last night was my first bachlorette party as a male dancer. my buddy from high school got me a job as a stripper with the outfit he works at. to make a long story short, four of us were hired for a bachlorette party. the girls were all young. ended up the bride to be started giving me a blow....., while all her friends cheered. her friends didnt care. then she did all four of us guys in turn (blow...) from 2 am until 3 am i guess, she had us run a train on her. her friends never touched us--just the bride to be did all this. i think i should quit the job, i dunno. will this be happening all the time? i like the money i make and that i can do this for a living, but somehow i feel bad inside. i am booked for 5 more bachlorette parties this month, will this happen each time? should i think its just the job and live with it?
2006-08-20 01:17:19 · 13 answers · asked by tony g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
LOL, life is rough when your being blown by a slut. I am sure they all had to twist your arm to stand in that train, waiting your turn and when did the guilt hit?...let me guess, after you came.
2006-08-20 01:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by maxine553 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd day it does happen, some of the time, but not most of the time. I do know that guys act pretty crazy at bachelor parties, but I can't really answer about women. Let's say from what I've seen at male stripper nights, the mob mentality definitely takes over with a group of women, who otherwise act as if the nude male body isn't all that hot. A previous answer was most likely correct in assuming you got the guilty feeling shortly after orgasm, if you had one. Men will feel remorse for doing what deep down they know they shouldn't after they do. It could also be that you realize that it was wrong, not just of you for being there, but her for doing it on the eve of her wedding. Either way, your guilt should be your answer!
2006-08-20 01:38:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a nice guy with morals, but don't feel too bad, just enjoy what she gave you or if it happens again. It is the bride to be who should be feeling bad!! Anyway I thought guys were supposed to love getting a blow ***. Stop worrying about it, there are women who take marriage seriously (i hope, I would), it would be interesting if this happens again with the bride to be's, you should write again if it does.
2006-08-20 01:34:37 · answer #3 · answered by luvz cars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I can't imagine that happening Every time, I can't imagine that happening at all. I would assume that one getting married is devoted to the spouse to be already, the next day with a piece of paper shouldn't change a thing. I feel bad for what this world is coming to. No, not all woman are like that, and I pity the men that marry the ones who are. Give it another try, it's okay to push the woman away, you are not charging for sex, you are there to dance.
2006-08-20 01:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by mixemup 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol well you shouldn't even let them do that they hire you to strip not for sexual pleasure. so basically we can say you are a male prostitute. if you like your job and you like the money then keep doing it but do not let it get that far. Damn... I say that if the brides to be do this then really they are not ready to get married. And also think of it like this I'm not saying all women do this but say you were getting married and your bride had a party would you like it if she did that and the striper let it happen? wouldn't you be a little upset? well any ways good luck and take care.
2006-08-20 03:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok! I usually do not answer questions like this. yet, honey you sound so dissatisfied till eventually i think undesirable through not telling you something. You did not do something incorrect, except you had push her away. i am going to allow you to realize this does not usually ensue. some brides receives a touch gentle or feely yet this bride is the first I have ever heard that pleasured the stripper. not in ordinary words did she excitement one, yet all of you. i'm sorry, yet it is all on her head(no pun intend) attempt it some extra situations. you in ordinary words may have the nerve to do this way of work. you could purely be too comfortable hearted, and there is not something incorrect with that. Being placed accessible for women to ogle and lust after, may not look that not ordinary, yet I imagine it isn't ordinary on the thoughts. you realize what she did became incorrect, you've a unsleeping. Honey, the guy who could be feeling undesirable is the bride. in case you in ordinary words deal with the pressures, then end. yet a minimum of attempt it some extra situations, like you stated the money is giant! PLEASE enable flow of the guilt, you probably did not do something that any one interior a similar circumstances. What a fashion to commence off your new occupation. in case you could not deal with it, then a minimum of you realize you tried. next time if this happens, push the female away,because you're there to bounce and strip, not sex! you do not ought to do something you do not favor to, purely because you're a guy, you've thoughts too! you at the on the spot are not for promote, i wish you locate some convenience in anybody telling you at the on the spot are not contained in the incorrect! God bless us all..............
2016-11-30 21:05:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i dont think this will go on again this whore was an exception and stupid i wonder who will be the one to tell the groom before the wedding dude dont marry this slut,it one thing to get strippers but to do all that now thats messed up one guy is one thing but all three she had to be drunk out of her mind,just go dance and get out of there also charge at least 130$ a 1/2 hr thats the going rate in miami let them know if your over ten mins its another 130.00 chances they will want you to go .dont give up from one bad experience.not all women are like this.
2006-08-20 01:33:34 · answer #7 · answered by nicole l 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, not every bride to be is that vulgar. You will be able tell wich marriage will last and which wont by the way they act, and I can tell you that one wont. Just have fun, and if you dont want them to do that, just kind of dance your way back. But hey, if your not comfy with that, then its time to leave and do something else.
2006-08-24 00:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by addybme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you complaining? That sounds unusual that she did that. I would not imagine that will happen every time. It sounds like your first job was the exception, not the rule.
2006-08-20 01:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get older you will wish you had memories like those. Enjoy it is not going to happen everytime.
2006-08-20 02:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by rjsr40 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋