my life is crap i need help
2006-08-12 10:12:20 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
go out meet people, make new friends and have a laugh!! lifes too short :)
2006-08-12 11:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion queen 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to slow down and itemize the things that are making your life like this.
Once you can put your finger on the problem spots it is easier to handle. Look at the things you have the power to change by yourself. Work on one of those, when done work on another.
Find the things that you have no power to change. You should get counseling to learn how to deal with the things you can't change. You have to accept them or find some other way to handle them, that's why counseling is good.
Just set a small goal for yourself each week and work toward it. Never look farther ahead than a week. Once the week is over look back at what you have been able to do. It may not seem like much, but baby steps can add up to a long distance.
I wish you well in this self-discovery. It seems that when you break big problems down into smaller sizes they are not as overwhelming.
2006-08-12 10:19:01 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not on your own, the grass isn't always greener on the other side, in fact it could be a lot more parched than yours. One thing life teaches is that there's always someone worse off than you think you are. Cold comfort, but at least we have things to be thankful for, some ppl have nothing !!
Concentrate on what is the main thing that needs changing and do something about it. Channel your emotions into positivity rather than bemoaning your fate.
2006-08-12 10:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by xbkw46 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the feeling very well, life is one big bowl of crap, i got myself a job to try and start living in the real world instead of my mad world.
2006-08-12 11:31:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean your life? Do you really think you are in charge.?Can you control your heart beat, your thoughts etc. Of course not. The problem is simple. You are fighting with a impossible force-life. You are stressed cos things are not as you want them to be.
Give up the struggle then let life take you where it wants. Its all a fair ground after that. Let it all go.
2006-08-12 10:25:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to a counselor and start talking. Talking to a professional helps, it truly does! Look in your local county telephone book or online for your town/area Community Health Center. Services can be provided there regardless of insurance status or ability to pay, if this applies to you.
2006-08-12 11:33:40 · answer #6 · answered by mrs_tetchy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who would get help from you no adonis with your lack of knowledge of nervous diseases, how do you know this girl might be serious and is calling out for help, you know you could be in the same position later in your life who knows whats round the corner, think on lad we all need one another at sometime in our lives. I hope someone is close to you lovey you dont say if your in uk so it makes it a little confusing. good luck to you
2006-08-12 10:30:38 · answer #7 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How gratefully you should be to be in life some that are not would have liked to be in your crap life enjoy your life and live it to the full while you can.
2006-08-12 10:32:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If YOUR LIFE IS SO crap then do something about it, are you depressed, lonely just can't be bothered are lives are what we make it so stop feeling sorry for yourself and get of your bum and do so something about it. I
2006-08-12 10:26:24 · answer #9 · answered by lady_di_ar125 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out of the house, get a hobby, meet new people, spend more time with your friends and you'll forget about how crap your life is. just make yourself so busy you dont even think about stuff like that, that how i dealt with it!!
2006-08-12 10:15:37 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Join the club.
2006-08-12 10:15:08 · answer #11 · answered by awesome_eo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋