First of all, We talked and things are getting better. I'm not going to divorce him leave him or ANYTHING,i know love him more than anyone in this world (or the next).NO ONE has ever or will ever love him as much as I do.I thought about it and I consider marriage a sacred vow and divorce is NOT an option.I am not co-dependent.Im sorry that some people confuse the fine line between true love and co-dependence.Today my husband spent some time with his male friends and he sounded wonderful and full of spirit. I knew he just needed to get out of the house and with some NORMAL influence.I'm being proactive now, im not letting any one come between me and MY MAN (husband & best friend). NO ONE!
2006-08-20 16:20:55 · 16 answers · asked by Cutelilthing831 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
BTW SKREW whoever sent this, i really don't care about their evaluation they shouldn't be involved, that's been my whole point from the very beginning. I'm not getting other people involved and it pisses me off that he does. Everything in a nutshell, HELLO he's a BIG BOY and he makes his own decisions, i can't stop him from doing anything, Nothing he does is EVER MY fault, and if people want to encourage babying him, i don't care because they're just skrewing his life up and it's messing with his head, so have fun when u end up with a 30 year old who's as mature as a 12 year old.
"Maybe you could send this question directly to every member of his family and friends,perhaps they can give you an honest evaluation of both you and him from their point of view"
Ohh and i just found out im pregnant so SUCK ON THAT!
2006-08-20 16:33:36 · update #1
No Sorry it's more of just a rant, sorry i just had to get it out. And to the person who thinks im pathetic, im guessing u didnt read the other parts to even know whats going on so until you've lived one day in my life, STFU.
2006-08-20 16:38:29 · update #2
what was Part-3 ????
2006-08-20 16:25:18 · answer #1 · answered by yogesh 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I give you a lot of credit for staying with him, many women would just divorce at the drop of a hat. I think an effort should be made to keep the marriage together and working, but there is a breaking point where marriages should end. The reason I support divorce in some cases is because of the mindset of the people at the time of the marriage--was it a wedding, or did you get married in front of the court house, were you truly in love ever to begin with, etc, etc, etc.
Marriage is a sacred thing, and the vows should not be broken, but often times women put those vows ahead of their own well being and decide to stay with an abusive man, whether it be physical or emotional or verbal abuse.
2006-08-20 23:29:09 · answer #2 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, your question(s) are so involved. I wouldn't be asking a bunch of anonymous 12 year olds on the Internet what to do! I am ready for part 5, this story couldn't get any more pathetic. Get some real help!
2006-08-20 23:38:43 · answer #3 · answered by eddysmomma 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whats the question and what was Part. 1, 2, and 3.
2006-08-20 23:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mightymo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont know the whole story, but i wanted to wish you luck...Im going through some bad crude with my husband, in fact i left im at my moms, i neded something normal and happy in my life, so i escaped. I honestly hope thing work out for you two, sometimes some time apart, even for a few hours in the day works...Mine needs a hobby or something....
2006-08-20 23:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Part 4??
2006-08-20 23:45:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you girl, things that are worth something are worth fighting for, just as long as you know when enough is enough. But I am glad things are working out for you. Trouble at home makes for trouble in life, so I hope your days are filled with awesome times with you and your hubby ahead. Congrats!
2006-08-20 23:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by ttti 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to get a life maybe some self esteem about yourself!!Men like women who are confident in theirselves not ones who glue to them like leaches !!Have some pride about yourself quit being a puppet on a string!!
2006-08-20 23:33:34 · answer #8 · answered by blondie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish I can find a silly lovely lady like you. Where do I find one ?
Anyway, make sure you tell him he is a lucky man.
Good luck to you and him.
2006-08-20 23:27:54 · answer #9 · answered by Just_curious 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You just need some gigantic black dick. That will help you get your head on straight
2006-08-20 23:26:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋