Marriage & Divorce - 12 August 2006

Hi, I have been married for 1.5 yrs and was happy until my mother in law and father in law came to stay with us. When I was spending two days away from my home I dont know what they did but my husband started behaving very differently. One day my husbands father talked very rudely to me and my husband and his mom also started shouting at me calling me names and saying that I was basically an egoist only interested in my own little life. I don’t know how this happened. I angrily reacted back and my husband did not say a word. When we tried to work things out when his parents left, we started living together again but things have changed. We arent as friendly as we always were, his parents still keep influencing him and basically I dont think he has a mind of his own. He gets influenced by whoever tells him anything. I feel bad and used as I am his wife but he did not support me in front of his parents. What do I do? How will my husband know what a role of a husband is in a marriage?

2006-08-12 10:49:44 · 13 answers · asked by Jasmine B 1

Hello me and my husband have been together since 1999 and have been married since 2001 and he has always been mean to me like pouring ceral on my head or smacking across the face and about 1 year ago I kick him out. we have 2 kids, (2 1/2 and 5 years old) He moved out I filed for divorce, he snuck in my house in beat me up. And after a month or so I took him back. Like something crazy. Anyways I also slept with one of his friend while we where seperated. Something else crazy. Anyways that was my way of getting back. Now I can't just get past him beating me up, he still is mean but now just verbally. And I am not in love with him. I just don't know what to do. I am 23 years old and feel lost. He just nit picks all the time. I always worry if he is going to get mad over something. I have tried to fall in love and I just can't . He never appreciates anything. I mow the grass, take out the garbage, everything. And also clean house and take care of kids. I stay hateful towards him,plz,help.

2006-08-12 10:48:35 · 16 answers · asked by cbrannon22 1

2006-08-12 10:42:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 10:34:16 · 16 answers · asked by cinderella d 1

2006-08-12 10:22:22 · 25 answers · asked by biggied223 1

i've been married 12years and i feel like my heads spinning. we have 2 children. he threatens me w/ money, because i would loose the lifestyle i grown to like. he doesn't want me to have any friends, a car. he tells me i'm crazy and he can't take me anymore.and he doesn't deserve to live like this. and screams in my face. any more i feel numb. my mind is empty and i can't think, when hes angery at me. i'm scared, i won't be able to take care of myself and my kids if i leave. and i'm afraid of being alone. what can i do?

2006-08-12 10:17:21 · 41 answers · asked by ka b 1

to the married couples....does having kids and being married for along time make the sex life better or worse?

2006-08-12 10:14:56 · 21 answers · asked by Calvin 2

my life is crap i need help

2006-08-12 10:12:20 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband has talked me into exxposing myself. I was reluctant at first but it has become a rel turn on. He started it by having me expose to a friend of his. Anyone else out there do this? I know it is not everyone's cup of teas but give me the respect i give you

2006-08-12 10:02:28 · 17 answers · asked by sarah l 2

During the first year of our 6 year marriage, we lost our first child. We have a new baby. In April, my husband said he didn't think he could handle the responsibility of a child. He is negative and nasty to me for the past few years, off and on. I was holding my own, but now I've started seeing another man, I got weak and failed. I feel horrible about what I've done, but it is what it is. I'm tired of being miserable, and afraid my child will grow up in a miserable household. My husband wants us to go to counseling, returns from a business trip in a few weeks. He's been gone since Feb. He says he has pushed me away because he is afraid of losing me, like I might die because our child died. I am resentful, and don't think he will change. He only started doing this when I told him I was leaving and starting my master's degree. He desires counseling. I do not plan to leave my husband for this other guy. I'd like NOT to be divorced, but I am so emotionally tired. Any advice?

2006-08-12 10:01:30 · 6 answers · asked by ~*Allypooh*~ 3

It is possible can he still be in love with me. I love my husband. I have spoken with the other woman and she said she likes my husband alot and I dont think she will stop seeing him. This is a single woman with 2 kids and We were planning to start our family next year. I love hime but I dont know what to do. I have prayed and prayed.

2006-08-12 09:38:56 · 32 answers · asked by PYT 1

I was once told that the first time is always the hardest. That after that it becomes easier for a man to cheat.
I have posted some questions today regarding my realionship, but I'm curious to know from those men that have cheated. Did you really stop when you said you would?

2006-08-12 09:37:51 · 10 answers · asked by PINKY 1

2006-08-12 09:31:35 · 14 answers · asked by dwcofer 2

His wife visites him once or twice a year. Am I wrong to keep seeing him?

2006-08-12 09:27:55 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night we were at a restaurant and I didn't like the lipstick she was wearing, so I threw my wine in her face and dumped my seafood bisque down her shirt. She was crying like a little baby!!!! Do you think what I did was wrong? I think she deserved it.

2006-08-12 09:24:40 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-12 09:13:08 · 8 answers · asked by A soldiers wife 4

My hubby has over 60 T-shirts (and about 12-15 polo shirts on top of that). I find this a tad excessive. He claims that there is nothing wrong with this but they are clogging up the closet and all of our drawers and shelves. Should I make him part with some of them? What do you think? He is very attached to them.

2006-08-12 09:10:44 · 19 answers · asked by jaybird 4

I've been married for 11 years and the pe*is is the same along side the positions. There are other guys I wanna try in that way and I sometimes dream of how it would be with them. I am sorry and embarrased but I would like to try many at the same time or even have a train pulled on me. my husband wants to please me with a 3some but I'm not sure if that will back fire, in the long run.

2006-08-12 09:09:02 · 22 answers · asked by dori_619 1

2006-08-12 09:06:20 · 29 answers · asked by A soldiers wife 4

2006-08-12 09:02:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am married in my home country but it doesn't work out..no divorce was made..then i met someone who is single and knows my past..we became together and stayed for 2 years in a relationship..i can't file a divorce because divorce is not recognize in my country..i really want to marry this girl but i can't..so im asking if it is possible to get married in U.S. despite of my past marriage..Does U.S. recognize this as bigamy if you are married in 2 different countries?

2006-08-12 08:46:28 · 11 answers · asked by daja 1

If all wives where treated exactly the same?

2006-08-12 08:41:43 · 20 answers · asked by stargazer 5

If yes, what was the turning point?

2006-08-12 08:41:06 · 5 answers · asked by iorama 1

I cheated on my wife several months ago and she found out. She is a very rational and smart woman and has always given me a chance to make up for my mistakes. She kicked me out, won't talk to me, and I've heard she wants to move away from me. Why is she doing this?

2006-08-12 08:36:20 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend has been writing me and i answer him back he let me know that he still love me and somehow i feel the someway about my ex , but i'm confuse coz i love my husband he is so kind and he makes me feel alive but my ex keep writting me and he thinks i still love him , what should i do how can i know for sure who do i love more .

2006-08-12 08:35:48 · 44 answers · asked by girly girl 1

At first I did not watch porn but now I do and I am married. I go to work and come home and still cook and clean the house with the wife. I only watch it and look it up on the computer when she is not here so help me out is it bad when your married are you really cheating help.

2006-08-12 08:34:05 · 54 answers · asked by WHAT IS IT 2

At 50 years old all that I have means nothing to me after the love of my life left
Is it or will the pain ever go away. I have tried everything from travel to
Staying in the mountains for a few weeks , Dose time really changes things?

2006-08-12 08:31:20 · 8 answers · asked by tex_2585_8538 1

2006-08-12 08:30:05 · 7 answers · asked by aaron g 1

He said that he had not been in love with me for at least a year, that he still loves me, but is not in love with me. He said he didn't leave me because he thought that I had done too much for him (I have been working at McD's and putting him through school so he could join the marine corps.) He is now done with meps and in dep. He said that he "emotionally cheated" on me with his ex-girlfriend from high school (his first love), and doesn't remember if they kissed ("If I did it was instinctual"). They went up into the hills together to look at the stars and he told her her loves her. He hasn't even seen her for 7-8 years, until 2 weeks ago.) She left her boyfriend of 4 years be with him. They are now officially boyfriend/girlfriend. I found out two days after he left that I'm pregnant. I need to get a divorce now, I don't know if Oregon will let me have an anulment while pregnant. He wants visitation. I don't think he's stable. Will the military do anything to him either? :(

2006-08-12 08:28:59 · 10 answers · asked by all_the_answers 2

2006-08-12 08:28:26 · 20 answers · asked by PAUL J 1