I asked him when was the last romantic thing he did for me. He chose a day in January.
2006-08-20 17:04:13 · 7 answers · asked by angelica11_01 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I mean no birthday cards, Christmas presents, he falls asleep in mid conversation, I have not been out anywhere alone with him in a year. I am 23 and have been married 18 months!
2006-08-20 18:10:15 · update #1
Boy do i understand, you love him to death, but the romance has faded? When you find a way for him to wise up and show, let me know. Some times going away for a weekend helps him realize how much he misses me, and then it happens, but fades soon, it is because you are so comfortable with eachother, good luck.
2006-08-20 17:10:47 · answer #1 · answered by thedreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is not inlove with u anymore he is just in a confort zone
he is not caring or taking you into cosideration he doesnt want to do anything with u
well what i would do is sit down with him have a hart to hart conversation with him tell him haw u feel and ask him how he feels about the relationship and what he wants from it
comunicate and take it from there and by the way you cant make anyone do anything and u cannot force anyone it doesn't work he has to do it on his own and maybe you are nagging or pressuring him to much give him space leave him alone for a while he will come around
2006-08-21 07:26:47 · answer #2 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell me about it girl my hubbies been out of town for work for almost 2 months now and about 2 weeks before he left he wanted nothing to do with me. I asked what was wrong and he said I was being annoying I couldn't even touch him. I told him why can't you just tell me your gonna miss me and the kids instead of trying to be so manly all he did was smiled. Since he's been gone and when I do see him I've tried to be just a little more how I use to be when we got together and I've noticed a change, I hope I've been with the guy for 11yrs. off and on it changed of course after the little ones.
2006-08-21 01:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~JustKeepSmiling~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good, God! More romance B.S. Why do married women want the dating to last forever? When do we EVER get to stop??
If you can't tell if he loves you unless he showers you with roses, swoons when you enter the room or call you twenty five times a day 'just to say I love you!' then you are the one with the problem. Damn, the wedding and courtship is over and it's time to get on with real life. Life does'nt mean he stopped loving you.
Ingrate.
2006-08-21 01:03:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do little romantic things for him (hugs, snuggle kisses, back rubs, notes) and hope he gets the idea. If he does something even remotely romantic, praise him extravagantly, so he will want to do it again.
Give him this list and tell him how much you would love him to surprise you with some of these:
http://www.learnthat.com/lifestyle/learn-174-50_ways_romantic.htm
http://www.rinkworks.com/romantic/
Here are some other ideas:
http://www.lifetimetv.com/reallife/relation/dating/askmp_romance.html
2006-08-21 00:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make him be romantic some men are some arent but what you can do is pay lkess attention to him and he will soon come around and want more of you then you go from there
2006-08-21 00:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they should do it on there own, if you gotta make them then it dont count
2006-08-21 00:14:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋