2006-08-03 05:50:01 · 37 answers · asked by frsttmshy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Point at your wedding ring and say, "If you can respect this, I can accept your offer."
That's the only way.
2006-08-03 06:10:09 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Absolutely. Theres nothing wrong with genrosity. Although a lot of men think that a woman accepting a drink may be a few steps closer to letting him into her bed, thats bull. Have fun with your friend and let those guys spend their cash on you.
2006-08-03 05:55:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you accept drinks from guys while married you are either looking to be picked up or using the guy. If you tell the guy I'm married and we aren't going anywhere together and he still offers okay. Otherwise your rep will be one of a user or cheap.
2006-08-03 05:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We ALL know buying someone a drink is just another way of hitting on a girl.
If you accept, you're basically telling the guy it's okay to hit on you...which is TOTALLY disrespectful of the marriage...not to mention wasting the bar guy's money and time.
Just say you're married and buy your own drinks. Everyone wins...
2006-08-03 06:11:15 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh gosh isn't this 2006 of course you can let some bloke buy you a drink it is not like your saying yes to sex
what is wrong with the world
your out having a laugh with your friends being you and not having to be a wife for once
one night of freedom to just in joy the night with the gals
you go gal in joy because life is to short for people trying to tell you no
just because you are married doesn't mean you can not talk to men
respect
shaz
2006-08-03 06:40:22 · answer #5 · answered by sharon B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't send free drinks just to be nice. They send the drinkexpecting something in return and it isn't just general conversation. By accepting the drink your essentially consenting to the possability of something more. It's wrong because your advertising yourself as something your not ( available) and your leading them on. So yeah, it's wrong.
2006-08-03 05:56:48 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughie I think.... I think you should decide based on the individual asking...is he just being nice or does he want more? Regardless of the fact that you have informed him of your marriage. He might STILL be trying to get more... If it seems as though he just wants sex or possibly something along those lines...I'd turn him down. If not, I think you should be ok...I mean if he's buying for all..why not jump right in!
Use that women's intuition! :)
2006-08-03 06:48:09 · answer #7 · answered by littlerandiheather 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
Accepting free drinks, goes with the connotation that you maybe "free or easy" and the gentleman that is supplying them will take it that you are accepting his invitation to get drunk and have a good time and maybe leave with him.
You should decline all offers, as it could lead to "complications" and you dont want to jeopardise your marriage!
I wish you well..
Jesse
2006-08-03 05:55:13 · answer #8 · answered by x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, of course not. He's not just buying you drinks to be nice. It's a way of showing interest in a bar. Don't accept them if you have no intention of showing interest back.
2006-08-03 06:18:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, not everyone that buys you drinks wants to have sex with you....some men are actually just giving without expecting anything in return. Besides if a man wants sex, he should expect to buy more than some silly drinks !
2006-08-03 05:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by honeyinthelexus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know I would say no cause then you are implying that it might could lead to more when it won't and some guy may not take that as an answer when he is buying you drinks he may want more, and you may get hurt.
2006-08-03 05:54:56 · answer #11 · answered by life as we know it 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋