Marriage & Divorce - 20 August 2006

My husband and I both work full-time, we do not have children. We are both in our early 20's and both have messy habits. Even though are schedules are pretty much the same, I feel like all of the cleaning, cooking, finances and anything else that doesn't involve fun, gets put on me. Anytime I ask him to help, he either A. Says im nagging and he just wants to relax. B. Says he'll do it and 2 months later it still isn't done. I also go to school at night, it is impossible for me to do everything by myself. How do you get your significant other to do their part?

2006-08-20 13:07:55 · 22 answers · asked by bittersweet_symphon_y 2

2006-08-20 13:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by stephanieishappy 1

Be honest and truthful,also add why it was so long.

2006-08-20 13:05:10 · 27 answers · asked by Cobra 5

My wife left me about 3 months ago after we moved half way across the country and has been saying shes divorcing me although I havent seen or heard anything yet.. I am really hoping she comes home and tries with me to make it work instead of taking the easy way out..
I feel terrible for even thinkiing like this.. but I am bored and pretty damn lonely lately.. theres this girl at the grocery store that I keep running into.. always has something interesting to say and very pretty.. I really am not looking to get involved with anybody else.. even if the divorce papers come through,I want my wife back, but im tired of sitting here alone all the time.. I am a firm believer that even if your spouse leaves you until the divorce is final you cant do anything like that.. but what do you think.. would you consider just going out to dinner or a drink or something cheating? I dont want to do the morally wrong thing here.. I would rather my wife just come back and I wouldnt even be thinking this

2006-08-20 13:01:09 · 13 answers · asked by althor989 1

Seriously - no amount of asking, cajoling etc. will help... he always just wants to eat at home.... he can cook etc. (yes I appreciate that) but sometimes I want to get out of our stupid apartment and enjoy a nice dinner out someplace... My dad took us out sometimes and it was so nice... My husband is an f'ing foreigner too by the way (i.e. not raised in the U.S.) - he's great as in cooking, getting my car maintained, doing his own laundry etc. but I just cannot stand not being able to go out anywhere!!!! I am seriously thinking of joining Arthur Murray or something to keep learning Latin dancing (without my husband of course) and also thinking of joining some kind of "restaurant-goers" club or something (if there is any such thing...). I am pretty religious so cheating on him is out of the question but sometimes I regret my decision.... not to mention that, had I listened to my dad and married another American-born desi, chances are we'd be a lot better off financially....

2006-08-20 12:58:42 · 12 answers · asked by Mishy 1

married 7 years have 7 children arnt planning anymore but feel sometimes the romance is gone
please help.

2006-08-20 12:57:34 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has been to the state..where i am.... to play football...but now is back in europe to play ball....he will be back in a month but what do you do to keep things legal? this is all so confusing? i didn't realize things were so complicated...anything anyone can tell me in lamans terms will help! we want to get married but don't want any drama. help

2006-08-20 12:55:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

Some states don't allow gay marriage,
The constitution gives freedom of religion,
So waht do you think if by some random reason being homosexual became a religion, would the US go against the bill of rights, or what would happen??

2006-08-20 12:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I go down on my wife she will not let me stop for atleast 15 minutes. This seems like a long time. She always cums but I don't like doing it for that long. Is this to long? Does this happen to anyone else?

2006-08-20 12:46:17 · 16 answers · asked by hello there 1

im in malaysia- but the numbers are variety. (20-30) but mostly 25

2006-08-20 12:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by acruz 2

How much is the average a father is expected to pay, nowadays, considering he makes approx. $100,000 per year and the children are grade school age?

2006-08-20 12:42:51 · 17 answers · asked by professionalfemale01 3

My husband and I have been married for nearly 7 years and it has been rocky for several years, horrible for the last year and a half. We have tried counseling... but nothing makes this relationship feel better. We have an issue with sex (see other questions posted by me), he was an emotional abuser although with counseling he has gotten much better... I just don't feel the love anymore. He is trying like hell and wants the marriage to work. I've really tried as well but it feels so empty. My family does not like him, they said I've been unhappy almost the entire time we've been together. We do have an almost 4 year old and he is a good dad to her.
I believe that I'm still married because I hate the idea of hurting him... But I feel like I'm sacrificing myself in the mean time.

I've read many books inlcuding Too Bad To Stay, To Good To Leave and all signs point to moving on and finding happiness elsewhere.
What do you think? Why am I having such trouble pulling the trigger?

2006-08-20 12:35:49 · 17 answers · asked by LovingMichael 1

I was the one who wanted the 3 way but unsure of being ****** by a room full of guys .

2006-08-20 12:34:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 12:28:13 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why do women seduce men who are engaged in other relationships. I mean i understand why a man would do it, usually sex, but why does a woman do it. Now think carefully before you answers because if one were to believe in BIOLOGY, which i do, then a woman should be more concerned with nurturing her children or future children then making more, which is usually the hormonal biological drive for a man. So why do women try to pry away men from relationships, and often succeed. I think thats not nice.

2006-08-20 12:26:18 · 10 answers · asked by vakfly123 2

I get the cloths and make sure they show up on time. She never gets their school supplies by the first day, its always after the first week or even the second week...How can I stress to her the importance of buying a few pencils and some paper? Is it wrong when I tell her she is a bad mother?

2006-08-20 12:23:24 · 7 answers · asked by Chad 7

I would like know what i say to my ex husband about forgive to my ex husband about our divorced 2004. It is still bother me very so much... My ex husband and I are very wonderful our friendships. Cuz of My ex husband and I have three daughters and one son. We are very good role parents to our kids! I would like help me that what i should say write note to him. He have girlfriend. I am second married last June... Thanks! God Blessing!

2006-08-20 12:19:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my friend s wife have sex with his best friend and thay have 2 kids does he try to make it work are not.

2006-08-20 12:10:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 12:07:10 · 17 answers · asked by O MESMO 4

Great marriage until around Jan. this is when we were supposed 2 b buying a new restaurant. all of the sudden, the owner we were supposed to b buying frm changed her mind. this was aftr i had gone to the rest. and changed menus, signage, rules, etc....then she and my husb. decided to do this together and pushed me out gradually. she now has a business w our logo and my husb. she decided not to go thru w the sale yet didnt let me kno. she even told all employees that 'mr. and mrs. X' r the new owners. Evidently she and my husb began havng an affair sometime aftr Jan 13th. i was dumped in march by my husb. i had surgery on my hand on thur, he picked me up frm hosp on fri and dumped me off at the house w bandages on right hand and little use of left hand.Basically, i was helpless 2 do 4 myself w my hands like this. i had no groceries and i had 2 boys 2 take care of. fortunately they weren't here that weekend 2 c what their dad did. now he gives very little money + wrks 4 her

2006-08-20 11:52:22 · 7 answers · asked by R P 1

you see me and my husband has been married 4 2 months and i have not been into being sexy or sexed whats going on with mei need help give me some answers

2006-08-20 11:46:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has been viewing porn for a long time.
And i am tired of it. I dont feel sexy or attractive anymore.
How do other people feel about porn?
Can it destroy a marriage?
He stopped once and then got caught again
Please dont tell me the sex is better afterwards. He didnt need me afterwards

2006-08-20 11:45:59 · 21 answers · asked by twobjill 1

that they just keep going on as if youve never said anything

2006-08-20 11:37:12 · 23 answers · asked by Supergirl 2

Wehave a lot of problems, but he doesn't seen to see them...I feel like he is not interestet in me. He works at home most of the time but he spend long hours in the computer and in his blackberry... for the time he comes t bed I'm already asleep.... We both have children from diferent marriages. When his son come to visit is like he forget about me... and if I look something to do (like paint, or go to my sister's) he compliens, he want me around even is he isn't paying attention to me. Theres more, but is too long, I jus ask him for separation and he went to the movies...I aleady took the decition, I just want to know if I would be ok...Thanks..

2006-08-20 11:35:00 · 11 answers · asked by None 2

everyone always says they never leave the wife. just wondered if thats true, its just a question people,

2006-08-20 11:34:52 · 27 answers · asked by Supergirl 2

Things seem to be getting real comfortable with me and my husband and he sometimes mistakes my comfortableness on lack of interest in him . I have assured him that is not the case. I want to make it up to him for ignoring his needs and wants. Mind you I am a stay at home mom and I do take great pride in my appearance and my home so its not like I let myself go----I just want him to know that I still desire him and need him-- so guys what can I do to show him that?? He is a rugged hard working kind of person so pansy stuff aint going to work. What would really shake you up enough to brag to your friends about what a great wife you have??

PS I am pretty open minded to an extent.

2006-08-20 11:31:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-20 11:30:16 · 16 answers · asked by healthnut 1

My friend was attacked by her husband a few days ago. The police came and took him to jail. I called the Police to get the report and they told me they would not give me any information.

Is there any public record of this ? It doesn't even show up in the police log.

I'd like to find out if he's been charged with anything etc.
She is too upset to talk to / think about it right now.
What should I do?

2006-08-20 11:26:24 · 16 answers · asked by NON 1

2006-08-20 11:19:44 · 15 answers · asked by col. mustard 1

2006-08-20 11:16:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous