Marriage & Divorce - 3 August 2006

I'm very shallow but when I climb into the uncle Ned with the old trouble, it's such a wonderful feeling that I hope I die first. I couldn't stand it alone.

2006-08-03 06:22:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today my husband lost another job. He can't seem to hold one down. I have worked a year and a half and I've only missed one day. And thats because I emotionally needed a break. He told me on the phone that maybe we should just get a divorced. And hung up on me. He hasn't called me back since. Right now I know he is stressed out, he has lost job after job. He owes over $3000 in fines and now he doesn't have a job so he won't be able to pay the fines. And will more than likely go to jail. He lost his licence so he can't go to work. I don't have a licence just a permit. And I hire people to come and get me and take me home but it is getting old. And we are in the middle of moving our mobile home which has to be moved by Monday, Am I wrong for wanting this divorce? He takes advantage of me and exspects me to do it all. I am a tired 27 yr old female and I've been married since I was 15. I don't know how to pick up my life and move on. What should I do? SERIOUS ANSWERS ONLY!

2006-08-03 06:21:41 · 15 answers · asked by Nevada 2

2006-08-03 06:14:52 · 8 answers · asked by YESHUA Y 2

as a male being 18 years older. the female is 25.

2006-08-03 06:12:00 · 26 answers · asked by bobwolf_2000 1

Last night I am with my husband and I looked at him and realized I don't love him anymore. Its like lately I have been just looking at him and I get disgusted he ask me whats wrong and I just say nothing. Then he gets mad. I dont know I have really tried to make it work, I have stuck by him during his legal problems (prison). He has constantly direspected me and physically abused me. But I feel guilty like I am leaving him. Cause I know he does not have anyone else. But I don't love him, my love has turned to hate and disgust. What do you do I have finally got fed up.

2006-08-03 06:09:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

This question involves a guy that I have know for the past 5 years, due to my uncertainty he allowed himself to get talked into a marriage that he had seconds thoughts about, though the woman has good quality that he admires, he is unhappy. We are not physically involved, but we are emotionally.
I told him that I was unsure of what I wanted so therefore he should move on, now however, we both realise that moving on was not what we wanted. The problem is that there is someone else in our drama now.

2006-08-03 06:08:03 · 32 answers · asked by Solitary 2

the baby was just born and she told me that she at some points in the pregnancy was worried if the baby was mine cause she had slept at her moms house alot while i was gone, but says no way something happened.... then why those thoughts?

2006-08-03 06:07:56 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i am getting married in 2 weeks and we havent finished with all the planning,,, any ideas to keep it simle but nice without losing my mind????

2006-08-03 05:58:08 · 43 answers · asked by tanya b 2

Ok, I eat healthy, workout 6 days a week and never had an STD.

However my penis just fell off. Is there a name for this medical condition? Is there any way I can sew it back on?

2006-08-03 05:56:19 · 11 answers · asked by Lothario 1

I'd like to have a boy.

2006-08-03 05:51:03 · 22 answers · asked by judgemartiniz 5

I come stright home from work cook some times,help out around the house I do the dishes I help out with kids I dont hang out after work don't go out clubin @ all don't drink don't smoke I let my wife know how i feel and what im feeling about her like how sexy she is beautiful she is to me that i want to spend the rest of my life lovin her and only her when not @ work r the park with kids r the grocry store im always aviable 2 her if she needs to talk r anything im taking care home never leaving her alone I found out that she was seeing someone behind my back i didn't confront her i try to make it right maybe something was missing in our marriage i would rub her feet tryed to show affection more spent more time with her just talking the whole time she's seeing him and coming home to me health wise she so-so not doing well had to go to the emergency room i took her once and the other had to call 911 she call the guy shes seeing the night after to apoligize for not b n able 2 c him

2006-08-03 05:50:18 · 20 answers · asked by WhyNotMe 6

2006-08-03 05:50:01 · 37 answers · asked by frsttmshy 2

It's driving her scatty!

2006-08-03 05:42:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is getting married and I'm 1 of 3 braidsmaids. The dress is awful. It doesn't suit me at all. I don't know why I couldn't choose my own dress and shoes. Is this the way its suppose to be? Do I have to say yes? It doesn't feel like an honor............... How do I get over this process. I know, I know its only 1 day!

2006-08-03 05:42:17 · 12 answers · asked by B1 2

2006-08-03 05:37:51 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

Lately I havent been real interested in having sex with my husband. He says it is because he has gotten fat which I dont think is the case because when I was fat he didnt not want to have sex with me. My older sister said she went through this phase but when she hit her 30's she wanted to have sex all the time. Is there something wrong with me or am I just not into my sexual prime yet?

2006-08-03 05:31:25 · 8 answers · asked by fire_fly0434 3

I was out with some friends and had been drinkning when a guy one of my friends knew and I began to talk. He seemed nice but I told him I was married and there was no way he could not have known I am committed to my marriage. At the end of the evening he kissed me and at first I was shocked; when I finally got him to let go of me I yelled at him and walked away. I felt so bad that I told my husband and he now thinks I am cheating. I just wanted to be honest and no I feel like he is questioning my loyalty! Help!

2006-08-03 05:31:25 · 10 answers · asked by lilhaysmom 3

I am an attractive and successful 36 year old blonde but my insides (health wise) are rotten. I have had 6 sugeries and three broken bones in the last 5 years. I am having Kidney problems at the moment. My husband hates that I take pain medicine and monotors my pill bottles ( he has had past relationship with women with non-prescription drug problems) and he passes the experience he had with them onto me. I hate being sick and I hate that it causes him stress but I wish he could understand what it is like to be unhealthy and still keep the family, house and work going at the same time. He says he is stressed out what can I do to help him.

2006-08-03 05:22:49 · 22 answers · asked by monkey f 2

2006-08-03 05:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by ladyro_22 1

2006-08-03 05:17:32 · 12 answers · asked by ladyro_22 1

2006-08-03 05:14:55 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

How to make it really possible???? Guide me please!

2006-08-03 05:09:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 11 and I have a right to know how my parents are getting a divorce.

2006-08-03 05:04:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

They say money isn't everything and the Beatles said all you need is love but why does seem like every thing socially really does revolve around money and lust.

2006-08-03 04:59:54 · 29 answers · asked by Kris 3

most of the posts in here are about bad (low) self-esteem and some self-esteem training/study would solve nearly all of your problems with love, respect, communication, work, dating, marriage, sex, friendship, etc.
bad self-esteem is: you think you're worse than others or the better than others. good self-esteem: you're just OK. bad (unhealthy) self-esteem: you let others do everything or you out do everyone around you. good (healthy) self-eteem: you take responsibility and do your best.
do you have good or bad self-esteem? if good, how did you get it? if bad what are you going to do about that? does it even matter to you so long as you're getting by? would you be interested in self-esteem training if you're unhappy with your life? do you even know where to learn about self-esteem?

2006-08-03 04:46:38 · 5 answers · asked by jimrich 7

What do I tell them................?

2006-08-03 04:45:01 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been fantisicing about sexy women. Is it cheating if I'm not with another man?

2006-08-03 04:41:57 · 32 answers · asked by heavenlyhanayah1 1

I have been married for 27 years and my husband looks at porn then comes to me for the sex, I feel very ugly when this happens, i am not a bad looking woman and I truly love having sex myself, what do I do?? some of you can help I am sure......looking for the right answers to this...

2006-08-03 04:38:39 · 21 answers · asked by JACKIE 1

Me and my fiance has announced the date of the wedding at my home chruch and everybody seems really happy that I made the choice to get married and The person I am getting married to fits every thing I could want in a wife from character all the way to religion and I do love her but i still have some major overbearing feelings (heavy love) for my x we conceived a child and things ended bitter because we were not finacially stable so because of the pain & frustration I look to god for help and begin to read my bible more and concentrate on making sound decisions I don't know whether to go with my heart or whats just the best decision for my life I don't want to be selfish this just seems like a really hard decision I was told that being married to
someone and in love with someonelse is like a slow death please give your best opinon so that I may make the best decision in life

2006-08-03 04:35:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I need to chat to divorced people that is also lonely. Share experiences, give advise and meet for social events, decent, sophisticated honest sociable people.

2006-08-03 04:28:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous