Marriage & Divorce - 3 August 2006

How would you respond if you were asked by your husband/partner/boyfriend to have sex with an other man so that he could watch you. This would have to be an honest request without any hidden aggendas. Would you agree to make him happy or would you disreguard his desires thinking that he was trying to set you up for relationship failure?

2006-08-03 07:59:38 · 18 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3

My friend's parents hate eachother. And worst of all, they're using her to smite one another. i'm not quite sure how to help her cope with it. She doesn't understand what they're doing, but I not truly in the line of fire, see what is going on. I'm a terrible crying pillow. I don't know how to help. I want to help. I feel an obligation, duty, responsiblity to help. She's my one real freind I've got. She broke down once and told me everything from her point of view. her dad was supposed to pick her up this summer, but couldn't pay her mom the expenses, and her mom said he was a dead beat dad who didn't love her. If anyone out there can give me a hand, and explain to me what I can do, I'd love you to the end of time. I just want to know. Anyone from ANY point of view is welcome.

2006-08-03 07:56:55 · 18 answers · asked by Cool it 2

My friend has been in love with this guy for 10 years. He is her older brothers best friend.Out of respect he never asked her out. Now he is married and she is still single. She is still a virgin, at 25. They have been fooling around for a few months. She hasn't given it up. What do you think about her situation? She is certain that he is still the one for her.

2006-08-03 07:55:46 · 7 answers · asked by Susa 3

2006-08-03 07:55:38 · 8 answers · asked by Tommy G 1

2006-08-03 07:54:05 · 6 answers · asked by beegones2012 1

Sometimes he's nice, sometimes's he can be so damn mean. He says he tired, I'm tired too, he says he's stressed , me too, I can't take much more. I love him, and I know he loves me, He is driving me nuts. Yes, I have tried talking to him, it doesn't work.
Anyone who can give me advise, I would apprieciate it.

2006-08-03 07:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by ~ Just Me ~ 5

Vanessa is my husband exgirlfriend and stayed friends with my husband. She lives in texas, we live in Hawaii. They dated about 8 -9 years ago in high school. Currently Vanessa is in a relationship with someone and is hoping to be engaged in about a year....last night i found an I.M. of their chatting. Vannessa asked how I was doing and was just catching up with my husband. But at the end of the conversation she told my husband that she misses him, to which he replied he misses her to. I questioned my husband about this, he told me he does not love her or have feelings for her he just misses her as a friend. But if this was innoccent would you end a chat with "i miss you?" Do friends end conversations like that? My husband said he would not care if I told my friends i missed them. Any advice?

2006-08-03 07:48:34 · 9 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

In Texas if you have lived together & have a child that is over 10 years old but have only been legally married for seven years could your spouse be obligated to pay you spousal support even though the law says you have to be married for 10 years. Also is there such a thing as an early inheritance my husbands mother gave us a house when we were married now my husband says i cant touch it because of early inheritance. During the first part of our marriage I worked and paid the bills then the last four years I was a homemaker & he was the sole provider.

2006-08-03 07:46:51 · 8 answers · asked by Lucky me 1

has never sent me a letter and only sends me a small box of stuff about every 3 months. I tell her things that i need and dont get them. I ens up spending 300 a month on things that i need and snacks and stuff, and she has questioned why i spend so much money, yet she is spending about 1800 each month just on her and my son. She rarely even emails me pictures of my son, and he isnt even a year and a half yet, so he is growing really fast. I ask her over and over to do little things for me like sending pictures and more packages with stuff i need, but she just doesnt do it. Is she a bad wife? what is your opinion?

2006-08-03 07:44:59 · 50 answers · asked by ? 2

I spend all my time with my husband and our daughter. Don't get me wrong I love them both. But I am afraid that if he doesn't start letting me go out and have some time to myself, our marriage will not work out. I don't want that to happen. Every time I tell him I need to go out and have time to myself, he tells me I can't go and he accuses me of cheating on him. I have never cheated on him and I don't know what his problem is. All I want is some time to myself. What should I do?

2006-08-03 07:41:51 · 6 answers · asked by Bree 2

~if he cheated on you, twice, and tells you that he wants you to cheat on him (most likely to make him feel better). Yes, we have a child.

2006-08-03 07:41:44 · 19 answers · asked by Ca-C 3

Could you love a person who is paralyzed from the neck down? That was a question my pastor presented in church when doing a sermon on love... So do you really think you could?

2006-08-03 07:35:01 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

Question for people who are married. If you could be single again for a day, with no strings attached, what would you do? Is there a fantasy you would live out?

2006-08-03 07:34:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I look at his old online journals and torture myself by thinking about how great life must have been with them, he was going through his second divorce when we started talking, and his first 8 yrs ago, he married his 2nd wife after knowing her only 4 months and there are journal entries while me and him were talking, about how much he loves her, when he told me it had been over for a long time..also at the end of his marriage he went to visit a "friend" and they had sex, he then told her he loved her...(this is still a month before we even spoke) Still it hurts me and I dont know why.....What can I do...Is this normal and can I get over it.

I have never been married and feel we wont have a dream wedding because he's done it twice already.. :-(

2006-08-03 07:33:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I never damage the walls in my shop area. She must have bumped the walls with a tool or something. I'm kind of mad at her, should I accuse her or just let it go?

2006-08-03 07:32:45 · 10 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3

2006-08-03 07:27:40 · 8 answers · asked by mrs_care_graham 4

2006-08-03 07:26:38 · 7 answers · asked by celticrobm 1

My wife and I have an honest and open relationship. We don't view love and sex as the same thing. She gets really turned on by the sounds my playmate makes when we play and I 'm turned on by watching her being pleased my her friend. Are there any other people who have enjoyed sharing their partners and would like to communicate about it.

2006-08-03 07:26:01 · 13 answers · asked by open_phunguy 3

My husband and i were in debate about this. Often men look at me from across the room and bow their head down. I find this happens when I look really nice....I asked my husband what this means when the guys old and young do this to me. I asked my husband if he does this to women, he said yes...I think you guys do this to someone who looks "HOT", but my husband said he does it because if you look at someone from across the room its uncomfortable unless you bow your head at them. He refused to say its because the girl is hot. SO, I want to know why do men do this to girls across the room, what does it mean, and do you do this to girls that you think are sexy or hot?

2006-08-03 07:24:07 · 5 answers · asked by dlmvm0612 1

2006-08-03 07:24:00 · 9 answers · asked by Don Dons! 3

First Guys, how many women have you had s_exually before you married or got into a serious relationship?
Now ladies, how many guys have you had prior to getting married?

I will start with myself. I had dated two men before getting married with whom I was active s_exually.

2006-08-03 07:21:06 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 07:18:10 · 20 answers · asked by Jools 2

please help!!!

2006-08-03 07:14:02 · 17 answers · asked by saraipalacios1 1

2006-08-03 07:06:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My wife and I had problems. Honestly, I made the changes on my behalf but my wife fails to make consistant changes. I tried to talk but she had nothing to say.

A couple days ago I told her we shouldn't be together. Now she's being nicer and said she wants to talk.

I am not confident she can make the real change I want: reciprocate the nice things I do for her.

When we go out to talk about our marriage how should I handle it?

2006-08-03 07:03:17 · 17 answers · asked by Sexual Chocolate 1

2006-08-03 07:01:48 · 11 answers · asked by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5

I got married just over a year ago and ever since I have been miserable.

My wife has become very controlling and I feel that it is always me that has to make the sacrifices to avoid fighting. Since we were married, she no longer keeps in touch with her friends and almost never sees them. It feels like any life she had while she was single has disappeared and her only life now is me. I cannot stand this..I feel it is necessary for both of us to have our own lives in addition to the one we share.

She has gained alot of weight and does not seem interested in getting back into shape. I am not physically attracted to her any more and we almost never have sex anymore.

WHAT DO I DO????

2006-08-03 06:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-08-03 06:37:35 · 43 answers · asked by aanstalokaniskiodov_nikolai 5

This is a huge controversy these days. I know where I stand, but where do you? Do you think the government should back off and let homosexuals have the same advantages straight people have in getting married? Or do you feel the government and our president are right in banning gay marraige and fighting billions of people on their right to happiness? You're call! You'll find out my stance when I choose a best answer!

2006-08-03 06:31:21 · 20 answers · asked by moonshadow385 2

After 15 years of marriage, my wife says something has been missing all along. She loves me very much and thinks I am the perfect guy...for someone else...Kids, friends & family complicate things. She had an affair (it's over) but admits that she can't get this guy out of her mind. We are getting counseling, but so far no changes. What should I do?

2006-08-03 06:30:45 · 18 answers · asked by hellsbells 2