What do you think about affairs?

Answer 1

WRONG! SIN!

Answer 2

I think it is easy for many of you to judge people and assume that everyone who has had one is bad and evil and morally wrong but you can't always know the circumstances surrounding the affair.

Usually if there is an affair, it's because there is something important missing out of the marriage and it's not necessarily sex. Feelings of intimacy and being loved are separate. If a partner does not make you feel needed and wanted it is easy to
feel rejected and lose self esteem. That makes you vulnerable to turn elsewhere with your affections especially if there are other issues in the marriage and depending how long they have been problematic. Counseling doesn't always necessarily work either for those of you who want to jump on and use that excuse as a cure all.

So while many affairs are done simply out of lust and desire, that is not the case in all affairs. You can't judge everyone by the same standard.....

Answer 3

I think they are a sign of poor impulse control, lack of maturity and lack of character. Not to mention they are lame and weak, anybody who tries to say its the other persons fault is doing nothing but making excuses for themselves (again lack of character). I also think its silly that people don't realize that if they put the energy and time and same level of concern in to their marriage that they do their affair their marriage would be fine, they don't have time for their wives but they find time for some on the side??? Go figure. Either fix it or leave, but being half way in anything guarantees its failure.

Answer 4

I suppose affairs are fine if you want to destroy your marriage. They certainly seem to do that.

I would never have an affair. When I am with someone they are the only man in my life and it stays that way until we part for good.

Answer 5

They are WRONG if you have committed yourself to someone. Your spouse or significant other trusts you and to have an affair is the ultimate betrayal. You will break their heart and that is the most devastating hurt you can put on someone. If you're not happy end the relationship. That will still hurt them but not near as much as infidelity.

Answer 6

Sadly, although I think they are wrong, I think the power of sexual attraction can be very difficult to resist. The urge to leap into something exciting, especially if one has been married for 20 years, could be difficult to avoid. I'm not saying I agree with it, I just am aware of human failings.
I would like to say that I would never do such a thing, but maybe I need to be married for 20 years before i can judge.

Answer 7

Get ready for a lot of frustration, heartbreak and wasted time. I know first hand. Lived this way for 6 years! Lots of holidays alone, lots of lonely times when I knew he was at family functions with his wife while I was home alone. Then the guilt! Man, that was a killer. What do I think of affairs?????????? NOT WORTH IT!!!!!!!!!

Answer 8

When a guy marry's a girl and he cheats on her, its because he's not a Man yet.
When a girl marry's a boy and she cheats on her husband it's because she is not a Woman yet.
When a Woman marry;s a Man and she cheats on her Man, its because she has no morals about herself.
When a Man marry;s a Woman, and that Man cheats on his Wife, it's because he is a loser.
Maturity comes with time and sometimes time is too late. There is no room for mistakes in love of married couples when one or the other decides to cheat on the other. It is a sign of immaturity and loss of self respect to honor their vows. They both become losers if both indulge in adultery\,,,oh yes, people make mistakes and learn from them...no body is innocent for sure, but there comes a time in ones life when you must measure them right, and when you meassure them right you measure it good based on how they were as supposed to how they are now!

Answer 9

Disgusting

Answer 10

first off the one having the affair ,should think of how they would feel, if it were them that was being cheated on, we have a world full of people ,that think of nothing, or no one other then theirself. What happend to ,till death do we part? seems to me like people don`t take their vows to GOD very serious. But God takes them VERY serious.

Answer 11

The grass always looks greener,but never is in reality,affairs never help anything.