Marriage & Divorce - 20 August 2006

2006-08-20 05:04:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 2

If she babied me (bottle fed / diapered etc) I would help far more around the house and be much more attentive in all ways. How do I convince her that there are huge potential benefits for her?

2006-08-20 04:59:47 · 16 answers · asked by infantc 1

Now i know some of us dont get along with our spouse how many of us out their wished we had thought twice about how well our spouse's communicated. And knowing what we know now how important is common sense when picking out a mate.

I know there are many other attribute's we look for in people. In this question im only focusing on these two questions.

Finally did you make a good choice or a poor one.

2006-08-20 04:28:31 · 17 answers · asked by ssshoebox67 3

I have divorced my husband of ten years after I found out he was having an affair. We were having problems - problems I thought could be resolved with counselling. We were not spending enough time with each other, we seem to not have enough time for each other after dealing with everyday stuff, etc. That all changed after I found out about his affair with his co-worker.

Even though I know its over and that he is a liar, cheater, deceiver it still hurts that he could walk away from our marriage and our family. He is moving on with this woman in a way I could not even begin to think about. I need time to figure out where we went wrong, how we go to the point where we stopped working on our relationship, etc. before I can even think about other relationships.

Are there any words or advice that can help me get through this and stop the hurt?

2006-08-20 04:28:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Besides just typing into google.

2006-08-20 04:27:29 · 12 answers · asked by hippychic 2

My husband recently left to join the navy. While going through his stuff to find some proof that we are married(since he had to take our marriage certificate to boot camp) so my son and I could start receiving our medical benefits. I found a bunch of pornography, a pair of fake boobs and a fake vagina. A few months ago I had told him that I am not just something that he could screw whenever he felt like it. I wanted to feel like a wife should and not a roommate that he occasionally sleeps with. I asked him to be a little romantic and to show me some affection. It is hard to deal with finding that your husband would rather sleep with a piece of rubber than try acting like a husband towards you. To make things worse I am pregnant with our second baby. My husband also denies that this child is his to his family. I don't know if I should stay with him because we have children together or if it would be better for our son and the baby and I to just leave.

2006-08-20 04:06:41 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am 24, and i'been with my boyfriend for 12 years. 11 years ago he cheated and got the other woman pregnant, i took him back, and we have been fine, his daughter comes to stay with us once every few weeks, she a nice girl but for an 11 year old she quite smart, she plays her mum and dad off against each other and if she don't get her way,she refuses to come over and see her dad, this hurts him, but i feel relieved, cos everytime she here, she reminds me of the past i should be over it by now, but she keeps asking why mummy and daddy aren't together, and won't acknowledge me at all, the fact is they only had a one night stand, her mum causes aggro for him and still can't accept me as his girlfriend, my partner says he understands why me and his daughter don't have much of a relationship, but i want to but i resent her for existing i can't have kids and he wants them with me this upsets me more, should i make more of an effort with his daughter as a stepmum would?

2006-08-20 04:00:44 · 28 answers · asked by white_funny_girl 3

My husband sometimes touches me not even sexually and I start to cry. Have been hiding the crying from him. I usually get up and go downstairs to have a cigarette until I get myself under control.

2006-08-20 03:51:39 · 20 answers · asked by hljones1169 2

This is my first marriage and this is his third marriage. I have "turned into" the same description that he gave me about his second wife when me met. We are heading toward divorce now.

2006-08-20 03:48:53 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 03:43:54 · 6 answers · asked by a j 2

Personally, a marriage based on love would be more fulfulling. But one that is used as a political merger has more stability because the couple typically is more open about monogamy if they are not attracted to each other.

Whereas marriages of love are based on something fickle-- the feelings of hearts-- one of politics is based on something that will remain. The couple enters the arrangement knowing exactly what they'll get out of it. They know there may or may not possibly include feelings-- so it's not a prerequisite for them to remain together.

So when the couple that is blissfully in love falls out of love, they'll most likely break up and divorce. But the couple that was never in love in the first place will remain in the marriage for the benefits, as that was what it began as.

I'm not advocating one over the other, just giving my opinion. Of course I'd want to have a marriage of love and romance, and not of politics, but I'm just pointing out the stability of each.

2006-08-20 03:43:02 · 16 answers · asked by Zyxxin 3

i am married but have affair with other male,as he has some of my secrate informetion,which can reun my married life,in return he is asking for to be his concubine for one year,he is asking mee for to sign some documents,he say this is for record pupose needed,what will be my statuse after sign,whether i sign r not,
is in such case consent from lady is needed from female,
i need legal advise

2006-08-20 03:38:03 · 6 answers · asked by meharashu20 1

rebuilding a relationship that is on the verge of divorce?

Cause of divorce was him lying and cheating on several occasions. Now that he knows for a fact that I want him out of my own and my kids' lives for good, he promised to do all it takes to turn over a new leaf. I have given him a period of 6 months to go through weekly therapy and counselling to proof his worth, failing which I will proceed with the divorce.

I know it will never ever be the same again, in terms of trust and love, just wanna know anyone been there and done that, and any regrets in giving the chance to rebuild the damaged relationship?

2006-08-20 03:36:29 · 16 answers · asked by DiL 3

Would you stay in a bad marriage or leave and find true love

2006-08-20 03:34:44 · 23 answers · asked by trxr4kdz 5

my husband is in iraq, and I miss being able to tell him every little part of my day, and listening to every part of his.

2006-08-20 03:29:45 · 19 answers · asked by braslinbabe85 2

2006-08-20 03:23:43 · 4 answers · asked by a j 2

the biggest loser in the history of the world? He drinks 'til he passes out EVERY night,gambles on horses,dogs...,when she had a late miscarriage 2 yrs ago he pressured her to return to work 3 days later.He shouts at her like she's a dog.She is very well educated and has 2 kids with this as*hole.I worry about her,but he has caused a terrible coldness between us and now we don't talk.So,is he a major as*hole?

2006-08-20 03:14:57 · 25 answers · asked by BellaDonna 5

I recently became a male stripper with 2 other of my friends. So far I have done 8 bachelorrette parties. 6 out of the 8 times I have done the parties me and usually the other 2 guys have gotten either a blowj0b, sex or both from the bride-to-be's. Is this what it is going to be like? Trust me I am not complaining. I just feel pity for the chumps that are stuck marrying these whores. Even at the last party we ran a train on the bride-to-be AND her matron of honor who was already married. So is this how most women are like?

2006-08-20 02:55:38 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Not only did I lose the apt me & my kids called home, it took me 3-4 yrs to get them back. Note, we never returned to court to change the original decree, I still have custody. They lived with me for 4 yrs. Last yr they moved back to their dads, my son for his final yr of high school, my daughter because of problems she was having with my then boyfriend. Here is the problem. My X announced 2 days ago they (he and his wife) are moving out of state in 3 months. He has told them if they want his help, they have to go with him. Neither of them want to go but feel they have no choice. We live in the Bay Area, very expensive. I haven't remarried and finances are very tight. Our divorce states that he must pay until they are 21 if they are in school. I'm afraid that he is going to ignore that portion of the agreement. He refuses to talk to me. I am interested in hearing about any one having a similar situation. He changed the course of our lives already. He shouldn't be allowed to do this ag

2006-08-20 02:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is going for a divorce - he has meet another woman. Can I make him pay my lawyer bill - his income is four times mine.

2006-08-20 02:19:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

From the very begining my X has decieved me & the courts. Ours was an amicable divorce, or so i thought. We did our own, no laywers. I filled out my paper work, he filled out his. Unbeknownst to me at the time was that he added that I had an income of $1600 per month. I was a housewife, I didn't make anything. (only the one doing the filling has to show up in court and even though he promised the court to make an honest attempt to send me the final decree, he (his x wife, it's her handwritting on the envelope) sent it to an address 2 yrs old - this is why I never saw it untill a fews yrs ago) Not only did he lie about my financial situation, he was ordered to pay $334 more then what we agreed upon. He never told me this. He watched as I struggled and when I finally asked if he could take the kids (2) for 6 months until I could get on better financial ground, he took them and quit giving me anything to maintain the home. I lost the apt, and it took me (SEE QUESTION - PART 2)

2006-08-20 02:15:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 02:09:10 · 33 answers · asked by kezzy 1

2006-08-20 01:44:40 · 16 answers · asked by chandlerford 1

I'm tired of doing all the work and not have help or support except when it's convenient to the other person!

2006-08-20 01:33:57 · 32 answers · asked by metalbu11dawg 2

Please state how long you have been married. Thanks. (You just might save a marriage. Not mine, my marriage is going good. But somebody else's.)

2006-08-20 01:29:04 · 43 answers · asked by *art blest* 2

last night was my first bachlorette party as a male dancer. my buddy from high school got me a job as a stripper with the outfit he works at. to make a long story short, four of us were hired for a bachlorette party. the girls were all young. ended up the bride to be started giving me a blow....., while all her friends cheered. her friends didnt care. then she did all four of us guys in turn (blow...) from 2 am until 3 am i guess, she had us run a train on her. her friends never touched us--just the bride to be did all this. i think i should quit the job, i dunno. will this be happening all the time? i like the money i make and that i can do this for a living, but somehow i feel bad inside. i am booked for 5 more bachlorette parties this month, will this happen each time? should i think its just the job and live with it?

2006-08-20 01:17:19 · 13 answers · asked by tony g 1

My wife was amazing last night watching her be completely satified by the 2 of us was great .After my friend left we made love until this morning . She said to me thank you for letting me try new things .I ask if she wanted to do it again she said it was a one time thing to live it out .

2006-08-20 01:09:37 · 12 answers · asked by none 1

Do older women attract younger men who happen to be sophisticated?

Are the younger men who date older women happen to be more sophisticated and cultivated? Are they dating more older women because they think the women their age are not worth the time and are not to their level ?
what i mean by sophisticated and cultivated...For example, a younger guy who has accomplished alot, like obtaining a master degree earlier than the norm. Having a successful career, etc.

Do these type of men feel that women their age will want to use them for what they have and instead they will go for older women instead cause they feel intellectualy at the same level?

2006-08-20 00:26:24 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 00:17:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

The relationship between my parents works for them. Which is fine. But, their relationship isn't one I want to reference as a model for my own life. I don't have nearby relatives or adult friends who I can reference to learn how I should behave in a relationship. I'm 26 and it feels like I'm following in the footsteps of my parents.

2006-08-20 00:09:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous