everyone always says they never leave the wife. just wondered if thats true, its just a question people,
2006-08-20 11:34:52 · 27 answers · asked by Supergirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My friend has been the "other woman" on three occasions. She never got the man. I personally think it's a bad idea to be the other woman, bc it shows a total lack of disrespect for the poor girlfriend or wife that is being cheated on, disrespect for relationships, and disregard of the emotions of other human beings.
2006-08-20 11:41:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never been the other woman but my aunt has,and yes the man divorced his wife married my aunt had a child together and lived happily ever after until his death 5 years ago.But I know alot more women who have been the other woman and the man never divorced his wife Most of the time the man will stay married to his wife and keep you on the side.alot of them look at it as it is cheaper to stay married and have a girl friend.
2006-08-20 11:42:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately I have had both sides of the river flow in,,,and out of my life. My best girl friend and my now ex husband married a year after we divorced. They just celebrated there 10 year anniversary.
And then yes I have been the other woman, recently!! I have a question on this site that explains my situation. Right now, my "special friend" and I are taking a time out from each other. I know that he will make the right decision for himself and for no one other but himself. If he gets divorced, we have both agreed that, he will date me as well as date other women for a six month period, I am OK with that. I feel and so does he this would be the most humanly, realistic way to get resolve from our affair/friendship. By being 100% open and knowing that anyone, anytime in our romantic relations could cheat or betray you, but not to be con summed by worry....that is unattractive.... jealousy & envy ..those types of behavior. Remember we are only responsible for "our own actions". We cannot control any one.....and by knowing that, life is happier with out the consumption of worry!
2006-08-20 12:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know a few people in that situation and they are still the other woman . They don't leave there wife all they Do is relocate there wife into a bigger house while they string you along. The only reason they have another woman is because there wife they are used to and want something new . if there are kids in involved they are not leaving because they keep using them as the reason why they half to stay. Most of the time they are buying more time to keep you by saying they are going to leave .If they were they would have done it already. Don't waist your time sweetie they are liars.
2006-08-20 12:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by marrissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have although it was not that simple and they had all but split up when we got together (and yes I know this as we were friends first) I always said I wouldn't as my dad left my mum for another woman and it caused her so much pain but.... you don't choose who you fall in love with neither of them were happy (she was having an affair as well with his best mate who she is now married too) and we are still together and still happy... my dad on the other hand was well and truly fleeced ha ha! The only thing I would say is you have to go into the situation with your eyes wide open and know it could all go wrong and be willing to accept the fallout from both his family and yours.
2006-08-20 12:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by suzi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The few times I have seen the other woman actually get the man were disasters. It turned out each time that once the man was divorced, the other woman didn't really want him anyway.
2006-08-20 11:43:38 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just depends on his circumstances at the time, whether theres kids involved, financial reasons, or if he cant stand another day after marrying the wrong woman. And womens circumstances too, the "other woman", might not want him to leave his wife, as shes used to her independence, or she might not get the "thrill" of doing something "naughty" or whatever. Nobody can make sweeping generalizations about that kind of situation. There can be happy endings too, believe it or not, as has been shown here.
2006-08-22 04:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't understand why you would want to get the man; just the fact that he makes you the other woman now means that when you become the wife, he'll find someone else to the other woman. Grow up...enjoy what you have...live for the moment!!!
2006-08-24 09:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by divaA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been the other woman twice, the second one did leave his wife and then the first did, but it was too late for first guy then!
2+ years later with the second guy we are still very happy and trust each other completely
2006-08-23 02:15:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex is married to the woman he cheated on me with. But I left him. And he is getting just exactly what he deserves.
2006-08-20 11:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋