Things seem to be getting real comfortable with me and my husband and he sometimes mistakes my comfortableness on lack of interest in him . I have assured him that is not the case. I want to make it up to him for ignoring his needs and wants. Mind you I am a stay at home mom and I do take great pride in my appearance and my home so its not like I let myself go----I just want him to know that I still desire him and need him-- so guys what can I do to show him that?? He is a rugged hard working kind of person so pansy stuff aint going to work. What would really shake you up enough to brag to your friends about what a great wife you have??
PS I am pretty open minded to an extent.
2006-08-20 11:31:16 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
DON'T BE SO AVAILABLE AND PREDICTABLE. BE GONE WHEN HE GETS HOME AND CALL HIM UP AND ASK HIM TO MEET YOU SOMEWHERE. TEXT HIM ON HIS CELL....SOMETHING SUGGESTIVE. DATE AND FLIRT, AND NEVER STOP TRYING TO WIN HIM OVER. HE WILL EVENTUALLY CATCH ON AND DO THE SAME. APPRECIATE HIM AND WHAT HE DOES FOR YOU OFTEN. WHATEVER YOU DID TO WIN HIM OVER TO BEGIN WITH SHOULD NOT BE FORGOTTEN. YOU SHOULD KEEP DOING THAT. GET THE KIDS A SITTER AND GET A JOB, TOO. GET SOME OF YOUR OWN THINGS GOING ON. GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK 2 KIDS ARE THE EQUIIVALENT OF FOUR FULLTIME JOBS, PLUS BAING A MAID, COOK, AND SERVANT. YOU SHOULD BE MAKING SEVERAL HUNDRED THOUSAND DOLLARS A YEAR. TRADE THAT IN FOR ONE PART TIME OR ONE FULL TIME JOB. YOU NEED TO BUILD YOURSELF UP. AND YOU NEED TO ASK FOR WHAT YOU NEED. CHANCES ARE, YOU WANT TO BE MORE VALUED AS A PERSON, A PARTNER, AND THE ONE HE CHOSE, PLUS THE ONE HE TRUSTS TO RAISE HIS CHILDREN. FIGURE OUT WHAT YOU NEED AND WHAT IT WOULD TAKE TO MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE #1, AND ASK FOR IT. THROW HIM A BONE BY SPELLING THINGS OUT FOR HIM (PUT THE DOTS REALLY CLOSE TOGETHER).
THEN, SIGN UP FOR SALSA DANCING CLASSES. YOU WILL BE DOING SOMETHING HOT, THAT ENGAGES EACH OF YOU, AND WILL BE FUN AND GOOD EXERCISE. BALLROOM DANCING IS A TALENT THAT LASTS WAY LONGER THAN GOOD LOOKS, ANYWAY. PLUS, YOU CAN SHOW OFF AT WEDDINGS, EVENTS, AND EVEN JOIN IN COMPETITIONS.
OR YOU COULD SIGN UP THE WHOLE FAMILY FOR KARATE CLASSES, IF THE HOT AND SEXY DANCING IS TOO INTIMIDATING FOR HIM.....
2006-08-20 11:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the "random act of kindness" thoery. Surprise him...tell him you love him, show him you love him at random times, without any reason. Well, it'd work for me anyways. Good luck...he's a lucky guy!
2006-08-20 18:41:09 · answer #2 · answered by fyrfytr1971 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. handcuffs
2. choc syrup
3. whip cream
lol try those, that is what makes me say i love my fiencee, lol
2006-08-20 18:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by penguin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋