My husband sometimes touches me not even sexually and I start to cry. Have been hiding the crying from him. I usually get up and go downstairs to have a cigarette until I get myself under control.
2006-08-20 03:51:39 · 20 answers · asked by hljones1169 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
deep down you know that you are in the wrong place and you just do not know how to voice it .. i guess thats when you cry.. you could be longing for something more which you are not getting from where you are now.. i would advice that you ask God for Direction.. don't rush.. take your time.. maybe go away with friends until you are sure of what you want.
2006-08-20 04:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by tamrastic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The crying is a release of emotion and energy. You have anxiety or stress that is building up for some reason, and when a trusted loved one touches you it is allowing this to be released. Lay off the caffeine and look at the things in your life that may be causing the stress.
2006-08-20 10:58:41 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say its either from supressed memories of abuse, or you and your husband have never been a close couple and the longing you have for him to love you as a person and not in a sexual way is hard to control when he does just touch you.
2006-08-20 10:56:34 · answer #3 · answered by amosunknown 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that when you are emotionally overwhelmed your body responds by crying. You need to see ifis is the only time it happens or if maybe there is something about your husband or the way you feel about him that triggers your tears. I get like this alot, but i know it's because I am still angry & hurt over my divorce.
2006-08-20 12:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by mari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crying is a release for some strong pent up emotion. Sometimes we cry because we are happy and sometimes we cry because we are sad. You need to get to the bottom of why you are crying, what emotion you are feeling and go from there.
2006-08-20 11:00:13 · answer #5 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Something sounds weird about this. It maybe that the situation ur in is not what u really want and that you settled for him. or you job. It seems like u are not satisfied with an important part of your life that is connected to your husband. think it through
2006-08-20 10:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by jamcit can am connexion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has it always been that way?? I'm 31, just got off birthcontrol after years of taking them. (it was either give smoking up or the pill) Now I cry over EVERYTHING!! Horomones play a big part of womens emotions. It sucks!! You can have your hormones tested too!
2006-08-20 11:01:51 · answer #7 · answered by harley grl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are not happy in your marriage. Try some counseling maybe they can help you figure out what is wrong. If you are happy maybe you can try different touching techniques until you get comfortable.Also think about any traumatic incidents that happen in your life maybe thats the answer.
2006-08-20 12:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you realising your emotions wheb you cry cry the hell out of you may be that's what tou need it's opposite when men cry not so common but they do these embracing femmimity in themselves husband see you crying will love you more i guarantee you god bless you don/t smoke do a little prayer your body is your temple where god lives god bless you and take care of yourself
2006-08-20 12:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by george p 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear,
You are facing some kind of psychological problem, so you should visit a psychologist soon.
2006-08-20 11:15:12 · answer #10 · answered by Malik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋