2006-08-20 02:09:10 · 33 answers · asked by kezzy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Its because your not as hot as you thought you were. You have a bad side to yourself that he has found unfavorable and when that happens...girl,,,,,it's over!
You try to make a marriage work like that will fail. You will eventually end up in divroce. You should already face that fact. He's gone!!!!
2006-08-23 23:09:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the world today, 4-6 minutes is the normal time frame for average healthy men, considering the level of stress we are under.
But then again,a lot of men also don't understand the definition of making love. Love making is not all only about the penetration.
Like most of your "advisors" here mentioned,foreplay is also part of the act.It also gives a better stimulation and a way to provide the lady many orgasms,and eventually leading to a better sex life.
A lot of men also stop at the instance they ended their ejaculation,which is entirely not the case.Cuddling and caresses are essential as part of the whole session,and eventually lead to a "2nd round".
The problem is especially serious in parts of Asia where the topic of "Sex" is not discussed openly and considered a shame.
2006-08-20 03:09:49 · answer #2 · answered by Geo C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Viagra is what men my age are calling a miracle pill. It must REALLY get the job done. I dated a guy that had E.D. He was limp without it. There are few side effects and if he drinks the doc said it won't hurt. Does he smoke alot? My doc said smoking doesn't let the blood flow and since that is what keeps it hard, well it makes since. If he drinks and can stand a few beers before you go at it, that will keep it up (sometimes) it also can have the opposite effect. Maybe you are just too good!!! :-)
2006-08-20 02:27:12 · answer #3 · answered by tjosen2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To sepcifically answer your question, there is virtually nothing YOU can do. He's got to do it. First, he needs to know that you need more time to get cranked up and off. Then, he needs to be motivated to do something about extending the time. Most of the responses so far aren't worth thinking about. He can stop and be still once he gets close to climax and repeat that. It isn't hard for him to know when to stop. There are other techniques as one or the other responders indicated. A good sex book or online site will have more techniques.
2006-08-20 02:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband takes forever sometimes it seems so 4-6 minutes sounds good to me. But to answer your question, if nothing else then when he is done get him to give you manual stimulation.
2006-08-20 02:27:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might try telling him how much you enjoy foreplay, or tell him you love manual stimulation, in a sexy way of course. There is also the possibility that he doesn't get used as much as he could be, which causes men to "act quickly." You could try to re stimulate him in some way after he "arrives" the first time. There are also desensitizing creams. Enjoy!
2006-08-20 02:15:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
have him take care of himself and then about thirty minutes later do it, my husband says that it takes longer to get off the second time. They have rings that you can buy that goes on the man this is suppose to slow him down from getting off so fast.
2006-08-20 02:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol sorry hun im not trying to be rude but if i may say that would suck. ok well when my husband and i first got together he wasnt that bad but the way we did it was let him tell you before he cu*ms and tell him to hold it and for you and him to stop moveing for a minute. but while your witing try kissing or something else. to make the time go by faster. good luck hun and take care.
2006-08-20 03:14:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first wash your vegina let him lick you for more than 12 minute every time he wants ram in do not let him and ask you need more licking when he licks pat him on back specially his hip and testicals try touch his dick less because he my release himself and ask him to use spray
when he does what ever you want you should do the same some time let him egaculate in dogstyle state men like it too much and after that speak together and tell eachother it was great expirence
2006-08-20 02:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by mohammad g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop putting so much emphasis on the actual act of intercourse.. the preliminaries leading up to that should be so earth shattering that by the time of insertion, that 4-6 minutes should be all you need....more touching and kissing.....your mouths should be the gateway to actual sex
2006-08-20 02:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by Jdubyathree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋