or should i remain in my current state upon the selling of my home? even though i don't have any familial support my current state?
2006-08-20 15:47:15 · 11 answers · asked by No1ELSEcomesCLOSE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would say it would depend on a number of factors. I'm not sure moving out of state prior to the finalization of the divorce would be a wise move, ask your attorney what he/she recommends in that case. You may give up some of your rights if you move out of state. If you have children with your soon to be ex, it might be easier on them initially to remain where they are, keep them in the same schools with their friends, etc. Of course, that's not even going into custody arrangments. Same with you, you hopefully have friends that can be a support to you. But only you can make this decision, what may be right for another would be wrong for you. I'm sorry for what you're going through right now, a divorce is never easy. Best of luck to you in the future.
2006-08-20 15:56:52 · answer #1 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lived less than an hour from my family prior to my divorce, but I moved back to my hometown after and it was the best decision I could have made for my daughter and I. Having the love and support of family is very important.
If you have kids, just make sure that you won't get in trouble for leaving the state. Sometimes it is spelled out in the custody agreement, sometimes it isn't, but you don't want to get yourself in legal trouble.
If you don't have kids and there isn't anything else keeping you there, get out while you can!
2006-08-20 17:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by StLMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes your family trying to fix you up on crazy dates (and they will try)can show you that you have value and are important. Divorce can be so degradeing. No I didn't meet anyone special after my divorce, but I did have fun dateing again. Your family can make your life happy again, for me it was my brother that showed me there is life after divorce. Go home and start out fresh . Good luck.
2006-08-20 16:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have children together? If you do you can get into trouble for leaving some states with the children during a divorce.
2006-08-20 15:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by iamiandme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would probably be a lot easier for you to move where your family is, since they would be able to be there for you. You are going to need friends and family to get through this tough time and it will be nice for you to be able to have those people who are close to you. Not only that, but staying where you were married might be weird and might make it harder to move on.
2006-08-20 17:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel you need that support, then YES. Plus family is all we have, you need them around as much as possible, don't realize it too late. Good luck.
2006-08-20 17:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by thedreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes move so you will have that extra support
2006-08-24 15:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Forsaken Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
family is the biggest thing we could have in life. Embrace it, people with families are lucky nowdays.
2006-08-20 15:55:35 · answer #8 · answered by Dimitri VanHorn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes. U would have someone to help u deal with things.
2006-08-20 17:02:58 · answer #9 · answered by sazzybmt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you need all the support you can get!
2006-08-20 15:55:09 · answer #10 · answered by TAWNIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋