Marriage & Divorce - 3 August 2006

Me and my husband were on line looking at sex toys, he said lets try this sex swing it's fun, comes to find out he did this with his ex-wife while they were married and another girl. I wasn't mad, cuz I did ask him how did he know and he told me. But now it totally ruined it for me cuz now I don't see how it will be fun for him since he did those freaky things with others. What do you guys think?

2006-08-03 11:41:07 · 22 answers · asked by Kelly 2

I am so attracted to slutty women, wish I could meet another one now....Im obsessed, and too horny

2006-08-03 11:31:49 · 17 answers · asked by George T 3

before u got married ur boyfriend/fiancee cheated on u thru out ur whole dating relationship and then one day b 4 u got married u got a phone call from the girl he cheated on u with but u forgave him and still got married, and then like 2 or 3 months latter he goes back with her cheating on u again but that second time u cheated too so would u forgive him or divorcwe even thou u cheated onece and he did 4 times with the two same girls he cheated on u with the 1st time

2006-08-03 11:30:22 · 16 answers · asked by lazybutt916 2

only issue I have is that the date stamp on the video says it's from 1995, before we met. But she could have doctored it, right? But why would she keep this tape around?

2006-08-03 11:27:42 · 20 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-03 11:26:26 · 7 answers · asked by ladetina2cute4u 1

2006-08-03 11:23:12 · 11 answers · asked by yuli 1

I can't seem to have an orgasim during sex with my husband. Whats the problem? And why can I have an orgasim pleasuring myself but not during sex? What can we do or try to make it happen?

2006-08-03 11:19:03 · 7 answers · asked by starbirst 2

How do you think you would react if your spouse had to be gone for a month to a year? Would you cry?

2006-08-03 11:16:26 · 14 answers · asked by ladetina2cute4u 1

He will call me big butt mama, and draw attention to my tummy. I have to add, I am not overweight, I don't think, I am 5'7 and weigh 145lbs. I try to keep fit, and I think my imagine of myself is getting worse everyday. I find myself skipping meals and only drinking water or diet pop. How should I comfort my husband about these comments? He always laughs when he says it, but I am wondering if he really feels this way. He especially comments on me when we are watching a movie and a really skinny girl comes on and he always comments on how that is how a women should look. HElp!!

2006-08-03 11:15:46 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous

do I do. It's a craftsman screwdriver, will they replace it? I also broke my elbow when I fell, the doctor says it will be weeks before it heals. Next time I'll use my toolbox. Does your wife work with tools? or do you consider this "man's" work?

2006-08-03 11:02:46 · 4 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

My husband have sex with me? We usually have a great sex life. The last time we had sex was last week Monday I want to say. I'll initiate it but it's like he's the female now and tells me he is to tierd and makes up some dumbass excuse. When I ask him about it(like everyday) he justs laughs at me. I know it's not me, and I will go to the extreme of rapeing him in the middle of the night if I don't get some here pretty soon. I honestly can't live for over a week without sex. What should I do?

2006-08-03 10:52:14 · 6 answers · asked by lillady 4

on her door and hand deliver this illicit email he sent me about my wife. I'm sure she'll feel like I've screwed her, but in the end, she'll know what her husband is really like hiding behind a screen name.
Does anyone have directions to Green Bay from Montana? My wife and I are going on a fun road trip.

2006-08-03 10:49:59 · 32 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

I know closed fist is wrong but how about backhanded

2006-08-03 10:49:52 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a person is a nymphomaniac who needs treatment for this illness should not their spouse forgive them as they vowed to stay together in SICKNESS and in health? I am not a nymphomaniac.q

2006-08-03 10:49:51 · 6 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5

have them ready for the guests and ended up breaking my hand. My wife thought I was an idiot, do you?

2006-08-03 10:42:12 · 9 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

All the time, " BLA! BLABLABLABBLLAA BLA BLA!"

2006-08-03 10:39:21 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

u have forgiven then, now the air needs to b cleared on why and what can b done 2 c 2 it that it doesn't happen ever again.

2006-08-03 10:38:55 · 14 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

I am over my ex. I am having trouble getting over my loss of my marriage. I don't call or have any contact with my ex more than when we exchange our son every other weeken, I have no desire to. I don't need a man I am fine there I am just wanting to begin a relationship.

2006-08-03 10:36:26 · 3 answers · asked by jojoladay 2

Ive been home for college since the beginning of may, I've talked to my father myabe 10 times. He has called me no more then 3 times, and ONLY in regards to my cell phone bill (he wants me to pay for the text message overages) He has not bothered to call me, see how I am doing, or make any plans to see me all summer. I've called him, maybe once a week, and yes it's usually only when I want something. (because that's the kind of relationship we've built.) though I planned our entire 4th of july on his boat. When he confronted me about the phone bill I told him I refused to pay it, because he hasn't even bothered to see how I was doing, let alone make any plans or drive his expensive car up to see me and my brother. I think the 60$ (extra minutes) is a perfectly reasonable exchange. but he's too stubborn to admit anything. He asked why I havent called him, and I said that he's the parent, all he said was your the kid. All he could do was say "well what are you doing sunday?"

2006-08-03 10:36:14 · 7 answers · asked by KLD it. 4

They have lived together for about three years. He and I share a daughter and I have full custody, anyway when my daughter visits the girlfriend send me typed three page letters home. Telling me stupid ****. I don't think my ex knows. my sister says the letters should make me mad, but I just laugh them off. What should I do to stop the letters?

2006-08-03 10:28:30 · 10 answers · asked by kristin 2

My friend is 23, she has been married a year and a half.

She met her husband and got engaged in a month and then married 9 months from the day they met.

She recently told me that since they married she has been VERY unhappy.

She says she hasn't been happy since their engagement but thought she would fall in love with him because he is a nice guy.

She says she was never in love with him but people tell her to try to stick with it.

They went to counseling but it didn't help.She thinks they weren't meant to be and didn't know each other when they married.

She says they never spend time together and don't have anything to talk about.

She wants to leave him but he says he loves her.

She promised to try for another 6 months but she is so miserable and unhappy.

I told her I love her and think she should leave if she isn't in love with him. No counseling makes you fall in love with someone.

They have no children.

What should she do?

2006-08-03 10:19:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

When I found out my husband cheated and we talked a bit about it he say's he dosen't know why he did it. He said he had sex, he had affection he had love he had everything he needed. I want to ask him more about why he did it but I told him we were to forget it and never talk about it again that I would never throw it in his face. It's just that I can't get it out of my head what would cause him to do this to me he was my first and I was his first?

2006-08-03 10:09:57 · 16 answers · asked by tryme 1

She smokes and has continued to smoke through the first 4 months of pregnancy. He reasoning is she's stressed and that I haven't quit either.

2006-08-03 10:09:02 · 22 answers · asked by mike 1

I have a 13yr old step son who has informed his father and I that he wishes to live with us full time.
He has spoke to his mother and she has refused. my husband and i have also tried to talk to her and she just becomes beligerent.

We do not want to put our son through the court system but we feel we have no choice as she is not hearing the reason why he would like to stay.

I understand her being hurt and upset and we do not want to make this any tougher on all parties than need be.

If you have any advice it would be greatly appreciated

2006-08-03 10:06:56 · 10 answers · asked by Monica F 1

y do most ppl have affairs when they are married is it because the person they loved n married is bored of them now n isnt givn much attn to their partner..which then leads...their partner having an affair....

2006-08-03 10:03:34 · 26 answers · asked by SenSored 2

When I ask my husband if I can go out, he almost always says no. So when I try to leave because I just can't stand being around him because he never listens to me, he tells me he will call the cops and tell them that I stole the car. Even though we are married and the car belongs to the both of us. He always says I am cheating on him, even though I never have. He just doesn't trust me and he wont let me go out. Like the other day I wanted to go see my fathers grave and he told me he didn't believe me and said I wasn't going where I said I was going and he said I was going to cheat on him. I don't know why he is always thinking I am cheating on him, because I have never cheated on him. But anyway when I try to leave and he says he will call the cops if I leave, what should I do about that? Should I leave anyway? Can he really call the cops and tell them I stole "our" car? Will I get in trouble? I don't know what to do. I just need some alone time or our marriage is going to end...

2006-08-03 09:58:05 · 29 answers · asked by Bree 2

You see guy was sweet at first but now hes like the devil. I cant stand him anymore he yells all the time, if i dont tell him what im doing. He always asking me to do things for him, and just recently started helping with his baby. now he got kickout of his house and wants me to move with him, he says he cant wait to get out of his house. I told him so many times that i dont want to move because its not working out, then he calls me names and treats me bad. If i brake up with him he tries to take the baby away from me. I dont know what to do anymore, I just cant be with some one that tries to put me down and treat me like the way he does, and to make me feel even "better" he says that everything is my fault.

2006-08-03 09:56:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My girlfriend and I have been together over the last four years off and on. We now have a 1 and a half year old son and depend on each othe financially and domestically. We have been through a lot in these four years including infidelity, lies and deception. In the recent weeks we have started rebuilding our relationship being totaly open and honest why things ended up the way that they did. I feel like I love her now more than I ever did, like we fell in love all over again for the first time. We were both raised with christian morals and values but strayed away from them in our adult lives. We now want God back in our lives and our relationship and instill those same values and morals in our children. I guess the real question is should we jump right into a legal marriage or keep building the relationship and trust? Should sex be a part of this?

2006-08-03 09:53:23 · 13 answers · asked by anthony c 2

Wedding plans in England failed due to various pressures and we are now looking to get married in andalusia. However, we are in the very early stages of looking and need alot of guidance! Any venue or location ideas would be very much appreciated...

2006-08-03 09:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by Simondo 2

And I know she hates me too! She makes fun of me and FI when dads not around, and tells me "you just like your bitchy mother" My dad was around her when she said that! She is responsible for my mom and dad divorce. while mom and dad still married, they made love and mom caught them, so why should i like her?

2006-08-03 09:44:20 · 20 answers · asked by Newlywed 4