2006-08-28 03:03:43 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
WE ARE SITTING AND WAITING TO HEAR THE STORY!!!
PLEASE!!!!
2006-08-28 03:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That question is so loaded it is not even funny. What did you do to him, and why would any sane man make such an open ended promise. Love does not enusre forgiveness, sorry. Nor does it give you a free pass to abuse someone.
2006-08-28 10:17:55 · answer #2 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes alot more than love to stay in a relationship, honesty, trust, faithful. Its sounds like you are blaming your husband for your own actions. Maybe if you where honest you wouldn't be in this situation. Most married people that get divorced still love each other, love is not a switch that you turn on and off.
Sounds like you have some growing up to do..
2006-08-28 10:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on what you did. If you did something egregious like cheat on him, or physically or mentally abuse him, then yeah - he has every right to feel that way. But if it's just a silly argument, then of course not.
Care to clarify a little? You'll probably get better answers (I'll midify this entry as well).
2006-08-28 10:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends what you did if it's forgivable. it's not love if you cheated because if you are truly in love you don't want anyone else.and did you take that whatever you do I'll forgive you for granted? to see if he would? yes it can still be love but there is a line on what you will put up with.
2006-08-28 10:09:37 · answer #5 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's easy to tell someone "forever" when all is peachy and you're happy and in love. But then, when the $hit hits the fan, you realize just how asinine that promise was.
You shouldn't have betrayed his trust.
2006-08-28 10:09:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jessie P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To love is to forgive. Forgiveness is not a gift to give, but it is to release yourself from the torment of unforgiveness. Forgiveness does not let someone off the hook, it just releases the forgiver.
2006-08-28 10:07:08 · answer #7 · answered by Shamus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not sure what you did but He probably wasn't expecting whatever it was. He probably loved you but can't get over whatever you did. You probably should have thought before you did what you did to hurt him in the first place.
2006-08-28 10:27:25 · answer #8 · answered by smile4u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you did to him.
Everybody responds differently. " If People Out there Lie or decieve to their Partners before they Get married" Then I'd say HELLO....Most people don't know the first Clue to what Real love is.................
2006-08-28 10:17:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kathy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is loving and respecting himself by not being with someone who doesn't respect him.
You can't expect to treat him like crap and have him stick by your side. And if he did stay by your side, you probably shouldn't be with him anyway if he doesn't value himself enough to stand up for himself.
You will need to earn his love back.
2006-08-28 10:09:21 · answer #10 · answered by hello 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes marriages hit rough patches, try and stick it out. if it doesnt clear up then maybe you should try counceling. many couples in America do counceling once in their marraige. if he really loves you he will forgive you eventually. good luck with your fiance!
2006-08-28 10:08:05 · answer #11 · answered by Sparky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋