At first I did not watch porn but now I do and I am married. I go to work and come home and still cook and clean the house with the wife. I only watch it and look it up on the computer when she is not here so help me out is it bad when your married are you really cheating help.
2006-08-12 08:34:05 · 54 answers · asked by WHAT IS IT 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Watch it together...my husband and I LOVE it!
2006-08-12 08:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you watching porn? Is it because you're bored of your relationship with your wife so you watch is to create some sexual excitement? Your wife may feel the same way and maybe your wife watches porn.
You're not cheating on your wife because you're not sleeping with the porn stars!
I suggest that you should suggest to your wife to also watch porn also find out new sex techniques to make your sex life a little bit more interesting. You and your wife should be spending more time together that way you wouldn't have the time to see porn on the computer!
2006-08-19 23:59:41 · answer #2 · answered by fashionwalker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't hide it from your wife. Looking at porn is perfectly fine depending on why / how / when.
If you are looking at porn and "taking care of business" all on your own instead of having relations with your wife when your wife is able and willing - you have a problem. Get yourselves some help. Both of you.
If your porn is a primer to having relations with your wife; not a real problem. Slowly try to engage her into what you are finding exciting. A couple watching porn together can be erotic, and if you look at it with a healthy frame of mind, can be educational. (This entirely depends on what kind of porn you are looking at) Many couples find that watching porn is a "spice" to their sexual relations. If it is your only primer - as in if you can't have relations with your wife until you watch some porn - get yourselves some help.
If you are looking at animal porn / child porn / snuff / violent porn and becoming sexually aroused - here's another problem. Get some help before you become the next headline.
2006-08-18 16:06:55 · answer #3 · answered by snapshot 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so i think porn can bring a little spice into the bedroom especially if you and your wife watch it together, but on the other hand if your wife has a problem with you watching it then you would need to consider what is more important to you the women in the movies who you cant touch or the woman that lays next to you each night that you can touch.
2006-08-19 11:19:50 · answer #4 · answered by lady_bactran 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is very bad. Do you want men to look at your wife in a the same mind set you are looking at other women. You are only a natural man. You don't seem to be able to rise above selfish behaviors. I would be ashamed to be your wife. If I was your wife I would think I can't believe a married a man that is like any other man I could have just walked up to and said lets get married. I bet it is hard to cover your tracks huh. Sad that you get turned on by a picture. You are on a road to hellish behavior.
2006-08-16 15:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married people watch porn too. You need to find out how your wife feels about porn without saying you watch it. If she thinks it is disgusting and you still watch it. You are not cheating you are lying to you wife almost as bad. If she is very religious forget about it and quit watching.
2006-08-12 10:00:11 · answer #6 · answered by Bigboi47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you talked to your wife about it? How does she feel about porn? My husband used to look at porn in secret and we didn't have sex as often. I was hurt and I yelled at him about it. Now we watch porn together. It makes for a little extra excitement. And watching together often turns into a hands on experience.
You asked if this is cheating. I do not believe that this is cheating. You are not having sexual relations with someone else, well other than your hand, so it is not adultury. Unless of course this occurs on live webcam.
2006-08-12 09:37:59 · answer #7 · answered by Liss 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is you wife not enough that you need to jack off on porn pictures. Get a life, its the same as gambling, drugs and all the rest. Respect your wife, stay away from other women, or someday you might think of doing it for real. Sorry man, its still cheating.
2006-08-12 21:00:45 · answer #8 · answered by crafty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make the decision. Why don't you look at porn in front of your wife? Does she know about your addiction? Looking at porn is very bad for your marriage. It helps to end many marriages along with other problems like cheating. If you love your wife and don't want your family torn apart in divorce court I'd get help.
2006-08-12 08:40:40 · answer #9 · answered by iamiandme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cheating if you're too scared to tell your wife. As long as your wife has no problem with it, there's nothing wrong with watching it. I used to watch porn (a log) but the only reason I did that is because my girlfriend was fine with it.
Plus, watching porn isn't bad as long as your wife is the only person who you desire. Watching porn is just a sexual stimulus. But you shouldn't want to be with the men/women that you see in the porn.
2006-08-12 08:42:41 · answer #10 · answered by BlueLantern 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow my favorite subject ... I believe it is just like cheating what exactly do you get by watching it that you cant get from your wife ??? please im me and let me know I hate that nowadays it is everywhere and women just accept it and it makes men have a lower respect for women I think and also they are looking at fake implants ect... and they will stop loving the way thier wives look becouse they cant measure up .so to answer your question yes I think it is wrong oh and why dont you do it in front of her???
2006-08-17 22:06:55 · answer #11 · answered by ThE OnE aNd OnLy ..PEPSIGIRL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋