his own. it is not fair to him or her for u to interfere. just be there for him emotionally when he needs ur support. who knows maybe he already has a clue. dont come between a husband and a wife. if u tell him she is going to leave him and she doesnt then? he will lose respect for u. just be prepared to be there for him thats all

Answer 6

heard from who first of all??????? did u actually hear it come out of her mouth????? cause if not.. then u risk alot by actting upon something thats hear say, someone could of taken something wrong..that she said and is just assuming she's leaving, or someone could be just trying to cause problems for them.. Why put urself in the middle on hear say could come to bite u in the rear.. Personally id tell my parents, they are wise enough to know how to handle this situation, and let them handle this if they think he needs to know they'll tell him, but they'd be the best ones to tell whats going on since they know all parties involved and we dont, and parents are usually wise in this area.. so let ur parents know..

Answer 7

You don't! Rumors and innuendos on something that has not happened will often leave you on the outside looking in regardless of whether she leaves him. Unless you have specific information that is true I would keep my mouth shut.

Answer 8

Stay out of this. Could be true, could be a rumor, but this is between them. Do everyone a favor including yourself and do not tell him what you heard. It can cause you more problems than you want.

Answer 9

Get the facts before you say anthing.
Speak to your sister-in-law, find out whats going on.
She should be the one to tell your brother.

Answer 10

you don't!!!! that is HER job.. don't stick your nose in where it doesn't belong.. he will be pissed at you if you tell him and you have no idea what is going on in their relationship... they may be able to work it out.. maybe she was just angry and never meant it.. who knows.. just keep out of the way for now and if she does leave him then you can be there for all the support he is going to need!