Marriage & Divorce - 20 August 2006

I told my kids that i have made a decision. He either make a commitment not to abuse me anymore or he has to leave. Was i right to involve my kids about our situation?

2006-08-20 17:43:52 · 8 answers · asked by Joy 1

2006-08-20 17:37:48 · 7 answers · asked by maxella 1

my husband and i have been together for years now. for the past several months he has been uninterested in making love with me.I have tried showering with him,pleasing him,walking around without clothes to masterbating in front of him and still nothing.do you think he needs some kind of medication to boost up his sex drive or do you think that he isnt interested anymore or what? I feel really depressed about this and literally cry myself to sleep. i even thought about having an affair. i know this isnt the best idea but what else can i do? i have tried talking to him and he tells me that he is still attracted to me but he isnt interested in sex...any help you can give would be nice.....thank you in advance

2006-08-20 17:32:33 · 14 answers · asked by ilovetea4321 1

what is it your husband does on a regular basis that pisses you off? mine don,t pick up after himself, leaves dishes, and is just loud!

2006-08-20 17:19:04 · 30 answers · asked by lizardlover42000 4

he abuses u emotionally and does not give explanations for his actions, just keeps mum and assumes everything is ok

2006-08-20 17:16:34 · 30 answers · asked by Joy 1

My husband works the grave and he dont want me anywhere around there while hes working and a few girls has called my cell phone witch used to be his asking for him and when i get bitchy they'd hang up and ive walked in on him a few times on the phone wearing a bra on his head cheast and a pair of thongs tied onto his belt loops..what should i do? what is going on with him?

2006-08-20 17:10:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 17:07:05 · 18 answers · asked by louie m 2

I asked him when was the last romantic thing he did for me. He chose a day in January.

2006-08-20 17:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by angelica11_01 2

2006-08-20 17:02:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 17:00:16 · 16 answers · asked by Catp 1

And how far apart from your culture you think you could go? Any preferences as to nationalities and WHY?

2006-08-20 16:51:50 · 19 answers · asked by disintegrationisthebestalbumever 2

If not for money, what?

2006-08-20 16:49:42 · 28 answers · asked by snake eyes 2

2006-08-20 16:30:04 · 13 answers · asked by robbo 1

First of all, We talked and things are getting better. I'm not going to divorce him leave him or ANYTHING,i know love him more than anyone in this world (or the next).NO ONE has ever or will ever love him as much as I do.I thought about it and I consider marriage a sacred vow and divorce is NOT an option.I am not co-dependent.Im sorry that some people confuse the fine line between true love and co-dependence.Today my husband spent some time with his male friends and he sounded wonderful and full of spirit. I knew he just needed to get out of the house and with some NORMAL influence.I'm being proactive now, im not letting any one come between me and MY MAN (husband & best friend). NO ONE!

2006-08-20 16:20:55 · 16 answers · asked by Cutelilthing831 1

I have 9 year old twins and a mountain of bills Why do they do this to us I am 220 lbs and she is 100 he says it is not about that but is it

2006-08-20 16:17:19 · 18 answers · asked by momoftwis22002 2

2006-08-20 16:00:15 · 17 answers · asked by bitchy bastard 1

My ex left my son and I several years ago.Since then we have been to court several time with her voluntarily giving up more and more custody.Today my son came home and told me that his little brother and him were argueing, then his mother came in and started yelling at them. Finally she calmed down and quietly told both of them that she was thinking about leaving and signing away all custody,and they might never see her again.What the hell kind of thing is that to say to a child.If she does this the two half brothers will never see each other again. Before anyone says typical man or woman,I would like to say that this kind of behavior runs in families not by sex. Can I legally do anything about this mental abuse. Any suggestions that I can sleep on tonight would be appreciated.The kids are terrified now. All of her siblings have pulled this same stunt to get out of child support and she is 1 year behind now.

2006-08-20 15:53:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 15:51:30 · 16 answers · asked by Hans 1

or should i remain in my current state upon the selling of my home? even though i don't have any familial support my current state?

2006-08-20 15:47:15 · 11 answers · asked by No1ELSEcomesCLOSE 1

My wife doesn't like to give oral because of the taste, but wants to please me. Any advive?

2006-08-20 15:42:12 · 11 answers · asked by btb_in_oriental 1

My husband is Muslim and he asked me to cover my hair when I am out in public because that is part of the religion. Now, I have not converted to his religion but, I do love him and want to make him happy. The hair covers are not that bad but, not really sure what I should do. Please advise

2006-08-20 15:35:07 · 20 answers · asked by mexichic5 1

Did you like the results? How much was it and what did you have done?

2006-08-20 15:34:38 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous

You just found out the woman your husband ended the affair with is pregnant and she wants him to have an active role in the lamaze classes and he feels he should be there --- how do you respond to this situation?

2006-08-20 15:34:19 · 12 answers · asked by jaimestar64cross 6

Any of you that answered my other question - the answers were GREAT - but it is my friend and I am at a loss of how I can help her thru this.

2006-08-20 15:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How long has weddings (ceramony) been around? Like when was the first recorded weddings? Always wondered this...

Also, where did "weddings" originate?

2006-08-20 15:31:54 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last weekend I had to return my son (10 yrs) at a mutual place to his mother (ex-wife) traveling from Ca. My wife now and my step-son were going along in the trip. It happened to coincide with the anniversary from when we met (my wife now). Unusually we drove to the rendevouz point instead of flying. I normally fly my son to the West coast and drop him off to his mon. The flying time allows for him and I to spend the time together on our last day until the next school break. The day we traveled we celebrated my step-son's birthday and soon after we started our journey. During the drive I ask my wife if she would mind if I would share one of the beds with my son and she would share the other bed with her son. She said YES, but asked why. I said I would like to spend the last evening with him. Later that night when we were in bed she got upset and went to sleep in the sofa. Next day assuming she was mad I decided not to mess up the last day with my son and enjoy the park.

2006-08-20 15:31:49 · 15 answers · asked by F G 1

2006-08-20 15:31:49 · 37 answers · asked by C&Csmom 1

2006-08-20 15:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by steelerguy92868 2

is it strange for me to surprise my husband with a stripper and a night out at a strip club with the fellows. i will even get a lap dance for us both. but my friedns do not agree with it. am i wrong and will this end my marriage?

2006-08-20 15:24:51 · 30 answers · asked by cmac 3

recently i lied to my wife. there was this friend (female also my ex) of mine who tried to break my wife and i up, and was just causing trouble, my wife didnt want me having any contact with this woman. but i still did and lied to my wife about it like big lies that carried on for a year my wife then caught me out and my mate(who was helping me sneak around) as well as my ex told her everything. and now shes hurting so bad and i want to make it up to her im scared she'll take the kids and leave. i love her and want to make it up to her. but dont know how plz any advice would be appreciated.

2006-08-20 15:20:09 · 16 answers · asked by soloman 1