If a man cheats on his wife once, will he do it again?

Answer 1

Depends on the man. Sure, they say "once a cheater, always a cheater", but there are always exceptions of those guys that do it once and are repentent and never do it again. If they do it twice though, then they're just asking to be dumped/divorced.

Answer 2

If the cheating is due to lust and the man is very lustful, chances are he will do it often. But if the cheating is due to some marital problems which can be resolved by the couple, the husband may refrain from doing it again for the fear of breaking his family.

Some men are forced to cheat because they don't receive too much caring and loving from their wives which they see in other women. When a man's character is weak, he may easily give in to temptations. That is why wives should see to it that they give their husbands the attention and concern that they want. This will make them think twice before they indulge themselves in womanizing.

I would advise wives whose husbands cheated on them to have a heart-to-heart talk with them. The wife should ask her husband what caused his infidelity and tell him with all honesty that she would be willing to listen. It's possible that the wife may realize during their talk that she had done something wrong against the husband which she was not aware of. Open communications have saved so many families that were about to be broken. Closed communications have made many broken families which should have not failed at all if only the husband and the wife opened their hearts to each otherand tried to resolve the conflict before it had gone too far.

Answer 3

alot of people will say yes. I don't believe so. It is never right to cheat, however, sometimes stuff happens. What was the situation that caused the cheating(other than a colossal lack of judgement)? And is that situation rectified? I don't know. To say that a man or woman who cheats will do it again is like saying an alcoholic can't stay sober. Or an addict can't stay off drugs. People make mistakes. The good people learn from them and don't do it again.

Answer 4

That depends, is he really sorry for cheating on u the first time? If he is, then there is no chance of him repeating that again.
Some men do deserve a second chance and its not fair to label them as "once a cheater always a cheater".

Answer 5

Depends.... on the guy....and that saying , once a cheater, always a cheater isn't correct. People make mistakes, or get caught up in bad situations. I have cheated on people in the "PAST", but I am not a cheater. Also it depends on the relationship.

Answer 6

once a cheater always a cheater. i just recently caught my husband cheating. he told me over and over how sorry he was and he wanted to put our family back together. i told him if we were going to work things out he would have to write the other woman a no contact letter telling her he could never see her again because he was working things out with me. I mailed the letter and we started counseling. i asked him if she had tried to contact him after she got the letter. He said no. Friday I went to her house to see if his car was there. I saw him walking up the corner to her apt. He had been parking the car somewhere else than walking to her house. He told me and the therapist he had no contact with her. Men a the biggest lairs on earth. Yes if he cheats on you once he will do it again. I know you will have hope that won't. But my advice to you is move on. I no that is easier said than done. take it from someone like me who is going to the pain of being cheated on. Time will heal you. focus on yourself. Go do something nice for yourself. if you have children focus on them. they will love you forever

Answer 7

I think people can have 'mishaps' but you do know the phrase. once a cheater always a cheater. i have known people who have cheated once and then never again, it made them realize what they had and were about to lose for a stupid mistake. good luck.

Answer 8

It depends of what kind of man he is. If he really loves you, for sure he won't, but if he don't... c'mon everybody could get wrong, at least one time.
You better go and talk to him, communication is the best way to get a good relationship.
Best wishes to you, be happy and don't worry about it!!!

Answer 9

i think so.

it's the interest of others that is the problem. not the actual act itself.

i took ONE back that cheated, and let me say I never learned to EVER trust him. (unless he was home all the time, and then i grew tired of him QUICK)

damn, did i hate being paranoid. I will never do it again.

Answer 10

I screwed around on a girl freind once, it was one of the bigesest mistakes of my life,I cant speak for anyone else but I learent my lesson