to the married couples....does having kids and being married for along time make the sex life better or worse?
2006-08-12 10:14:56 · 21 answers · asked by Calvin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex gets better, much better the longer your married, kids or not. When you become completely comfortable in your marriage sex is AWESOME!!! Always be open and willing to try new things to keep the spark alive. Roll playing, erotic talk, toys and new positions are always a good example to begin with. You know what you want...Ask for it!
2006-08-12 10:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by Rayn71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't believe because you have kids or being married for a long time has anything to do with better or worse on the sex tip. sex is what you make it............nothing more nothing less. to me the longer you are together the better the sex is because you both know each others body's.......the likes and dislikes. just put a little spice in it and go buy some toys and some pretty lingerie and strut your stuff. improvise as much as possible and your mate will love your sex.
2006-08-12 17:26:20 · answer #2 · answered by pooda_victoryismine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like any other thing in life, you have to make your bed the way you want it. It is suppose to be better hence there will not be a lot of married people about.
If your sex life is good between the two of you, then it is good with or without kids.
If you have kids, it should not cause any problem, you only need to work out how you and your partner is going to work out your discreetness around your children.
2006-08-12 17:41:25 · answer #3 · answered by private_footballfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was married for 10 year`s with 3 kid`s we did not have much sex
2006-08-12 17:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by xxxxxxxxxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you go through a period of time when it gets worse, only because (usually the mother) is so tired from getting up during the night with the baby, sick child, etc. But as your children grow and if you keep in tune with your spouse it tends to get better, like when you first married, if not better!
2006-08-12 17:18:31 · answer #5 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Better, IF you don't let being a mom interfere with your being a wife. The longer you're married, the better the sex. You get so comfortable and trusting of each other.
2006-08-12 17:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cookie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children eventually grow and venture out on their own. It's taken some time but we finally find we have time to ourselves! We quite often use it to it's full potential (wink wink nudge nudge!)
We know each other so well now. That makes for great interaction without reservations!
Even with knowing each other as well as we do, there is still plenty of room to explore, and much more opportunity to do so since the children aren't around nearly as much.
2006-08-12 17:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by Heathery Lane 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my ours has gotten better and better and better!
He was a pro before, but MAN. He's so freakin hot!!
multiple orgasmss, super hot... yeah, and we have kids, too and will have more. Maybe I'm pregnant now from last night. We were in too much of a hurry to get one of those stupid latex thingys on.
Have kids and stay in love with your wife and you'll do just fine.
2006-08-12 17:18:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my wife 15 years and have kids.and the sex is wonderful,sometimes it may not be as often.but with true love that should not be the most important thing.and if the kids are young it is weather or not you have time but my kids are grown so sex is as good as ever.
2006-08-12 21:03:29 · answer #9 · answered by masterblaster146 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say from my life experience the quality of sex gets so much better,but the quantity subsides.
2006-08-12 17:18:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋